I'll give you my (self-proclaimed) professional opinion :
All these texts that you've been sending this girl would have been better received as phone calls.
One of the mad players I used to hang out with taught me that one night. We were at the bar, and he was like watch this. He walked up to the girl, started talking, then within about 10-20 min they were on the dancefloor making out.
They eventually swapped numbers near the end of the night, when we all left early for an after-party. About a half-hour after the bar ended, he called her and just was like, "Hey, I'm just calling to make sure that you made it home allright. Ok good, I'll talk to you soon so we can get together again. Ok, goodnight."
Then, after he hangs up he mentioned to all of us in the car, as we're pulling up to the after party. "Chicks love that stuff, it shows that you are caring and shyt." That girl, btw, ended up being his flavor of the week.
Let's talk about this from the level of rapport. When you build rapport with someone, whether it happens or not depends alot on your body language (70%), your voice tone (24%) and the words (6%). Therefore, when you are in person it's easiest to build rapport with someon, because it's your body that helps you out. When you are talking on the phone, your ability to build (or build on the rapport that you previously built) is about 30% as effective as in person because all the other person has to go by is the voice tone and the words themselves. So, when you are texting (and the same goes for MSN, YAHOO, etc) all the other person gets are the words themselves... so you better friggin be good with your words, or have a good rapport with her already because your only working your game at the 6% level.
Mind you, 6% is all that those people that meet online get to start with, and that works for some people. And if all you got is a phone conversation your still at 30% which is alot better than nothing (and is part of the reason why people are compelled to gesture as tho the person is next to them even if they both have no chance of seeing each other). Why would you cut yourself short any more than necessary?
(I hope I explained that well).
I also regretfully inform you that you are dead in the water with this girl. UNLESS SHE CALLS YOU! in which case you would have already gamed her enough that you will either get a date or a definitive answer.
