Post Your Rejection Rates

[Nocturnal]

If you're going to vote, please take it seriously.

Out of the last 5 times you've made an attempt with a girl, whether it was a simple number close, or a long term commitment, how many times have you been rejected?

If you havent made 5 attempts, just post it.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Well out of the last 10, I got rejected 9/10.

The 10th made it worthwhile though!

 

[drixsa]

4/7

every damn girl has a b-f/fiancee/husband

 

[dip]

honsetly...1/5

ive been DJing a lot latley, but not the girls i want. ive been working on 7's, and i want to go up to 9's. But, i feel that its important to learn, experiment, practice on 7's. Ive had sucess on 7's, and failed on the one 9

 

[Player_Supreme]

Why would you want to focus on the negative? Instead of the positive??

You should be asking how often are you successful. I am successfull everytime I hunt for a woman. If she isn't choosing then I don't approach. But when I am hunting I always find a woman who wants what I have to offer.

I dont act like one of those andy mayberry types and chase after women who aren't even buying what I have to offer...I know you've seen these type of Night at the Roxberry chumps who see a pretty girl and run all up in her face only to get slammed down 99% of the time.

 

[Aztec]

I feel sorry for those who don't get rejected that much.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

I'm currently about 1 out of 3 approaches getting numbers. About 1 out 0f 5 getting dates. Not too bad. I once read on this site there was a guy who got 50 numbers over a 3 month period but no actual dates.

 

[Nocturnal]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Why would you want to focus on the negative? Instead of the positive??

because it doesn't make all that much of a difference and my intentions are very specific.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Nocturnal
If you're going to vote, please take it seriously.

Out of the last 5 times you've made an attempt with a girl, whether it was a simple number close, or a long term commitment, how many times have you been rejected?

If you havent made 5 attempts, just post it.

Why in the world would you want to keep track of rejections? How would someone overcome their fear of approaching if rejection is foremost in his mind? Wouldn't it be more advantageous to count the number of approaches and not their outcome?

 

[Nocturnal]

i'll post my reasons later on.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Nocturnal
because it doesn't make all that much of a difference and my intentions are very specific.

If it doesn't make a difference then why ask? I do not understand bro.

 

[Nocturnal]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
If it doesn't make a difference then why ask? I do not understand bro.

it doesn't make a difference if it's how many times you were rejected or how many times you were accepted. I have a reason for this poll but I don't want to say it yet because if pepole know the results might be skewed.

 

[Nocturnal]

up she goes.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Nocturnal I can't wait to see what a 16 year old mind has use of this kind of information.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Really, that is not a question that is really relevant to anything...

For number closes, the last 5 times that I asked, 4 of them accepted.
For kiss close, the last 5 have all returned the kiss.
Out of the last 5 girls that I had the opportunity to f*ck, only 1 has refused me... but she's a catholic virgin, and not completely out of the picture, so I could technically still turn this around, and am actively attempting to do so (while I am still 'dating' (one is long distance) 2 girls right now...)

So out of the last 5, I've had a pretty good luck, but the reason isn't that I got lucky any more then before, its' just if the signs weren't there I didn't bother trying.

Whereas, if you took an average of all my rejections, its probably MUCH closer to 2/5 of an average. Really though... there is no way to answer the question. I hope you still find use in this post tho.

EDIT : Really, once you get better at reading people, it becomes, to paraphrase P_S, 'I don't go after someone thats NOT buying what I'm selling, so I only go for the ones that are buying, and so I'm always successful.'

 

[Evo]

i can proudly say last 5 appoarch i can remember so far r all rejections, and they r no big deal. i put 4/5 rejection on the poll but than after the poll i really counted my rejections i just remember that i got one 2 days ago lol damn it wish i can revote

 

[Nocturnal]

Originally posted by So pimp its scary
EDIT : Really, once you get better at reading people, it becomes, to paraphrase P_S, 'I don't go after someone thats NOT buying what I'm selling, so I only go for the ones that are buying, and so I'm always successful.'

How far do you go before you determine who will buy? If it's not too far, how can you be sure of whether they'll buy or not?

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by Nocturnal
How far do you go before you determine who will buy? If it's not too far, how can you be sure of whether they'll buy or not?

WTF do you mean?

 

[sux2bu]

Originally posted by drixsa
4/7

every damn girl has a b-f/fiancee/husband

To put it in the simplest of terms, your heart will be broken.. Ain't that the fvcking truth?! It's just too depressing, but it's sooooo good to get rejected. It just gives me more incentive and drive to continue on in my quest.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by sux2bu
To put it in the simplest of terms, your heart will be broken.. Ain't that the fvcking truth?! It's just too depressing, but it's sooooo good to get rejected. It just gives me more incentive and drive to continue on in my quest.

actually were in a similar boat

im 18 and now living in israel

all the girls my age are about to go into the army/allready in the army

though i only go for older woman these days, which puts us in the similar boat (that is unless u go for older woman)

the thing is with the culture here more people are in/have been in LTR's for a very long time

also people tend to get married earlier on in life

so now what i am becoming more accosomed to is looking for the wedding band