Pua Openers Thread!!: Post Your Openers Here!!!

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DJs and PUAs...We all know how much easier pickup is when you have a good opener, it breaks the ice and also creats attraction and interest!

Post up all your openers here!!! ok here are the rules:

1) Tell us what the Opener is called and explain how to do it.

2) You have to show how you would do it. (how you would open and in what enviroment)

3) THEY HAVE TO HAVE BEEN SUCESSFULY FIELD TESTED!!

4) Any openers by Mystery, Style, Tyler Durden, etc is OK too...post them on here so the people that dont know them now know.

OK....without further adew...let start this!!!! Lets see some really good ones guys!!.....
 

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DJs and PUAs...We all know how much easier pickup is when you have a good opener, it breaks the ice and also creats attraction and interest!

Post up all your openers here!!! ok here are the rules:

1) Tell us what the Opener is called and explain how to do it.


aright, this opener is called an "I like you opener" and shark is the one who technically is the expert of it. The opener is pretty much direct, just going up to a girl and telling her you like her and you want to get to know her.


2) You have to show how you would do it. (how you would open and in what enviroment)

I love using ILY game during the day, as im more into day game. but typically i've used it in a mall or outside on campus. What i usually do is see a girl usaully sitting down somewhere...i walk right up to her and say

"I like you...I would like to get to know you" with a seductive smile and bedroom eyes. This opener definitely depends on body language and voice tonality, have to have a good frame to do this, if ur starting out...might not work as well at first as u can't appear too nervous when doing it. I believe this opener is more powerful than an indirect one, as i've literally gotten girls with dialated eyes/sparkle in their eyes when i go up to them, but so far since i've done it...i've been caught off guard with how well they responded and kinda ran out of things to say. Also, i've gotten better responses with it than an indirect.
Other good ones i like are:

"You're beautiful...i would like to meet you"
"You're cute...i want to get to know you"
"Hi...I want to meet you"
"Hi...i'm so attracted to u that its making me nervous. I want to meet you"<IF UR FEELING NERVOUS>

Haven't gotten a negative response yet...its just up to me to do well further in the interaction.

The reasons why they are effective is, because in my opinion...women want this kind of approach...yet most guys don't do this the right way. They'll either just say, "I think ur beautiful" "Your hot" which is just a compliment...got to lead into wanting to meet them too.
 

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Hi, can i join you?
Yea, that could work too...or saying I would like to join you.
 

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Aren't openers just to start conversation?


Anyway the openers I tend to use if I end up with nothing else to say...

1. "You're kind of cute...I had to come meet you"

How?
- Walk up to the set, tap them. Display dominance and say opener. After the opener plow.

2. "Hey guys...check this out real quick...Do homeless people have friends?" (Based on true life experience)

- Walk to the set, tap them. Display dominance and say opener. Go into the story where a homeless person came in a store, got disrespected, said some sh!t and told the person he's lucky she didn't go get her "homeboys" and shoot up the place. After plow from there

3. Da Claw (Been doing this lately)
- Go into the set and claw them in, sometimes will say "You're my new gf...for the next 5 minutes. Roleplay, stories, FAPs, all that good stuff. That could last for about 15-20 minutes.

Soon to test out openers
1. Tyler's new famous "Who are you" opener.
- Basically open with "Who are you" and plow
 

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Hey plowman, pretty good stuff...but i don't think those kinds of stories are needed.
 

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I don't know how many of you have seen those new(er) cingular phones that are really, really small. World's smallest flip phones. Anyways, I bought one last summer (same price as a razr).

While already in meaningless banter with lady...

Pull out phone to check time/texts/etc.

Her: "What a small phone! It's so cute"
Me: "Yeah, it's alright, I'd prefer something with a little more weight but there's just so little room down there, I need one like this"
Her: "Oh, themastro87! You're so sexy! Please have sex with me? Please?"

Other variations
1.
Her: "What a small phone! It's so cute"
Me: "Yeah, it's an awesome phone. It's great, it's even psychic!"
Her: "really? How?"
Me: *shakes phone*"it says you aren't wearing any panties right now"
Her: "It's wrong"
Me: "Oh, sorry, it's 2 hours fast"
2.
Her: "What a small phone! It's so cute"
Me: "Yeah, it's pretty sweet, picks me up hella chicks too"
CONTINUE WITH TEXT ABOVE
3.
Her: "What a small phone! It's so cute"
Me: "Yeah, I'm like a mix between Zoolander and John Tucker" (all girls know JT is a piiimp)

These are simple lines, obviously to pick up girls, they work break because they get them laughing. I'm by no means a PUA or DJ, I'm still learning, but I garauntee this stuff works for instant attraction. I seriously use these all the time to break the ice.
 

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Maybe we should say what age of women (girls) these lines typically work with.
 

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At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Maybe we should say what age of women (girls) these lines typically work with.
The lines really have nothing to do with actually getting the girl, but just to answer your question the "you're kind of cute" line, I've said to girls ranging from ages 17-35. (Maybe higher as one girl said she was old enough to be my grandmother and I swore she looked 30 at most)

As for the story I usually say it because it was funny when it happened and the whole reason I ended up using it was because right after it happened I was there sitting and really wondering of the homeless person has friends. Like a group of homeless people shooting up a store with some old guns. An we basically was playing around with that story and thats how I ended up telling girls about it. An then I tried it as an opener.
 

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come on guys...when i said OPENERS i didnt mean..."Hi, How are you?" and stuff like that...even though it is an opener its boring and lame!! NO LAME ONES PLEASE. You guys can get more creative then that right??

..and if your going to post a comment about an opener...PLEASE LEAVE ONE YOURSELF. TAKE ONE, LEAVE ONE.

ok heres mine...

Say your at a resturant or and outside lounge spot, you see a set of HBs you would like to approach.. there is an EMPTY SEAT at their table, you simply go up and say...

DJ: "Excuse me ladies, is this seat taken?"

HBs: "No.." or "Oh No....go ahead."

Then you proceed to sit down in the seat in relief....

DJ: "Thank goodness!...my feel are killin me!"

HBs: *giggles

DJ: "Dont worry i wont be long..." (Transition into OPINION opener ex. Jealous Girlfriend)

Works like a charm!!!!!
 

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Purple dress opener

OK, I've tried this one three times and gotten great results from it twice. Let's call it the purple dress opener. It's longer than most normal openers, but it works like a charm if your body language is right. The power of this opener lies in how well it fits with the typical chick-flick romance setting, without making you look like an AFC (once again, so long as the body language is right).

You have to be at some clothes shop for this to work. Go to the ladies' section and start browsing around until you see a girl you like. Don't pay too much attention to her for fifteen seconds or so, just focus on the clothes around her, maybe lift a couple off the rack and pretend you're checking sizes or something. Then bump into her or make eye contact to get her attention while you're still holding the clothes.

DJ: *holds the clothes up like he's asking whether they'd look good on him* What do you think?

[Short pause here. Chances are she'll give you an odd look...after all, they are women's clothes]

DJ: *suddenly becomes very aware that he's holding up women's clothes* *laughs* Oh, these aren't for me, they're for a friend. It's her birthday tomorrow [or whatever]. But I'm terrible at picking women's clothes out. Think I should get this in green or in red [or something to that effect]?

HB: [Gives advice, hopefully]

DJ: [check her out for a few seconds, long enough to make her nervous] I also like what you're wearing, though. Might be better than what I had in mind. [Walk up to her and feel the fabric on her clothes]. Hmm...and that's really soft [or something to that effect...just make sure you're slow and not too hasty about the whole thing].

HB: [Usually they'll say "thanks" or something along those lines, and yes they WILL be taken aback. Which means now it's time to break the tension before she labels you as a creep]

DJ: *takes hands off her and laughs* Wow, thanks for putting up with me, you must be really embarrassed. I'm just not used to shopping for women's clothes.

HB: [Here they usually don't say much, they just laugh and say "oh, that's ok" or whatever. But I guarantee if your body language was right you now have their full, undivided attention]

DJ: *make eye contact with her and hold for a few seconds*. I'm [name]. What's your name?

(transition into any other convo you might have prepared)
 

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DJ: "Excuse me ladies, is this seat taken?"

HBs: "No.." or "Oh No....go ahead."

Then you proceed to sit down in the seat in relief....

DJ: "Thank goodness!...my feel are killin me!"

HBs: *giggles

DJ: "Dont worry i wont be long..." (Transition into OPINION opener ex. Jealous Girlfriend)

Works like a charm!!!!!
No need to do routines at all, they aren't needed one bit, but they're ok to start out with.
Plus I beg to differ that the above openers are lame and boring.

"Excuse me ladies, is this seat taken?" isn't any more special than the others....but works, as most will welcome u sitting down with them, which ur in ;-)
 

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SHEESH PICKUP LINES/OPEN-HERS--NOT rountines, NOT APPROACHES, not kino........JUST THE LINES.

WE ALL KNOW ITS AN ICE BREAKER TO GUAGE HER INTEREST.........It comes down to what you say AFTER the opener......we know that already.

We just want da lines dat reap success. The old magic 8 ball line......."you are not wearing panties........oh my bad, its an hour fast"........THAT IS FUNNY AND THATS THE STUFF WE NEED.

DISCECTING A PICK-UP LINE ON THE SUB-ATOMIC LEVEL has to have some basics.

First, it(the line/opener) needs to be fluid-not all lines will work on all women..........so you gotta guage your opener to co-inside with the forum (your suroundings). Saying "man its hot huh or hot enough for you".......and its 90 degrees outside.....sounds lame but almost always gets a response. But it does not really evoke emotional originality. If you said that in the winter.......it might fair a little better...cause of the obvious attempt at humor..but again not really all that challenging and does little to open the door for escalation. Saying I love the heat cause it makes me all hot and sticky.......more of a statement response.....could get the effect you are heading towards.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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the best opener is simple, just say hi followed by an observational comment or question, the key to success isnt the opener it is about being confident enough to deliver the opener in the first place. If you are confident then you will have no problem keeping a conversation going with a girl, its only if your nervous that you feel awkward or lost for words.
 

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When I'm stuck for a good line, I use this nice neutral opener that's easy to lead into conversation:

"Hey, what nationality / ethnicity are you?"

Most women are proud of their heritage and will gladly explain family history. Then you can riff on a number of tangents. If it seems odd that you'd ask this at the time, just add something like, "Because I saw you earlier and couldn't quite figure it out for myself." Then waffle about her eyes or cheekbones or whatever.

Many will ask you to guess...I take this as an IOI. Game on! :D
 

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1. "Hey." - Nothing fancy, just the oldfashioned confident hello. You have to be loud and clear with it though + smile and eye contact.

2. I've never tried this, so ppl here can tell me how it sucks:

"Excuse me, do fries go with that shake?" - to be used during a dance, at a nightclub, or any other place where girls are shakin it.

And yes if any of you have ever heard that, it's from a song. hahah.
 

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I heard this from someone ... think it shud work... tell me wat u think of it:

You: Hi, do I know you? (smiling)
Her: No (smiling)
You: That's a shame...I'd sure like to! (sexy tone)
Her: smiles and u can then introduce yourself
 

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Women know why we are approaching them and talking to them.

By using opinion openers and such, you are demonstrating low value because you are afraid of being rejected, and women know it.
So many guys use an indirect opener as a buffer as not to risk or bruise their fragile ego's.

Be a freakin' Man and tell her why you are approaching her.

Even if you fail, it's better to do so as a Man than as a scared little boy.

You have a ****, so be proud of it and be proud of being a Man and having desires. Don't hide your interest or your desires.

There is no downside to showing interest in a woman or showing your desire for her as long as it comes from a position of strength and confidence.

The "community" has emasculated men by brainwashing them into not showing interest and not showing their desires, which they will have to do at some point during the interaction anyways.

Then you have to deal with "ASD" and "LMR" and "LJBF" and "DHV" and all that other BS which you wouldn't have to if you were up front about your intent from minute one.

They know why we are approaching them and talking to them.

If you think you are "flying under the radar" with opinion openers, you are fooling yourself, not them.
 

Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.

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