It is true that when the chick drops you, you have not dropped her. You can next her by not caring. That is the actual nexting, realizing that there are many more women and that it is her loss, even if she doesn't know it, or never will. This says nothing about her mistake of dropping a great guy, only about the true PUA's acception of such. Accepting is is not liking it, it is realizing and in this case, not caring.