Power dynamic when talking to girls in online dating

DonJuanjr

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I don't think being bald is as big of an issue if one is also black.

I've never heard of a bald black guy being referred to as looking like a cancer patient. While I've heard this plenty of times for white guys.
 
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Yes, I’m in NYC metro. Best place in the world for OLD.
That's what I mean. Most don't live in NYC or LA though so your experiences don't relate to most as you have different demographics you're working with.
 

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Most hot girls don’t take guys seriously online, that’s where you’re going wrong. Your competition isnt the guys in her DMs; she thinks they’re losers. Your competition is the guys she is chasing & being feminine around in real life.

If a hot girl ever resorts to her phone for meeting a dude, she def isn’t looking for a dynamic where the guy has the power, she’d be looking for a beta male after many years of heartbreak with alphas.

You need to gain some courage and stop thinking you can attract hot prime women from your phone. It’s a wishful fantasy that just doesn’t happen, didn’t happen 20 years ago and doesn’t happen now.

Girls do not join Instagram thinking about meeting men, they join it to stalk/impress other girls
Where are you located do you think it varies?
 
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