Question about virginity...

[Luke Skywalker]

I have slept with 2.5 virgins in my life, and will not do it again, for the same reason most girls will not sleep with you if they find out - virgins generally suck in bed and must be taught everything.

With all that free porn going around on the internet, nobody has to be taught anything. Doesn't pornography show people how to have sex?

However, with the chick logic, there is an added bonus - As soon as you tell her you are a virgin she will make her eyes real big and exclaim "I have to go, I can't take your virginity!"

Well, disclosing you are a virgin 'voluntarily' in that context says that you are not ready or comfortable to have sex.

So if you are asking is it bad that you are a virgin at 23? It depends. I think it is because your mind is not wired to constantly think sex and flirt.. but at the same time this could be a good thing since it doesnt distract you.

Everybody's mind on here is wired to think sex - but it's the flirting or social part of things that's ackward.

If you want advice, do what I did - read the "Sir_Chancelot's Love Making Guide" and DO NOT say you are a virgin, do not say how many chicks you ****ed, and , if you put in the work, you should have her saying "Wow, that was awesome" and have no worries.

This dude played a truth and dare game, and on the truth side of things disclosed he was a virgin. The real question is, should a virgin even play a truth or dare game if there is a bunch of girls around that can talk, given the risks that question could be brought up.

So, in the future, virgins should not play truth and dare games, and make up some excuse that they have to go someplace, to avoid such a question coming up, especially in a stupid game like that.

GL[/QUOTE]

 

[itishe]

Ken some girls at that age would love to find a virgin.

 

[Hitman10000]

It doesn't matter, girls always know when they're dealing with a virgin. The thing you should care more about is trying to make your life the best it can be.

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

if a dude practices on a blow-up doll, how would the girl know he's a virgin? And even if she does notice, just say "i was in a car crash, I lost most of my memory"

 

[lordson]

virgins aren't that great it bed, and you are a bit old now to still be a virgin, here down in Australia the average is more like 18-19, hardly anybody past 21

anyway, yeah youre not going to be that great in bed the first few times, guaranteed, no matter how naturally talented you think you are, or how much porn you watch

 

[Rebound Material]

So what exactly makes you good in bed?

I know for sure the time you last in bed is a major factor and also if she cums or not...

 

[lordson]

i reckon not doing the porno thing and just jackhammering yourself into her is important, beucase she wont feel a thing

once i was going real slow, and she really felt and liked that

and dont worry about how long you can last, you get used to the sensation with time and will naturally last longer, unless you have a physical problem in which case there aint' nothing you can do about it anyway so youll just have to put up with that

AND

remember that women still enjoy sex even if they dont climax, and women report that they dont climax that often during sex (if the media is to be believed)

 

[manbearpig]

If you want advice, do what I did - read the "Sir_Chancelot's Love Making Guide" and DO NOT say you are a virgin, do not say how many chicks you ****ed, and , if you put in the work, you should have her saying "Wow, that was awesome" and have no worries.

That's ****ing horse **** to have to pretend you're not a virgin your first time. I wouldn't do that.

 

[( . )( . )]

I don't know why some guys bother to type this type of crap, it has absolutely no basis of truth at all.

Woman couldn't care less if a guy was a virgin at 40, if she is attracted to him it isn't going to bother her.

Not all guys who are virgins are shy, nor are all virgins of a lower social status, some are confident around woman until it comes to sex, there are many reasons for this, most are psychological I guess, others don't wish to engage in sex until they meet the right woman.

I think a lot of guys think they are experts on everything, but attractive woman will date a guy who is a virgin if she likes him enough.

I don't know why so many guys talk about being of higher value or social status because they have had sex with many woman, if the amount of sexual activity makes for a male being better than the other, then my pet Tom Cat has trumped you all, how stupid can guys get.

Excluding priests and sh!t, 40 year old virgins are preceived (and usually are) as social fvckups to chicks, sorry dude its just the way it is, you can hum and haw and try to tell me different or try to use a 1 off case as an example until the cows come home but I'm still not gonna buy it.

And trust me mate, the concept of low status and high status males is very real to women.

 

[Scorched]

I'm a girl. I guess it depends on the type of girl. There are some girls who don't like virgins I guess. Maybe they care more about the sex than the guy. Or maybe sex is all they are looking for and they wanna be sure it's gunna be good.
But then there are girls like me who could care less if you're a virgin or not. There is this guy I like, and if I found out he was a virgin, guess what, I'd like him even more.

Bull****, I'm calling you out on this...
Women don't know what they want!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just like you'd tell me to buy a girl this and that for a gift, and if a guy did that for you... You'd say some **** along the lines of he's too nice...

I used to always tell women I've only been with 2 people...
First was love, 2nd was to get over the first... It worked well, I should use it again.

 

[surrender83]

Interesting perspectives. In all honesty, if a woman is into you it shouldn't matter. Would a 23 year old virgin woman be a turn off to you guys(assuming she's willing to have sex with you)?