Re-kindle old relationship ...

Aesthetix29

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okay so to keep a long story short ... I still have feeling for someone I was seeing a few months ago to which fizzled out ... Now we're both on each other's social media and at the minute were playing Facebook likes tennis ... So what would be a good break the ice text too send her ... So she knows I'm interested? Surely it's not as simple as a quick 'hey' text?
 

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It can be done. But it's a major pain in the ass. You need to decide if it's worth it.

There are about a thousand 'get your ex back' programs from the web, including 'text your ex back' ideas.
 

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Technically she's not an ex we was just dating/fvcking! And yes I do think it's worth it, she's a cool girl ... Not a pycho or anything, I just need a decent approach
 

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Technically she's not an ex we was just dating/fvcking! And yes I do think it's worth it, she's a cool girl ... Not a pycho or anything, I just need a decent approach
Ask her out. Hey I'm going bowling Saturday. Why don't you come along?
 

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Technically she's not an ex we was just dating/fvcking! And yes I do think it's worth it, she's a cool girl ... Not a pycho or anything, I just need a decent approach
Then look up Michael Fiore's "Text Your Ex Back". But if you're going to do stuff like this, buy one and do the work. I have buds that have done this stuff. All he 'programs' amount to the same thing.

May God have mercy on your soul.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Then look up Michael Fiore's "Text Your Ex Back". But if you're going to do stuff like this, buy one and do the work. I have buds that have done this stuff. All he 'programs' amount to the same thing.

May God have mercy on your soul.
Did this work for your buddies? Not trying .yself just curious
 

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Kinda, sorta, maybe.....

One of them got back in touch and has seen an old flame. He thought she'd never speak to him as he ghosted her a couple of years earlier.
My mom married her hs sweetheart 35 years after the fact. But that may be different.
 

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Ask her out. Hey I'm going bowling Saturday. Why don't you come along?
That's what I'm thinking ... Just hope I'm not misreading her signals, but she's the type of girl who's really forward, and if she liked me then she'd tell me ... Or st least I think she would.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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That's what I'm thinking ... Just hope I'm not misreading her signals, but she's the type of girl who's really forward, and if she liked me then she'd tell me ... Or st least I think she would.
Just ask her out dont worry if she likes you.
 

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Thanks for your advice think I'm just going too shoot her a message later saying 'Hey stranger' and see if she replies.
 

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**** it i'm going too bite the bullet and send her this 'Hey stranger ... What you up2?' If she recipricrates then great, if not then atleast I know where I stand and can move on. I have a feeling it's going too be matesy texting.
 

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"hey stranger what are you up to" REALLY.

That just screams weak dude. Shouldve just texted her saying "hi" or "hey" then some BS fluff talk, then ask when shes free, pick a day, go out. Simple. This whole beatingaround the bush bs must stop.
 

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And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Well I've not sent it yet ... Just wanted too keep it simple really, Let's see if I can come up with something better :)
 

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Recall a good memory with her - Me and a couple friends went to (place you and her went) and (did __________). That place was fun! Like the time you and I ________...

Keep it short, make her smile.
 

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yes I know that .. Thanks again and when I actually think of something decent .. I'll keep you all updated m
 
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