Question for the more experienced guys.

[satelliteparties]

Is sex with a difficult woman (high-maintenance, snobby, ditzy, materialistic, really really hot girl with an ego, or girl that thinks she's really hot, or only likes the 10 percent type of men or guys that can boost her status) that much better than sex with an attractive woman with a better personality but not as much raw sex appeal?

And is it worth the price of admission and putting up with everything else?

 

[speed dawg]

Definitely worth it while your pounding the pvssy while twisting her into crazy positions and she's dripping her pvssy juice all over the place. And definitely when I bust on their tits when my thumb jammed up her arsehole.

After that, nah, they ain't worth too much.

 

[Slickster]

In my experiences no.

Some women are better lovers than others. It's not necessarily a looks or personality thing. It is also very dependant on the connection you share.

Great sex can be hot, crazy, and wild but it can also be sensual and spiritual. Both can be great.

This is something you need to experience for yourself....

 

[satelliteparties]

I've been in bed with a girl once...the first girl I dated and we were fooling around (she was down to her panties...on her period) and we did everything (except I didn't go down on her but she did for me) and it was weird to be honest...for me it was an emotional type thing because I "liked" her...yeah liked her looks a lot, but more in a romantic type way than a sexual type way. The actual foreplay stuff wasn't a big deal for me other than the fact that it was with a girl I liked and cared about. (We started fighting several days later over other stuff and broke up a week or two after that so the sex never happened...so it was just a matter of bad luck.)

Looking back on it, I could have kept my mouth shut (I have a tendency to let my opinions out...kind of like George in Seinfeld) and maybe the sex would have happened soon thereafter...but it would have been a disaster anyway...I had strong feelings for her...I was just the cute guy she was dating at the moment to her, nothing more, nothing less...so I'm kind of glad it wasn't with her.

I guess I'm just wondering if straight up sex with someone you don't really respect but think is sexually attractive is as good as the guys in the main forum would make you believe that it would be worth putting up with shady behavior to get to that point?

After I lose the vcard, whenever I do, I might just pay a hot escort for that type of sex...I mean when you think about it, with a free hot douche girl, you're paying with time, stress, and money in different ways anyway.

 

[Victory Unlimited]

Many women who fit the category you just described are prone to use their looks as a bargaining chip to get the things that they want from a guy. They are both "used to" and "skilled at" giving guys that they know that are interested in them "just enough" to continue keeping them living in the manner in which they've grown accustomed to.

Also, if they're high-maintenance, self-absorbed chicks who REALLY are into taking much more than they receive, your only hope of fully enjoying them sexually is if they're straight up "freaks" too.

BUT-----if they're not, it's a high likelihood that they may just turn out be the type that will just "lay there" expecting you to be able to get your rocks just by virtue of them laying "butt-booty naked" in your presence.

The way I see it, it's a gamble either way. So if you're hellbent on playing this game, I personally wouldn't advise you make it a HIGH STAKES one.

 

[satelliteparties]

I was talking to that type of girl the past couple weeks on text and aim (met her on pof) she seemed nice but had immediate red flags (adopted at a young age, not in contact with her real parents, moved in with an ex con 2 days after meeting him because she had nowhere else to go etc.) but I figured why not just go with it, meet her in person see if I can get sex out of it.

Anyway so she aims me randomly today telling me I should go to her work and buy life insurance. I don't get it until a few hours later and tell her "Um no" (Yes I know I could have responded to it better but that's besides the point) so she said she doesn't date cheap guys, good luck. So I tell her I'm not cheap I just don't do something because a girl I've never met tells me to, she says whatever bye, I say later.

I'm just wondering if sex with this woman...as far as even seeing her naked (amazing body at least in the pics) and knowing "I got her" would have even been worth it.

From what you guys are saying, this type of woman would just be full of b.s. or she'd lay there and let the guy do the work.

 

[DMSR76]

Also, if they're high-maintenance, self-absorbed chicks who REALLY are into taking much more than they receive, your only hope of fully enjoying them sexually is if they're straight up "freaks" too.

BUT-----if they're not, it's a high likelihood that they may just turn out be the type that will just "lay there" expecting you to be able to get your rocks just by virtue of them laying "butt-booty naked" in your presence.

Ain't that the truth.... Highly self-absorbed chicks are most often terrible lays.

 

[satelliteparties]

I don't care how hot a girl is to society (yeah generally I like women who would at least be cute/decent to the average male.) The problem is that I like curvy bodies...nice asses and/or nicely shaped tits...and most of the women that have those type of bodies where I live are the self-absorbed kind. I'd gladly take a more plain/cute/girl next door woman with that type of body.

http://www.plentyoffish.com/member25943537.htm

This is the kind of girl I'd prefer/ideal, but is hard to find where I live. I love the whole cute/regular face, pale skin, big boobs but not chubby/fat thing.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Been with many dif. types of girls,The best sex I've ever had would be from two seperate chicks. One was a hb6 and another an hb9. IT IS ALL DEPENDENT OF PERSONALITY. A girls looks, no matter how good or how bad will have zero to little impact of how she performs in bed. I used to think all really hot chicks werent good in bed, it's a false theory.

 

[old married dude]

Many women who fit the category you just described are prone to use their looks as a bargaining chip to get the things that they want from a guy. They are both "used to" and "skilled at" giving guys that they know that are interested in them "just enough" to continue keeping them living in the manner in which they've grown accustomed to.

Also, if they're high-maintenance, self-absorbed chicks who REALLY are into taking much more than they receive, your only hope of fully enjoying them sexually is if they're straight up "freaks" too.

BUT-----if they're not, it's a high likelihood that they may just turn out be the type that will just "lay there" expecting you to be able to get your rocks just by virtue of them laying "butt-booty naked" in your presence.

The way I see it, it's a gamble either way. So if you're hellbent on playing this game, I personally wouldn't advise you make it a HIGH STAKES one.

That's been my experience too with really narcissistic HB 9's and above. They were pretty much bad lays & wouldn't want to give back much, like giving you head.

Really, the hottest sex I've ever had were with girls who were in the 5-6 range looks-wise, pretty average girls who are just a little bit cute. These girls seemed to know that they had to rock in bed in order to keep a guy coming back for more. Girls like this were fun, willing to experiment, and would give amazing blow jobs. Even though these girls weren't hotties, they were able to keep me coming back for more b/c they would blow my mind in the bedroom.

 

[jafyk]

Did you ever recover your mind? Lol.

 

[Falcon25]

You may want to ask this to our homosexual community member named "ELMER GANTRY". Try to pm him, coming from a gay point of view, he will give you insight on this topic, fair and balanced. In the two weeks he has been here, he has given lot's of people great advice. Try to look him up.
Good luck!

 

[KarmaSutra]

You may want to ask this to our homosexual community leader named "Falcon25".

I thought you made a bakers dozen threads about leaving?

You're an attention seeking cvm slag. There will never be anything special about you. We've all witnessed the true you and seen you act like a girl with your labia torn.

Fvck off.

 

[Falcon25]

I thought you made a bakers dozen threads about leaving?

You're an attention seeking cvm slag. There will never be anything special about you. We've all witnessed the true you and seen you act like a girl with your labia torn.

Fvck off.

You may want to ask this question to our homosexual member named "ELMER GANTRY" and also "KarmaSutra". PM them if you can. Coming from a gay point of view, they have answers that will solve your problems. Look them up! Good luck!