Floridaboy23
Don Juan
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I've been talking to various girls online and it's always the same....I get initial interest but it goes downhill because I can't seem to know what to say on a consistent basis and even when I'm on the right track, I err by not knowing when to shut the f*** up! I think I really screwed up the other day when I asked this girl for her number and she turned it around on me....I resisted at first but she promised she would call me and that she wouldn't just put in her "pile of forgotten numbers" like I said she probably would when I was resisting. I sent her a message yesterday and asked her if that was her who left me a cute message on my phone, thinking that would definitely get a response. She just read it. Tonight I sent her another message asking her what she was up to....still no response. And half these b!tches aren't even that attractive. I just want to get laid to take the edge off....and I'm not aiming that high/asking for too much (or so I think lol).
Even talked to a long-distance girl tonight just to have a friendly chat/flirt, work on seducing and for a while, she was eating up my witty observations and interesting questions....but after a while, it all went to sh!t 'cause I became too forward and crossed the line of subtlety. Other chicks have left comments on my profile but I seem to get resistance from them once I ask for their screen names so I can instant message them. I'm pretty sure my profile was too over-the-top like Stallone before so I switched it up but I feel like half the girls in my area have seen it and mostly are unamused. I just started reading "The 48 Laws of Power" and trying to become more mysterious but I seem to forget all that and just act according to how I'm programmed (especially when the hour is getting late, I get goofier and more aimless)....which is to say, I have little control over how I go about seducing chicks. It either flows and I get what I want or it eventually falls apart. Usually sooner as opposed to later. I was on a roll, damn it....and now suddenly it's been almost 6 months since I've gotten laid. I hate to say it but as much as I feel like a stud, and an intelligent one at that, I stumble a lot and it does hurt my confidence. I think it has to do with keeping my desire/openness more subtle and subdued while still expressing it on a level they are comfy with.
I'm just having trouble adhering to that fine line. I wake up and feel like it's a new day and they're all there for the picking but by the end of the day, it seems like each new attempt at seduction is just an exercise in futility even though the potential for giving them one hell of a pleasurable experience is very much present. There's so much competition though and other guys who have more defined muscles/aesthetically more pleasant to the eye but I know I have something on a good percentage of them and that's why it's frustrating the f*** out of me. I'd like to keep my desire hidden but when it comes to talking online, the way you send signals is paramount. I don't want to be the "friend"....I want to be the "f*** buddy" but I think I lay too many cards on the table at once. Does anyone else have any suggestions that are relevant to this situation? Anyone who was recently on a roll and suddenly finds themself in the middle of a sexual famine, in which they can't for the life of them feed the animal that lurks in their pants? lol, so I sound goofy...but as I said, it's getting late.
Even talked to a long-distance girl tonight just to have a friendly chat/flirt, work on seducing and for a while, she was eating up my witty observations and interesting questions....but after a while, it all went to sh!t 'cause I became too forward and crossed the line of subtlety. Other chicks have left comments on my profile but I seem to get resistance from them once I ask for their screen names so I can instant message them. I'm pretty sure my profile was too over-the-top like Stallone before so I switched it up but I feel like half the girls in my area have seen it and mostly are unamused. I just started reading "The 48 Laws of Power" and trying to become more mysterious but I seem to forget all that and just act according to how I'm programmed (especially when the hour is getting late, I get goofier and more aimless)....which is to say, I have little control over how I go about seducing chicks. It either flows and I get what I want or it eventually falls apart. Usually sooner as opposed to later. I was on a roll, damn it....and now suddenly it's been almost 6 months since I've gotten laid. I hate to say it but as much as I feel like a stud, and an intelligent one at that, I stumble a lot and it does hurt my confidence. I think it has to do with keeping my desire/openness more subtle and subdued while still expressing it on a level they are comfy with.
I'm just having trouble adhering to that fine line. I wake up and feel like it's a new day and they're all there for the picking but by the end of the day, it seems like each new attempt at seduction is just an exercise in futility even though the potential for giving them one hell of a pleasurable experience is very much present. There's so much competition though and other guys who have more defined muscles/aesthetically more pleasant to the eye but I know I have something on a good percentage of them and that's why it's frustrating the f*** out of me. I'd like to keep my desire hidden but when it comes to talking online, the way you send signals is paramount. I don't want to be the "friend"....I want to be the "f*** buddy" but I think I lay too many cards on the table at once. Does anyone else have any suggestions that are relevant to this situation? Anyone who was recently on a roll and suddenly finds themself in the middle of a sexual famine, in which they can't for the life of them feed the animal that lurks in their pants? lol, so I sound goofy...but as I said, it's getting late.