I liked Rolo's response. I will go one step further and say she has already fuvked him. Many times. She will find another guitarist. This time, you won't know. You did something that no man should do, you verbalized your feelings. When she wanted her "hobby" you should have put your foot down. No hobbies that take time away from her children. Second, when she started getting the hots for this guy, all of a sudden, you have a blonde that is calling you or texting. Nothing, nothing, flames a relationship like a woman scorned and jealous. She has you. I suggest; 1) hide money 2) make sure she sees or hears about women in your hobbies 3) stop giving a fuvk and talking, don't touch her. You fuvking *****. Look at what she is doing to you. Slap this ***** around a bit. A woman should FEAR you, as well as LOVE you. She doesn't fear or respect you. Why do you think divorce rate is so low in other parts of the world? Is it because they let their wives have singing careers and male lead's at 40? Unbelievable some of these guys.
You apologized? For what? Being a man? A husband? A dad? WTF?
You gave an ultimatum? Us men don't give ultimatums. Girls do that. We speak with our actions.
I can go on and on. I'm so tired of seeing this happen to men. I just wish that men understood that love alone means nothing to a woman. It's fear of losing you, fear of getting her ass beat, putting her in place BEFORE these things happen. Training her like a dog. Does that sound too vulgar? Does it offend your ears? What happens when you reward bad behavior in a dog? Sure, she's not a dog, but she's a woman. SHE WILL FUVK OTHER MEN IF YOU DON"T STEP UP. SHE HAS TO GO TO BED NEXT TO YOU EVERY NIGHT, KNOWING THAT YOU COULD BE GONE OR SOME VERY BAD **** WILL HAPPEN IF SHE CROSSES THAT LINE OF DISRESPECT.
So, if you don't like tasting another man's *** in your wife's vagina. I suggest you start acting a little crazy, a little off, a little weird the next few weeks. COMPLETE CHANGE OF CHARACTER.