Just wanted to get some thoughts. Im an white American in the Domincuan Rebublic seeing a very attractive Venezuelan girl who is 27 or so.
It started out as a just meeting at bars drinking type of thing has progressed to go on small trips and her just coming over to chill with a movie or something.
However things have moved very fast in less than 2 months. She has helped me very sick a few times and been good in many ways.
But.....she always talks **** in front of me like its no big deal in a casual manner about American whites because she works in a call center for Samsung and has to deal with their complaining. Shes well teavelled though to the US and parts of Europe and very liberal and blames whites for problems in the us and alwsys cites slavery and why blm is important. It starts arguments because i tell her to stfu about American polutics when she has no clue regardless of how much she reads or watches the news.
Im strongly conservative btw. So another thing red flag she has tonnes of guy friends who i tell her i disagree with the whole multiple guy thing and says most guys only like to deal with women they want to sleep with. This is not because of any feelings of jealously i just sincerely believe its bull**** and always a red flag when a girl has mostly only guy friends and calls them her best friends who live her yada yada.
So 1 night her guy friend picks us up after curfew here because he has a special past curfew license so we could get home. We go to get in and she hops in the front seat speaking spanish with me in the back seat. So i didnt act angry or raise my voice but i calmy told her to tell her friend to drop her off at her place not mine. So she gets upset jumps in the back seat with me and says you need to tell me when something i do upsets you and not do something drastic. We argued a bit and then she said she understood so i let her go back with me.
Fast forwards the next day and a few days later she keeps bringing it up and says her guy friends are her real friends and to come to her roomates burthday party to meet most of her guy friends there and see they are her real friends.
I told her no would rather not and gets very dissapointined acting even upset to which she denied she was.
And in general a lot of stuff like the white people comments which are everytime we hang out....she also is disrespectful in other ways.
Anyways she left my place this morning and wanted to meet this Friday and go to the beach on Saturday. I reluctantly said i would be up for beach on sat not hang out friday.
But now i dont really want to see her anymore I feel bad because to nights ago she said she has completely fallen for me. So how to break the ice to her i just dont enjoy her company anymore. Its gotten to the point im tired of feeling offended or disrespected by her. But she professes her feelings for me. Kind of a mind****.
