There is more then one way to skin a cat.
The more and more I hang around this community and read up on all things that work for different people, the more I realize what a wide spectrum of game women will accept. Certain things will work for certain men, and certain things will work on certain women. For example Johnnies’ methods might not work on conservative women with high urge for family, and one man life. And at the same time "pretty boy" game might not work on girls who are in adult industry, simply because they are surrounded by that type of
shallowness all the time. Some guys succeed by being overly sexual, and bluntly hitting on girls, while other guys get the girls by getting them to compete for his attention. You can free a girl from her general misconceptions about life, and let her enjoy her sexuality with you and every other guy....or you can constrain her with those social misconceptions (ei; player Supremes pimp game)
I live in Windsor, witch is 4 hours away from Toronto, so I can only assume that the strip clubs are the same, and that the game is the same. As I’ve previously reveled
here I’ve spent a lot of time in strip clubs in the last year. And yes, I can confirm, through experience that what Johnny teaches about strippers is right. They hear game all the time, and they are ready for it, they expect it....and they heard it all before. The only two ways you'll ever get a girl out of a strip club is by either being really good looking (to her) or by connecting with her on a whole different level, then most guys in that club do. You got to talk to her as a person. You have to be interested about what she is saying. You have to listen, and ask questions about her....and at the same time YOU HAVE TO HAVE FUN WITH HER. You got to make her feel good. She needs to feel safe with you. And yes you can do all that without being an average frustrated chump. For some reason there is a belief in this community that the minute a man puts his hand on a woman’s back and actually listens to her, and has an adult conversation with, that he is a chump....Most of those people believe that you have to Rough manly and sharp with women all the time. That’s wrong. They just need to feel your manly presence – that’s all. One day those people will realize that, the minute they start being happy with them selves, and once their self esteem stops being dependent on other people. There is nothing wrong with actually being friendly with a woman and spend time with her...... I loved doing that...I’ve seen plenty of pvssy in the last 6 years...but what I really wanted was to talk to women...get to know them....enjoy the way they laugh, the way they move, the way they talked....I was seeing past the pvssy....
My mistake was - I was a customer. I established that the minute I walked in and got a lap dance. It's one of the things I didn't know at the time. You really have to separate your self from the rest of the crowd - you’re different. She has a lot of drama in her life...and you actually care about her...it makes her feel special. SHE IS A WOMAN – NOT A ROBOT, you just have to push the right button to remove the metal casing (shield) that protects her. I retired from the strip club scene on new years, and haven't been back since.
What you guys got to remember is
no woman is the same. They might be similar, but they are not the same. Most guys won’t believe this but I’ve met more
brilliant, spiritual, and open minded girls in a strip club then anywhere else. They might be little emotionally shaken up...but that’s why you have the skill to temporarily make them feel incredible.....and that’s why they will love you.
