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To a degree, I agree.
In a post, you may or may not have read, I made mention to the "idealism" present on the site. It got knocked around a bit, but I stand by it wholeheartedly. And you can sense it day in and day out as guys' muse over
"The essence of a DJ."
"The traits of a DJ."
"The music of a DJ."
Like we're designing a super-race of men to control women.
While I don't personally enjoy sex with lifeless women, or one night stands, if you want pvssy, you want pvssy. And when you've had your fill, you'll gravitate toward a higher plane, or not. Your call.
The world HOWEVER, does need a serious wake-up to humanity as, aside from a goodly portion of people, few make strides to better themselves. Oh sure, they post here, or buy "Think and Grow Rich," or DYD, but do they use? Are they constantly trying to master themselves and their life? No.
As humans we grow and die through our own improvement. Our end is inevitable, just as a tree springs forth from an acorn, and becomes a tree, then firewood, so too will we spring forth from cells, to a baby, to human, to passing off earth. Our only growth, truly is spiritually. What we impart on ourselves and others. Yeah, you can get a cushy state job or factory job, keep your needs low, and generally take care of yourself, but then 1 day you awaken and see life passed you by. That your talents lied dormant all along, and thus, your life has been taken away from you. I, for one, don't want this, so I for one, stress improvement, never complaceny. And it has worked immensely well in life, in bed, and with women.
The hardest things in life very often yield the greatest rewards.
The most satisfying things in life have given me the greatest pleasure. From being patient over persuing a woman, to contacts in business, the better reward always came with patience.
Short-term flings are a matter of confidence, resilience, and approaching. The more ladies you approach, the more you get. I would just clarify what you mean when you say you don't need to self improve or that Pook is off. Certainly, both are off if you aim to go out tonight and lay a girl. BUT, in the long run you will be able to lay multiple girls in one night or a new girl every week if you so choose.
One thing I make mention due to the idealism of the journey is that...
The emphasis can be on your or on her, but it can't be on both.
Meaning, YOU can learn every trait in the book to effectively seduce a woman, OR, you can learn every improvement to yourself to ATTRACT them to you and be able to recognize BUYING signals effectively. YOU CAN'T DO BOTH. Not effectively anyway. Don't half azz this part.
I would suggest that sections of the DJ Bible provide info on laying quickly. Also, see stuff by Ross Jeffries, DYD, SwingCat, Thundercat, Mystery, and THe Dating Insider ($100). I have a library of stuff for S/T and L/T hookups, both chock full of info, some I use, some I don't. My own propensity is to weed out flakes and find a girl to date consistently. The S/T stuff is easy. The L/T stuff takes more talent.
By yes, the over idealism of self improvement creates an aura of arrogance, as if every woman is wrong and should be NEXTED. A button made for the automated response "NEXT HER" should be installed, as I hear it all the time, yet most situations are so situational, that even if you recorded it, EVERY guy here would see something different and react differently so much so, that a definitive answer is impossible.
Besides, this is life. It's meant to be explored, discoverd, and enjoyed, not over analyzed or played like Stratego. That right there would free alot of pent up souls on these boards, guys who are SO stressed as if mastering women can be accomplished without detriment to another aspect of life. And when you get there, it still won't prevent total flackage and the eccentricities of women. A great ass will eventually sag, and tits will eventually stretch, BUT you, YOU WILL ENDURE.
A-Unit
Those things in general will not help you with women. Not in and of themselves. They may get you out of the house more often to meet women but you still need OTHER skills to attract them.