Re-kindle old relationship ...

[Aesthetix29]

okay so to keep a long story short ... I still have feeling for someone I was seeing a few months ago to which fizzled out ... Now we're both on each other's social media and at the minute were playing Facebook likes tennis ... So what would be a good break the ice text too send her ... So she knows I'm interested? Surely it's not as simple as a quick 'hey' text?

 

[Tictac]

It can be done. But it's a major pain in the ass. You need to decide if it's worth it.

There are about a thousand 'get your ex back' programs from the web, including 'text your ex back' ideas.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Technically she's not an ex we was just dating/fvcking! And yes I do think it's worth it, she's a cool girl ... Not a pycho or anything, I just need a decent approach

 

[dustmuffin]

Technically she's not an ex we was just dating/fvcking! And yes I do think it's worth it, she's a cool girl ... Not a pycho or anything, I just need a decent approach

Ask her out. Hey I'm going bowling Saturday. Why don't you come along?

 

[Tictac]

Technically she's not an ex we was just dating/fvcking! And yes I do think it's worth it, she's a cool girl ... Not a pycho or anything, I just need a decent approach

Then look up Michael Fiore's "Text Your Ex Back". But if you're going to do stuff like this, buy one and do the work. I have buds that have done this stuff. All he 'programs' amount to the same thing.

May God have mercy on your soul.

 

[dustmuffin]

Then look up Michael Fiore's "Text Your Ex Back". But if you're going to do stuff like this, buy one and do the work. I have buds that have done this stuff. All he 'programs' amount to the same thing.

May God have mercy on your soul.

Did this work for your buddies? Not trying .yself just curious

 

[Tictac]

Did this work for your buddies? Not trying .yself just curious

Kinda, sorta, maybe.....

One of them got back in touch and has seen an old flame. He thought she'd never speak to him as he ghosted her a couple of years earlier.

 

[dustmuffin]

Kinda, sorta, maybe.....

One of them got back in touch and has seen an old flame. He thought she'd never speak to him as he ghosted her a couple of years earlier.

My mom married her hs sweetheart 35 years after the fact. But that may be different.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Ask her out. Hey I'm going bowling Saturday. Why don't you come along?

That's what I'm thinking ... Just hope I'm not misreading her signals, but she's the type of girl who's really forward, and if she liked me then she'd tell me ... Or st least I think she would.

 

[JohnChops]

Ask her out. Hey I'm going bowling Saturday. Why don't you come along?

tell her you want to get between her 7/10 split.

 

[dustmuffin]

That's what I'm thinking ... Just hope I'm not misreading her signals, but she's the type of girl who's really forward, and if she liked me then she'd tell me ... Or st least I think she would.

Just ask her out dont worry if she likes you.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Thanks for your advice think I'm just going too shoot her a message later saying 'Hey stranger' and see if she replies.

 

[Aesthetix29]

**** it i'm going too bite the bullet and send her this 'Hey stranger ... What you up2?' If she recipricrates then great, if not then atleast I know where I stand and can move on. I have a feeling it's going too be matesy texting.

 

[JohnChops]

"hey stranger what are you up to" REALLY.

That just screams weak dude. Shouldve just texted her saying "hi" or "hey" then some BS fluff talk, then ask when shes free, pick a day, go out. Simple. This whole beatingaround the bush bs must stop.

 

[Tictac]

Thanks for your advice think I'm just going too shoot her a message later saying 'Hey stranger' and see if she replies.

Let us know what the crash site looks like.

You can do way better than that!

 

[Aesthetix29]

Well I've not sent it yet ... Just wanted too keep it simple really, Let's see if I can come up with something better

 

[Tictac]

Recall a good memory with her - Me and a couple friends went to (place you and her went) and (did __________). That place was fun! Like the time you and I ________...

Keep it short, make her smile.

 

[Aesthetix29]

Thanks for the advice tictac .. Much appreciated fella!

 

[Tictac]

My pleasure.

And btw - one message only. Unless you hear back, do not follow it up for at least a month.

 

[Aesthetix29]

yes I know that .. Thanks again and when I actually think of something decent .. I'll keep you all updated m