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CuriousGirl said:
If you have that attitude with random "under 5's" (hah/eew) then regular sex with random "over 5's" would probably form the same apathetic attitude. So fcuk someone's personality rather than looks alone and you'll probably find sex more satisfying.
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No matter how harmless it is, it does have its effects.

Install a filter and take a break from it as a trial.

If you can man the fvck up and control yourself and go out and get some real pvssy yourself, there's no better feeling.

Of having the self discipline to go and get what you want. Translates into other areas of life as well.
 

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Have to admit though, went 2 weeks no porn once and damn, felt like I was on fire. Just an incredible tension/static that translated really well in the gym and with personal relationships/studies.

Should do it again.
 

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Quit watching porn is easy. Quit masturbating is another story. I can masturbate using my imagination and when I'm done, I'm done. I won't need to be looking for porn movies.

Though I have to admit I'm addicted to seeing the MOST beautiful girls on the planet bent over or legs wide open getting fvcked!

Does that mean I'm addicted to porn? Gagh...well I'm not as addicted to it more than starbucks.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
If you have that attitude with random "under 5's" (hah/eew) then regular sex with random "over 5's" would probably form the same apathetic attitude. So fcuk someone's personality rather than looks alone and you'll probably find sex more satisfying.
I agree completely but you need an average girl at minimum otherwise an ugly chick will ruin the experience.
 

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Social_Leper said:
LOL! Seriously? I'm only going to speak for myself here but I could jack off 5 times go out clubbing and still want to jump on every girl I see. Maybe its because I'm young but regular masturbation has never stopped me from being sexually aggressive.

In fact I've jacked off before every single date I've been on and never had trouble moving things forward.
When I was 22 I could also, it slows down as you get older bud. I forgot to add the age disclaimer.. lol
 

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well it's 3 days now since I stopped watching porn. I also haven't masturbated.

I'm considering contacting an old plate.

I better have the DJ wisdom to guide my testosterone in the right direction.

I found this book about tantric sex and the next time I jerk off I'll be training my sex muscles. It'll be awesome if I could have a 1 hour orgasm. But anyway now my masturbation can be put to a good use.
 

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Chamber36 said:
I better have the DJ wisdom to guide my testosterone in the right direction.
It's mostly the dopamine response which is why abstinence is mostly in your head. Dopamine is one of the reward chemicals in the brain which makes you feel good.

I'm sure the extra testosterone boost helps as well. But it's only an extra 50% testosterone in your blood (read some studies, it's 50 and change).
 

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Alle_Gory said:
I agree completely but you need an average girl at minimum otherwise an ugly chick will ruin the experience.
Yeah I know what you mean, the initial attraction has gotta come from somewhere. Although I've had guys and girls immediately become hotter before my eyes just by demonstrating a personality trait or something else that I've liked. I also think that when you've dated or slept with someone for near-enough personality alone then beautiful people who are also physically beautiful are just that much more damned beautiful!
 
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I bet you a solid pound coin that 10/15 years down the line you'll share the same attitude and will be looking for personalities to fcuk when you're bored of bodies :yes:

You're a 20 year old female. I've asked you this before, but what do you know about being an adult male?

I don't fvck personalities; I fvck vaginas on fit women.
 
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I may have been a little bit crass, but my point still stands: sex is typically not about an emotional connection for men.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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CuriousGirl said:
Yeah I know what you mean, the initial attraction has gotta come from somewhere. Although I've had guys and girls immediately become hotter before my eyes just by demonstrating a personality trait or something else that I've liked. I also think that when you've dated or slept with someone for near-enough personality alone then beautiful people who are also physically beautiful are just that much more damned beautiful!
I agree completely. Most attraction is from actions and behaviour but physical features count for some as well. People who are more physically appealing tend to be more comfortable in their own skin and behave in more attractive ways as well.

It really depends what you're looking for. Some people don't really care and just want to fvck.
 

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CuriousGirl said:
I bet you a solid pound coin that 10/15 years down the line you'll share the same attitude and will be looking for personalities to fcuk when you're bored of bodies :yes:
The list of things to look for by importance:
Character
Personality
Looks

The easiest way to screen someone out:
Looks
Personality
Character

That's just how the world works, if you have a personality of gold and amazing character it's not going to mean anything until you first pass a person's attractiveness threshold.
 

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TyTe`EyEz said:
You're a 20 year old female. I've asked you this before, but what do you know about being an adult male?

I don't fvck personalities; I fvck vaginas on fit women.
I've dated people both younger and older than you, I spend time with different groups of friends of 18-35 years old and I've got more than a handful siblings of 0-18 yrs (and their friends), I'm a student but I also have 2 jobs. So actually I have a lot of experience with all sorts of people. My dad's even pretty cool too. I don't see why you're so adamant my observations count for nothing.

That's fair enough, I wasn't condemning that.
 
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