Random Facts.

[stevo]

Never argue with a woman.
It either makes you look like an arse or it makes you look inexperienced.
Neither is good for your conscience.

When a woman yaps about something, she wants to feel heard.
Don't show frustration. Hear her opinion.

That's a good point baby.
Wow, those are good ideas sweetie, let's try this instead (your idea).

Hear her out, then tell her what to do.

Keep your opinion to yourself and to your boys.
She wants to feel like part of the solution, let her.
She wants a pat on the head. Pat her.

Don't try to make her understand. You should have more important things to do.
Let her understand by your actions.

Women = emotion over logic.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Never argue with a woman.
It either makes you look like an arse or it makes you look inexperienced.
Neither is good for your conscience.

When a woman yaps about something, she wants to feel heard.
Don't show frustration. Hear her opinion.

That's a good point baby.
Wow, those are good ideas sweetie, let's try this instead (your idea).

Hear her out, then tell her what to do.

Keep your opinion to yourself and to your boys.
She wants to feel like part of the solution, let her.
She wants a pat on the head. Pat her.

Don't try to make her understand. You should have more important things to do.
Let her understand by your actions.

Women = emotion over logic.

Becoming my favorite thread. Needs sticky. Keep posting these. Shouldn't be called facts but something like commandments or something. (Just for shíts and giggles.)

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Gonna disagree with Stevo on the last point. Argue with your women, tell them they are retarded, be passionate about something, anything.

There are enough guys saying "yes dear". Be strong in your beliefs and values.

The one thing a woman wants is passion. Have it in all areas of your life.

 

[stevo]

Gonna disagree with Stevo on the last point. Argue with your women, tell them they are retarded, be passionate about something, anything.

There are enough guys saying "yes dear". Be strong in your beliefs and values.

The one thing a woman wants is passion. Have it in all areas of your life.

Exactly. What you posted is the foundation.

Being strong in your beliefs and values is DJ 101. Everyone on here should at least know that.

The concept posted builds on that foundation.

So, let's clarify.

You can argue. The point isn't saying don't argue. You can do whatever you want, you're the man.
— do whatever you want as long as you're aware of its pending results. Inexperienced or an arse.

I can make a plate bat sheet upset moments before I stuff her yapping mouth with my cokc and proceed to fcuk her brains out.
The pissing off is a set up for good sex. As long as I look like an arse rather than inexperienced. The latter would dry up the panties.

When a person gives you power over their emotions, you want to keep it that way, using the power whichever way pleases you, without them knowing how much power you actually have over them.

If you make them feel stupid for giving you that power, they will take it away, even worse give it to someone else.

Alpha's are not yes man's. We agree, acknowledge, ignore, whoever, whenever to please ourselves and fulfill our objectives.

When an Alpha acts like a yes man, the wise should be scared.

A King doesn't just lay the law, He'd sometime let others do the heavy thinking.
He'd agree with them, make them feel special knowing the King is counting on them and many would give their life before they disappoint their King.
Reason being, the King makes you feel like you're part of the process.

Don't be a tyrant, no one like tyrants. Be a leader of men.

 

[stevo]

Subconscious superiority:

Stop saying "I thought". That places the person over you, with you answering to them.

It also shows you're doubting yourself. Alpha never doubt.
Everything He does is the right thing to do even when it's not, He'd adjust along the way.

State your action but do not start with the phrase "I thought".

I thought it was a good idea to come over
I thought you gave me the kiss me eyes
I thought I had it under control
I thought I know where I was going

See the pattern, see the problem? Easy fix!

Ooze confidence.

 

[stevo]

Dominant Presence.

When you sit, you should "fill up the seat".
Your back on the back rest. Your whole feet (front and back) should be on the ground, both legs.
One leg shouldn't be bent to the side. Your toes shouldn't be the only part on the floor with the back of your feet hanging off the leg rest.
Feet should solidly be on the ground, just like you're standing.

If your legs won't touch the ground, avoid that seat.
Avoid the image of a child's leg dangling when people look at you.

Your arms should be on the arm rest, not fidgeting something, not on your waist, not touching or scratching your face. Definitely not picking or wiping your nose.

Head facing straight. Not looking at the ceiling, not counting dust on the ground.

If you don't want to maintain eye contact, look above the person's head.
They can see your face but notice you're not paying attention to them.

Own that atmosphere.

 

[stevo]

Always talk to a beech.

If a girl is by herself a few feet from you, at the grocery store, at the bar, at the bus stop, at the mechanic, don't matter, always say something.
"Hey, how are you doing?", "that's a nice car, what year is it?", "how you doing? what you shopping for tonight?", don't matter, say something.

Screen for a wedding ring when you can, some will subtly show you by wiping their face with their left hand.

Always say something to beeches around you. You want to have the always approaching mindset, do it every time, make it a habit.

You don't have to marry her, you don't have to carry the convo long, but say something, always say something. You never know.

Like Pook said, Hesitation leads to Masturbation.

Adjust your cause, redirect your effect.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

Here's one.
If a woman immediately touches her hair after seeing you, like she is fixing it or is self conscious suddenly, she finds you attractive. Even if she is doing it while walking away from you. It doesn't mean you're in, but it means you have a shot.

 

[Trainwreck]

If you are posting about a girl on this site, 8 times out of 10 it's a lost cause. This site is mainly used to remedy the blow and help you make better decisions onward.

 

[Juanto]

If you are posting about a girl on this site, 8 times out of 10 it's a lost cause. This site is mainly used to remedy the blow and help you make better decisions onward.

yes, we usually only post here about trainwrecks

 

[Roober]

Everyone talks.
Only the disciplined learn when not to talk.
Be disciplined. Learn to shut up.


Alpha takes care of the people who look up to him. Not necessarily financial but alpha makes sure everything runs smooth.
Alpha anticipates the future and what would be needed so Alpha make arrangements for its delivery before the simple folks realize its importance.
When people have to be somewhere on time, Alpha helps them make it possible.

Make people reliant on you.

If you do not take care of those who look up to you,
they will become self sufficient, no longer revering respect and fear towards you but commonality and disgust.
The simple do not forgive an alpha who makes them have to think for themselves.
Be the oracle everyone comes to for knowledge, for approval, for acceptance.

A woman loses respect for the man when she has to do everything she wishes the man does to her and for her.

Take care of her and make her work for you not for herself.

I have found myself excessively guilty of learning not to shut up! I am probably a 70% listener, but when I do talk, it is not well thought out and I stay stupid azzzzz things. Thinking about my last relationship...
-I asked "how do you feel about us?"
-told her how I feel wayyyyyyy too much
-told her I loved her wayyyyy too much, probably every time we talked...
-talked about meeting her kid... eesh!
-told her I knew the breakup was coming, sigh... self-fullfilling prophecy
-probably so much more...

I have to get better at filling empty time with chit chat...

 

[ubercat]

Chit chat is easier than you think. go interesting places and comment on what you see. so if you see a girl walking her dog ask her what kind of dog she likes if it's true that people start to look like their dogs blah blah. if you did that home it would just seem weird. when you are out because you have both seen that it's fine. this is an easy skill to practice at the mall with shop assistants.

 

[stevo]

Good Habit.

It's OK to take a knee when doing something like fixing a cabinet or eating your woman out
however your woman should at no time ever see you on both your knees.
Find other ways to bend and reach your target without both knees on the ground at the same time.

 

[stevo]

Never admit to this.

When she's mad at you find a reason to make it her fault. Find a reason to be mad at her even if you're not act like you are.

You see, when she's mad at you and you're mad at her, common ground is you both let go of your anger.

When she's mad at you and you're not mad at her, common ground is you apologize to her. Her frame over powering yours.

Apology shouldn't be a habit.

Know your girl. This is most effective with girls that try to act tough.

If your girl is of the meek mind, feminine vanilla and you know going cold blooded would rip her to shreds,
use this only when she's done major fcuk ups to remind her how it'd feel when you dump her.
Use very rarely.

Feminism says: It's always your fault.
Your attitude: It's always her fault.

Save your apologies for major fcuk ups like getting caught ducking her sister

 

[stevo]

When you're doing it right (being most Alpha) your beech would never really know the true you.
Your beech should never really know what you're thinking.
But you most likely won't do it right. Men go stupid for some good pussie.
Do your best.

Learn how to act happy when you're mad
Learn how to act mad when you're happy.

A beech should never control your mood. When you facially express happiness or sorrow or anger should never be influenced by a beech.

 

[stevo]

Make it a habit:

Wait at least five minutes before responding to any text message you receive, especially if it's non emergency.

Don't say NO for her. Ask her, then give her a chance to accept or decline by herself.

Always think YES.
Should I ask her out? Yes!
Should I kiss her? Yes!
Is now a good time? Yes!
Does she like me? Yes!
Does she want me inside her? Yes!
Does she think of me that way? Yes!
Is she waiting for me to open her? Yes!

 

[stevo]

For any attraction to survive, there has to be a dominant and a submissive. Be the dominant. Learn how to be comfortable being the dominant.


We are men. We do not "steal looks". We look with intent. Turn your face, turn your head, let her or him know you are intentionally looking at them at that particular time, then withdraw your attention.
Do not look from the corner of your eyes, that's what women do.
You're not embarrassed by being attracted to her. We don't do things by mistake. We know what we are doing.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Being dominant doesn't mean controlling a**hole. It just means that you lead when you want to and you both know that when you make a decision that is what happens.

If she wanta to initiate sex, great, but it is happening because you are allowing it to happen and she knows that.

 

[stevo]

Dealing with a woman is like being on the dance floor.

If you dance too close to her for too long, you'll suffocate her.

If you allow too much space between you too for too long, someone else could scoop in, you lose her.

You control this to make sure the dance never stops. Not suffocating her. Not bringing too much gap.

Dance close, give space, pull her in, step back.

 

[stevo]

Suggestion is a form of control.
Use it as an ally.
"You should text me sometime"
"I think you look better wearing this"
"You should buy this one, makes you look younger"
"You should wrap your arms around me whenever you're cold"
"You should take this with you"

Works best with strong headed chics who rebel against direct control --being told what to do.



When your confidence is down, when you feel low self esteem,
Take A Cold Bath.

For confidence boost, take a cold shower at least once a week.
Also do it before you go meet a chic.
Keeps you calm and confident.