Just a sidenote on the "remind me" thing.
This sh!t is totally unacceptable and it shows weakness if you agree with it. WTF?! When you have a date with someone, you're supposed to look forward to it and you certainly won't need anyone to remind you of it. Did you ever need someone to remind you of a date?!?!?!?!
The game starts the moment of the first conversation between you and a girl. This request of hers was a test and you failed it. You showed her that you like her so much that you're willing to remind her of the date and neglect the disrespect she showed you by making that request.
If you had stood her up on this request, it would've shown that you're high level. And in doing so, her interest level would probably have risen. Who knows, she would've been very interested to meet up with you because of it and wouldn't have come up with the yoga excuse at all... Remember Pook:
RESPECT IS ALL.
blueline said:
This is the last time I take a girl's number when she's giving me poor non-verbals and not hovering. I mean, unless it's a last minute flyby, forget numbers without a make-out or some heavy eye contact preceding them.
Don't focus too much on her initial interest level at the party, it's not like everything is decided there and then and the whole envelopment of your future relationship with her has been set from that moment... There's an ongoing process throughout all your interactions with a girl. Of course, a certain initial interest level is required to accomplish anything, but after that, you can build the initial spark up to a flame or you can let the spark fade away.
It's not like: "She likes me or she likes me not, her IL is high enough or it isn't. It has already been decided, now I just need to find out by asking her out". No.....the very way you carry yourself
WHILE you ask her out, is gonna influence her interest level. Perhaps her IL was low at the party, but it wasn't absent, right? She was hitting on you, you said... Well, your behavior throughout the texting (with the action of not accepting that disrespectful request being key) could've made it rise high enough for her to decide and go out with you. Then, if you had acted like a total alpha during the date, it might've risen to great hights and she'd be totally into you...