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Power dynamic when talking to girls in online dating

biggoal

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Yes, I’m in NYC metro. Best place in the world for OLD.
That's what I mean. Most don't live in NYC or LA though so your experiences don't relate to most as you have different demographics you're working with.
 

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Most hot girls don’t take guys seriously online, that’s where you’re going wrong. Your competition isnt the guys in her DMs; she thinks they’re losers. Your competition is the guys she is chasing & being feminine around in real life.

If a hot girl ever resorts to her phone for meeting a dude, she def isn’t looking for a dynamic where the guy has the power, she’d be looking for a beta male after many years of heartbreak with alphas.

You need to gain some courage and stop thinking you can attract hot prime women from your phone. It’s a wishful fantasy that just doesn’t happen, didn’t happen 20 years ago and doesn’t happen now.

Girls do not join Instagram thinking about meeting men, they join it to stalk/impress other girls
Where are you located do you think it varies?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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