Courtesy of Player Supreme RIP, as well as relevant to the subject of surrender (as it applies to power):
Brillant quote and awesome analogy
People need to make the difference between the female ''girls'' and female who are ''women''.
Girls will run and jump and next you and will power struggle you all the time etc... they usually the females we read about here or the ''seeking better guys'' or the one that jump the ship at the first red light.
Women are those who have become mature... either 1) by sexual experience 2) by life experience 3) or both
Some will downplay their emotions for the ''nice guy''
Some will end up with a ''good guy''
Some will settle down by themselve
People are just kids longer, they reach maturity far later... if they ever get mature.... but that Time has ALOT of TIME to affect your dating prospect.
You want a dance partner... man need to learn to lead, woman knows how to submit and grow within the frame the man allow her to develop in. (girls don't know how)
The man is the one that decide the frame of the woman and she either submit or left out.
Sure there is all kind of females (the ones you ONS, the one you date, the one you make babies, the one you LTR, the one you dream about etc..) at the end... if you date a girl, its likely you are a boy inside somewhere... if you date a woman its either you are a man or she has imposed herself on you.
Dancing teach you leading and frame... You need options, you need frame, you need to be leading, you need maturity etc... Like PlayerSupreme said: eventually one will jump in YOUR BOX... and you can lead her. If you can lead her, you can improve her... make her ''quality'' in aspect she might lack but have room for improvement (you'll know which one from your experience and lifestyle you live in, cause you lead her in YOUR lifestyle)
You must WANT to lead her... not ''need'' to lead... it comes mutual and you must be happy with it (she doesnt have to be the pretiest, sexiest,smarts etc etc... not the best at one or multiple attributes of your dating life...
She has to be the BEST at how happy you feel with her and genuine happinest.. how with her the whole picture is better than anyone previous)
In modern dating... alot of people take the easy option of jumping to the next... to NEXT and it's never been easier.
However, you know what's never been easier? Getting laid, getting girls, and being a distinct quality male.
The game might change, the tools to play the game might change... but there are rules that never changes, no matter the ERA.
The Core rules survive time, era, revolutions, change... These are:
1) Quality people are always on top
2) You need to approach to win
3) You need to improve and learn everytime
4) You need to WANT IT
5) You need to be restless in action
If you have any core rule... feel free to add them here and discuss