Pretty Boy = Fag

[CLOONEY]

well if they think your a poo*f, then they aint getting no dikc so why would they be "romantically" interested in you. maybe you are gay, have you ever thought of that? why else would you act gay around woman, I sure as hell dont!! Seriously do some weights, if you have a pretty face as you say then no problem girls DIG that sh*t! Pretty boys get more woman than ANYONE, take my word for it! Stop winging, do some weights, and stop acting gay!

 

[Piece_Maker]

Originally posted by a blah...:
I have sort of girly face and thin slim body. I don't look skinny, but i do look kind of gay (i even act like a fag around girls sometimes). Some girls think i'm cute, but most of the time they think i'm a weak, whimpy pretty boy. I think i can pull off decent amount of girls if i can change the way i look. I know i can change my body by working out but there's no way i can change my face. I want to look more like a "handsome men", not a fag. Can any of you older DJ's help me with my problem?

Holy sh!t, what are you, like 13?

Really dawg, I have next to no sympathy for you. You've come to the internet to work out your problems of self-perception. No matter what advice anyone gives you here, none of us can help you as much as YOU can help you.

This has nothing to do with "acting gay" (which is a stupid expression, there's no such thing) or whatever; your problem is self-perception. If YOU know you're not gay then it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks.

And the way you describe your facial features you're probably extremely "handsome" already. OWN that ****, be proud of it; you probably look better than 70% of the human race.

Now go out and live your life, find out what you like, what you don't like, what engages you, what turns you off. Find all those things and you'll be closer to who YOU are, and you better fvcking fall in LOVE with whoever that is, cuz all those other people that you say think such-and-such about you will ALWAYS be OTHER PEOPLE. You have YOU for the rest of your life.

And know what? When you love yourself and your life and the things that you do, your enjoyment of your life will permeate from every pore in your body, and people will be attracted to you. Men will wanna chill with you, women will be intrigued by you.

It's tough as hell, but the benefits are worth it.

Jesus, stop being such a b!tch and take care of your sh!t.

I'm done.

 

[AMF]

I wouldnt worry about your looks, 84.

Guys will say you look gay because they are jealous.

Girls will say you look gay because you're too attractive to talk to.

Gay people are perceived to be:

More attractive
Stylish
Talkative
Friendly
Funny
CONFIDENT.

LOOKING gay, therefore, is no bad thing.

ACTING gay is what you must NEVER do.

 

[the_swede]

Originally posted by 84 DJ
At least those guys have the body & money to go with. I'm only 157 and 5'10. And check this out.....there's this one black lady i work with, she thought i was ****ing G-A-Y. She spread rumers about me being too clean & acting "too soft" (i guess that is typical gay-homo image). So in order to be a real man, do i have to be dirty, loud and UGLY? That b1tch really hurt my ego. It seems to me that if you're not 200 pounds, 6 feet tall, most females automatically judge you as some kind of weak worthless piece of crap.

I weigh 150 and I'm 5'9 and I've gotten quite a few compliments on my body from girls. You don't have to be big, just try to do some workout and work on your posture, it'll do wonders. But I think your real problem is your attitude. Stand up for yourself! Don't let people run over you. And if you find yourself acting gay STOP IT!

 

[Celadus]

I've had(well still have alittle) the same problem as you. I was a homely little computer nerd all through high school and then I hit puberty, shot up to 6'2" and about 140. My face changed a whole lot and now I look like Prince William's twin. I'd walk through the mall or particularly school and get picked on a lot for being skinny and people said I looked gay. I started to get really down on my self and unconfident.

This snowballed and guys and sometimes girls would pick up on my unconfidence and think I was hiding something. Since i'm a good looking gay, who dresses nice, they assumed I was gay.

I read some of Nietzsche, Ayn Rand and watch Scar Face over and over. I am a "super human". I'm working out hard now(up to 155 or 160) and taking muay thai and brazilian jujitsu. I highly suggest doing this.

Now, I just kind of smirk, like I own everyone when I'm walking around and I don't hear any gay comments anymore, and almost every girl I walk by says "he's cute". I could have just about any chick I want, but I'm scared of intimacy and approaching for a number close. But thats a different story, and a much harder thing to get over for me

Most of the gay comments now are out of jealously. Like I'll walk into a Pizza Hut and some girl will tell her boyfriend I'm cute and he'll say, "Are you kidding? He looks like a fag". When I was ugly and I use to look at Leonardo Dicaprio and think "What a fag". What I was really thinking was "He doesn't suck like me. I hate him" He ****s the most beautiful women in the world and never gets married, I'd say he is more of a DJ than a fag.


Your problem is in your head. Sit down and write down everything you think you do that is gay. And then make changes. You need to realize that it is probably mostly in your head.

 

[Legend]

I do look kind of gay (i even act like a fag around girls sometimes).

lmao....this is the funniest thing i have read in awhile


AMF you are on the money dude

 

[Jvesti]

Originally posted by 84 DJ
I have sort of girly face and thin slim body. I don't look skinny, but i do look kind of gay (i even act like a fag around girls sometimes). Some girls think i'm cute, but most of the time they think i'm a weak, whimpy pretty boy. I think i can pull off decent amount of girls if i can change the way i look. I know i can change my body by working out but there's no way i can change my face. I want to look more like a "handsome men", not a fag. Can any of you older DJ's help me with my problem?

analbolic steroids will zap the prettyboy face right out of ya, the extra testosterone will trust me

 

[Mercury21]

Some Girls like Pretty Boys. Seriously...I have found that as far as looks in a man go, there are two different kinds of women:

Some women are attracted to men who have that "man" look..you know the type: Five O clock shadow, usually has chest hair...the kind of guy you can imagine chopping wood.

Then some women are attracted to Pretty Boys. These are the guys who look like they are 13 at 27..usually has a very clean face, no beard or any chance of ever growing one, clean chest, and instead of chopping wood you can imagine him posing for pictures or something.

Examples:

Rugged Men: Harrison Ford, Russell Crow(especially in "Gladiator") Bruce Willis, Tom Cruise in the MI movies, Brad Pitt with facial hair, Johnny Depp, Mel Gibson ect...

Pretty Boys: Tom Cruise in Top Gun, Brad Pitt with no facial hair, Justin Timberlake, Leonardo DiCaprio ect....

And some girls like both kinds of men. So don't worry about having that "pretty boy" look...its not what is messing you up.

It is your attitude that is keeping you from having sucess. You have to change the way you think and the way you act. Simple as that. Read the DJ bible from top to bottom...read it about 10 times. That will change you big time.

And yes, work out as much as you can. If you can afford it, get a personal trainer in a Gym like 24 Hour fittness. They know exactly what to do and will keep you motivated.

And the first thing you must do: Stop calling yourself Gay!!

 

[myfriendblu]

I never had this problem, but i have seen quite a few friends that, once they started hitting the weights and gaining weight, they seemed to take on a more "manly" look. Not just the body, but the face and hands as well. Chewy bagel is right, your whole appearance takes on a tougher look. I think physical activity can change your appearance. I wrestled and was into judo as a young kid, and it helped out alot. Check it out, although I would stay away from the roids, your a little to young for that.

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by 84 DJ
Look at Tommy Lee. He's like 42, old, skinny and ugly. But girls find him attractive because he has the wild bad boy image.

LOL, um, I think chiks dig tommy lee for another reason, and it aint because he can bang drums, LOL. You seen the video? The man steered a friggen house boat with his penis

 

[Wysiwyg]

There's a post from Pook called "Embrace your sexuality", search for it in this forum. It will help you immensely.