Raped... kick his ass?

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man it depends my sister said a guy raped her but she didn't even act like it or call the police i'm like you fvckin idiot but it turns out she was faking but if it really happened crying police report and everything i would probably hurt the guy
 
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It's crazy because me being a black guy, most of the stuff we do to women would be considered rape, lol.

Like when I go up to a girl it's usually very aggressive, I smack her azz, and when I am fvckin her or about to fvck her, I literally pick her azz up, throw her on the bed, and go very hard on top of her. Seriously. All this really without her saying, "yeah baby, come fvck me."
 

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DonJuanForever said:
It's crazy because me being a black guy, most of the stuff we do to women would be considered rape, lol.
Are you kidding? Or are you trying to make an obsolete point? Oh I get it, you want to be an AW like the girl in the original post.

Not to hijack this thread, but I read your "sad" post. Your attitude and outlook probably play a big role in why you're depressed.
 

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did you ever consider, that she may have told youi this because she trusts you, considering she never told anyone else, this may be the case.#

But on the other hand she could be lying.

If she trust you enough to tell you this, then you should ask her what she wants to happen, not go and kick some guys ass just when you hearts ruling your head.
 

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speedo_meme said:
Are you kidding? Or are you trying to make an obsolete point? Oh I get it, you want to be an AW like the girl in the original post.

Not to hijack this thread, but I read your "sad" post. Your attitude and outlook probably play a big role in why you're depressed.
donjuan is kidding i'm black too and sh!t women think i'm a nice guy i never got the stereotypical response to being black like oh he must be mean or not a virgin all that stuff but if i were to act like a thug i would get a lot of pvssy
 

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Guys put the macho BS away on this ok.

This is not his concern and dragging this out in the open is not what this girl wants, even if it was true do you think for one second she wants some blathering Neanderthal to go and spread her life around in the form of swift comic book justice, get real.

Also consider what a few others have posted this women may be trouble, she maybe honest.

A girl I was seeing told me the same thing, turns out she still went drinking with this guy (disguised it has seeing her female friend and he was just there) the guy was a total jack ass wuss bagg and it turns out the women I was seeing was an attention seeking hot machine. She pulled the wool over my eyes but when she could not hide the fact that she was still friends with a guy who had supposedly raped her or tried it soon shows she cant be trusted, a real story no women could ever face a guy like that what ever the situation.

She maybe after attention, does she have a lot of male friends, does she flirt a lot, does she still see this guy even if it is with other friends? If it was a true rape she could not stand to be near a guy like that ever, I don’t care what anyone says.

GL to you with this one, no don’t start running around like a man jacked up on Xmen movies, actually think about it, would a normal girl want it out in the open and would a normal girl be able to see this guy again at all?
 

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jonwon said:
Guys put the macho BS away on this ok.

This is not his concern and dragging this out in the open is not what this girl wants, even if it was true do you think for one second she wants some blathering Neanderthal to go and spread her life around in the form of swift comic book justice, get real.

Also consider what a few others have posted this women may be trouble, she maybe honest.

A girl I was seeing told me the same thing, turns out she still went drinking with this guy (disguised it has seeing her female friend and he was just there) the guy was a total jack ass wuss bagg and it turns out the women I was seeing was an attention seeking hot machine. She pulled the wool over my eyes but when she could not hide the fact that she was still friends with a guy who had supposedly raped her or tried it soon shows she cant be trusted, a real story no women could ever face a guy like that what ever the situation.

She maybe after attention, does she have a lot of male friends, does she flirt a lot, does she still see this guy even if it is with other friends? If it was a true rape she could not stand to be near a guy like that ever, I don’t care what anyone says.

GL to you with this one, no don’t start running around like a man jacked up on Xmen movies, actually think about it, would a normal girl want it out in the open and would a normal girl be able to see this guy again at all?
Hey jonwon the don juan i thought about what you are saying and i agree but sometimes guys get mad and can't control themselves easily that is probably what being a dj is all about if this happened to me and really disturbed her i probably would kick the guys ass but only if it really disturbed her and she didn't want to go public with it sometimes girls do fake the funk like if it's been a week and she's laughing partying that is suspicious
 

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Guys!
It seems to me that there are more girls out there with some B.S. rape/molestation victim story than there are who don't!
It's almost as common as the "I'm not like other girls" B.S........

I'd label this one AW and get some a$$ from her......lol (Consentual of course)
 
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CAN SOMEBODY ANSWER THIS QUESTION?

Since we know that most people would answer "YES" and we know that most are going to throw a "if you can prove it" behind the yes... than riddle me this.

How do I know if she is telling the truth?

Can you tell if she is messed up, or sincere?

"Don't trust her words, trust her actions" Does this hold any truth here?

Oh yeah, and what do you do if the girl you have oneitis for gets beat up? If the cops take the guy away, and he is released without a charge, but he is HUGE, would you take a weapon?
 

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There are TONS of threads already about this topic. go do a search. And now days every girl has her own "rape" story. LJC is right with his advice listen to him.
 

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Be VERY careful with this.

It's a serious head****, if it happens a long time into the relationship then it's probably because she wants to get her **** out into the open so you know her better and can accept her.

If it happens early on then....

Girls will tell you this to manipulate you into treating her nicer than you would most other girls. This means that she can now control you.

Don't believe the whole, "I haven't told this to anyone" line of bull****. What makes you soooo special. Ask yourself that.

Allways ask these questions in regard to this: Why is she telling me this?, What does she have to gain? - And be objective!
 

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whatdude said:
What if your girl got raped, but NOT when she was your girl... say you didn't even know the girl at the time. Would you kick that guys ass who raped your girl or what?
Nope.

Only an AFC or an idiot would do something like that.
 

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By control I mean, She is saying:

Feel sorry for me.
We will take the relationship as fast as I want.
We will do things when I want.
My feelings/needs matter more than you.
If we don't have sex, don't pressurise me.

Not allways but generally this will be used by a tease.

Be VERY careful.
 

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jonwon said:
Guys put the macho BS away on this ok.

This is not his concern and dragging this out in the open is not what this girl wants, even if it was true do you think for one second she wants some blathering Neanderthal to go and spread her life around in the form of swift comic book justice, get real.

Also consider what a few others have posted this women may be trouble, she maybe honest.

A girl I was seeing told me the same thing, turns out she still went drinking with this guy (disguised it has seeing her female friend and he was just there) the guy was a total jack ass wuss bagg and it turns out the women I was seeing was an attention seeking hot machine. She pulled the wool over my eyes but when she could not hide the fact that she was still friends with a guy who had supposedly raped her or tried it soon shows she cant be trusted, a real story no women could ever face a guy like that what ever the situation.

She maybe after attention, does she have a lot of male friends, does she flirt a lot, does she still see this guy even if it is with other friends? If it was a true rape she could not stand to be near a guy like that ever, I don’t care what anyone says.

GL to you with this one, no don’t start running around like a man jacked up on Xmen movies, actually think about it, would a normal girl want it out in the open and would a normal girl be able to see this guy again at all?
Exactly. Exellent post.

Many kids or men that know NOTHING about life giving advice and acting all macho.
 

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No to everthing, it's not your business. If she is your LTR gf then things change, however otherwise you don't owe her any chivalous behaviour at all.

Girls will use nice guys to do what they can't do, don't be played.
 

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d9930380 said:
Stackthestyles

No to everthing, it's not your business. If she is your LTR gf then things change, however otherwise you don't owe her any chivalous behaviour at all.

Girls will use nice guys to do what they can't do, don't be played.

Even if she is a LTR gf...my advice is the same. Heck, I don't care she is a wife.

I find it odd that she didn't take that "rapist" to the authorities...but she is telling him about it?
 

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d9930380 said:
Stackthestyles

No to everthing, it's not your business. If she is your LTR gf then things change, however otherwise you don't owe her any chivalous behaviour at all.

Girls will use nice guys to do what they can't do, don't be played.

Even if she is a LTR gf...my advice is the same. Heck, I don't care she is a wife.

I find it odd that she didn't take that "rapist" to the authorities...but she is telling him about it?
 

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Yea - I've seen all kinds of this kind of ****.

Abusive bf where the girl has tried to get my AFC mate who likes her to try and fight her battle. She won't leave him but she thinks that will change the bf's behaviour.

Effectively - My mate would be putting himself in danger for NO reason, luckily he saw this and lost alot of respect for her and broke contact.

Sometimes girls USE guys. Remember that!
 

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Latinoman said:
Nope.

Only an AFC or an idiot would do something like that.
Now why would you say something like that? Do you really believe that all those who disagree with you are idiots? Listen. This universe is perfectly just. If you harm someone, it always and i mean ALWAYS comes back to you in some shape or form. Now, raping a girl is a horrible fvcking thing to do. For that, some serious justice needs to be dealt out. And i would be perfectly content, even happy, to be the one who delivers it. Defending (and if it's too late to defend, avenging) the weak is our responsibility, it's in our blood.
 
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