POF hitting a new low?

[Borknagar]

Very true, unfortunately, especially when it comes to clubs and bars, a lot of those women do have POF profiles from what I've seen

 

[Yo'Mama]

the sad thing is i've seen many of the same chicks on match.com that were on pof. theyre on ALL the fvcking dating sites!! basically you move to a different site and have the same crappy girls to pick from with one or two that you havent seen before. that's why im not on match.com either.

i laugh at the ones who put "if youre looking for sex dont bother" or something to that effect. what the hell do you think guys want? your company? i can honestly say ive never dated a girl who i didnt want to have sex with.

Ha ha ha, so true. What the hell do these stuck up *****es think they have to offer besides the wet hole between their legs?

 

[Wilko]

Tall girls definitely seem to be over-represented online, but that doesn't come as a surprise. Also feeling Zarky on the big drop in quality through the late twenties/early thirties bracket, again, there's pretty obvious reasons for that. No use lamenting these things but it's good to understand what we're facing out there.

I think the spamming/shotgun approach is obsolete, it's useless at best and probably harming our chances at worst (by contributing to the overall problem), forget about it. Personally I only send out about five contact requests a week, if that, and even when accepted I don't think they result in all that much action in the long run. Nope, by far and away my most successful exploits have come about as a result of requests I received FROM girls (not that I'm drowning in them or anything). One incoming request is probably worth a good 50 outgoing spam messages in terms of its likelihood in getting you laid.

Do what you can to get those incoming messages rolling in.

We all know good pics are important, it's practically redundant to mention that.

Change your bait, often. Re-write your profile and emphasise a different aspect of your personality/life each time. Don't flat out lie, and don't re-write your profile in order to target particular users, it's transparently obvious (unless they're retarded, in which case, go for it). A week should be enough time between changes; sporty outdoorsman one week, bookish intellectual the next. View a bunch of "susceptible" profiles so the girls can backtrack and find that you're just what they're looking for.

Works best if you can remodel the profile in an authentic way, sometimes it might just be a matter of removing certain details that would otherwise disqualify you with a certain type of girl - for instance, I fvcking love baiting vegans and environmentalists for my own amusement but I'll pull way back on that shtick if I'm writing for generic hipster-tail.

Anybody else using a more focused, let-them-come-to-you, anti-spam approach like this?

 

[Wilko]

I just have to add, the thought of more average dates and average sex with average girls just leaves me cold these days. I would seriously rather enjoy a monumental screw-up so that I at least have a great story at the end of it than have another "average" experience that adds nothing to my life.

But that's just me. Still, it wouldn't hurt to hear a little "Hey, me too!" on this one!

 

[Wilko]

Fvcking LOL, while I was banging those two out I had an incoming request. She's a goddamn Amazon, 6'0". Fvck you Universe, fvck you.

 

[sstype]

POF, or any dating website for that matter, are nothing but sideshows filled with fat, shallow, stupid, and emotionally unbalanced individuals.

Quit taking a bunch of social retards on the internet so seriously. Stop bottom-feeding and go out in the real world and you won't encounter all this frustration for little reward.

 

[Poonani Maker]

There's no approach anxiety behind a keyboard. That's why I think you're ahead to just approach in real life where there's less competition and hopefully the girl doesn't have an online dating profile taking all her focus up. Plus if you approach in person, you just answered the question if you both have any connection in real life.

This is why it's so bad now I guess. Dudes, who would never walk up to her in real life, fly off the cuff in a pvssy initial message. This floods her box, making her only read them if you're very good looking. I'm higher than average looking plus I include pics of me with various ones I've fvcked and it shows (in the pics) that we've either fvcked recently or are "a pair" sexually.

Despite my good photos, I ALWAYS have to initiate these days (I used to get messaged/viewed out of the blue). From time to time I'll get ones that I messaged a while ago come back and view my profile again, but they don't say anything, they don't message. I've had ones change their appearance snapping new self photos of their new style which looks similar to the hairstyle of my main girl in my photos, and then view my profile so that I can see that she can "look like" her in an attempt to draw me to her. I still don't message her cause she's older (about 6 yrs older) than my probably much tighter main girl I've already fvcked numerous times. Why would I go for that?

I need to exclude any ones past 29 yrs old, maybe 27 just to be safe (lying).

 

[Solomon]

Hahaha Whats the difference between a wilder breast, a scalleywag, and a grenade? I see you use all three terms lol I've decided I need definitions!

Their all the same mate

BUT I'M FREEEEEEEEE

I shut my POF down 5 minutes ago, I send a quick msg to one last chick I knew and then wrapped it up.

AND BROKNAGAR IS RIGHT

CHICKS IN THE FIELD ARE ON POF AS WELL I RUN INTO THEM ALL THE TIME(I told you guys before they use it to supplement their game!)

My buddy and I went out to a popular night club, and he ran into some POF chicks he use to talk too(not just one but like 3 of them). He ignored them. When he left the venue the chicks were blowing up his phone. They never met him until that night and my buddy is a good looking guy (6pac etc). The chicks were fatter in person then their pics! (surprise surprise)

I ran into a chick I knew as well and half the time she was on her cell phone, in person she was just as hot but shorter lol.

 

[pdx1138]

I got messaged twice last friday by two late 40 year olds.

both were 3's at best.

they both clearly lied about their age...one said 33 the other 35 no effing way they were that age.

another thing they like to put on their profile: "I love laughing" ---who doesn't?

 

[Solomon]

Anybody else using a more focused, let-them-come-to-you, anti-spam approach like this?

When I use to be on POF 80% of my messages were targeted at women who would "view me". Typically these women were to lame to initiate first contact, I did pretty well with that.

POF, or any dating website for that matter, are nothing but sideshows filled with fat, shallow, stupid, and emotionally unbalanced individuals.

Quit taking a bunch of social retards on the internet so seriously. Stop bottom-feeding and go out in the real world and you won't encounter all this frustration for little reward.

Agreed hence I shut my POF down, but don't be fooled the hot chicks you see on the field are on POF as well they just use it for an ego boost or see if they can catch a pretty-boy sucker who will finance their livestyle

 

[Solomon]

anybody noticed also women who have been on pof for 1+ years? If a women gets 70 emails a day multiple that by 30 days in a month that's 2100 messages. So she gets roughly 25,200 messages a year (Im just talking new ones)

and she can't find one guy that fits her standards? am i missing something

 

[Borknagar]

Thats another point, in fact, if I notice a girls been on there for awhile,I never bother with her. Cause even if you manage a date it's probably not gonna go anywhere/.

 

[pdx1138]

another I've noticed recently:

"interested especially if you are tall and have a big truck"

--so you can haul her blubber azz around no doubt


and

"where are the attractive guys"

--dating the non whale size species

 

[Robert28]

if you want to have fun on pof and have your inbox blow up, erase everything you have on your about me.....everything. then type up a list about the things you despise about women. dont sugarcoat it, dont hold back, think really deep about the stuff about women that drives you crazy, pisses you off, the stuff that you HATE about them. sit back and watch your inbox fillup from girls trying to qualify themselves to you or cussing you out because you hit a nerve.lol

 

[Single4Life]

Spot on, PDX. I've seen those countless times. About 15% feel the need to put they don't just want a ONS on there too.(Clearly just got hump & dumped for the 100th time in a row. )

I"ve also seen a lot of those instant bitter showers. i.e. "I have trust issues." I couldn't believe some of the sh1t these chicks said. I know if I said half of this sh1t there's no way I'd stand a chance.

But that's probably why they are on POF.

I'm really tempted to make a thread regarding these things. I think there's enough stupid sh1t chicks do on there to make one.

Moral of the story : *****es can get away with anything they want because of how males and female bodies work.

It comes down to how the male and female physiological systems work.

Males are dictated, by the brain/reproductive system, to chase *****. If we get horny enough, we don't even mind if the chick is chubby but has a pretty face, you know, the ones with big tits and a pretty face you know would be hot if she lost the weight? Guys want to chase ***** all day. It's in our DNA.

Females, on the other hand, don't have this desire like men do. The only time they feel the "need" to chase after **** is when they are depressed, it's been a long time and need a booster, or a guy is really good looking or has $$ or both. They are in no rush.


This is why an average looking 5 female gets 1000 messages a day on a site like POF, whereas guys don't.

 

[Single4Life]

Tall girls definitely seem to be over-represented online, but that doesn't come as a surprise. Also feeling Zarky on the big drop in quality through the late twenties/early thirties bracket, again, there's pretty obvious reasons for that. No use lamenting these things but it's good to understand what we're facing out there.

I think the spamming/shotgun approach is obsolete, it's useless at best and probably harming our chances at worst (by contributing to the overall problem), forget about it. Personally I only send out about five contact requests a week, if that, and even when accepted I don't think they result in all that much action in the long run. Nope, by far and away my most successful exploits have come about as a result of requests I received FROM girls (not that I'm drowning in them or anything). One incoming request is probably worth a good 50 outgoing spam messages in terms of its likelihood in getting you laid.

Do what you can to get those incoming messages rolling in.

We all know good pics are important, it's practically redundant to mention that.

Change your bait, often. Re-write your profile and emphasise a different aspect of your personality/life each time. Don't flat out lie, and don't re-write your profile in order to target particular users, it's transparently obvious (unless they're retarded, in which case, go for it). A week should be enough time between changes; sporty outdoorsman one week, bookish intellectual the next. View a bunch of "susceptible" profiles so the girls can backtrack and find that you're just what they're looking for.

Works best if you can remodel the profile in an authentic way, sometimes it might just be a matter of removing certain details that would otherwise disqualify you with a certain type of girl - for instance, I fvcking love baiting vegans and environmentalists for my own amusement but I'll pull way back on that shtick if I'm writing for generic hipster-tail.

Anybody else using a more focused, let-them-come-to-you, anti-spam approach like this?

I used to go on POF about a year ago. I quit the site after about a month. I got a message from a 7 in her mid 20's, something like "Hi im x and i really like u" or some**** like that. ***** was looking for a dude to take care of her $$$.

Every now and then you can find a gem on an online site, but mostly it's not worth the time.

I know someone who got his girlfriend on one of the dating sites, and this dude is ugly, overweight/obese with glasses. But he got a 20 year old nerdy gamer chick with a really pretty face and an amazing body......

so it works sometimes. But it's just easier to go out and do it in person.

 

[Solomon]

if you want to have fun on pof and have your inbox blow up, erase everything you have on your about me.....everything. then type up a list about the things you despise about women. dont sugarcoat it, dont hold back, think really deep about the stuff about women that drives you crazy, pisses you off, the stuff that you HATE about them. sit back and watch your inbox fillup from girls trying to qualify themselves to you or cussing you out because you hit a nerve.lol

When you do this do you have your pic up or an alternate pic?
you ever been banned for that?

 

[Robert28]

When you do this do you have your pic up or an alternate pic?
you ever been banned for that?

i did it the last week i was on that site. i kept all of my pics up, as i wasnt scared to show my face, i stood behind everything i said. if someone happen to see me out in public and want to say something to me about it, well fine and dandy. i wasn't banned, i ended up deleting my profile because it was a waste of time for me.

 

[Robert28]

I used to go on POF about a year ago. I quit the site after about a month. I got a message from a 7 in her mid 20's, something like "Hi im x and i really like u" or some**** like that. ***** was looking for a dude to take care of her $$$.

Every now and then you can find a gem on an online site, but mostly it's not worth the time.

I know someone who got his girlfriend on one of the dating sites, and this dude is ugly, overweight/obese with glasses. But he got a 20 year old nerdy gamer chick with a really pretty face and an amazing body......

so it works sometimes. But it's just easier to go out and do it in person.

so answer me this.....if this guy is as ugly as you say he is, and this girl is as cute and fit as you claim.....how in the blue he!! did he a) not get flaked on before the date since obviously she saw his pics beforehand. better yet, how id the world did he get her to talk to him in the first place???? b) how did he manage to get a second, third, fourth date, etc??? i went on two dates, i look EXACTLY like my pics. i even sent these girls pics when they would ask me to take one and text it to them. we went on a date and had a great time, they had me all up in their house, weren't in any rush to get the date over with, kept smiling and giving all the right signals, even kissed me at the end. and i dont mean no quick peck either. guess what?? i havent heard from either one since and to be honest, neither one of them were as hot as their pics, both were a bit heavier then they appeared on their pics compared to in person, but both were still doable. c) how is he managing to keep this girl around and not get cheated on like every 5 mins?????

 

[joverby]

The only way that would work is if the chick had REALLY low self-esteem IMO.

Also I recently changed my POF profile to something similar cause I just don't give a sh1t. I might even amp it up more. I'll find it quick.

"Won't be doing anything on here anymore. If you'd like feel free to message me, I'll still get a e-mail update.

I've come to the conclusion (almost all)girls are on here just to get their ego stroked. Which mind you, is grossly out of proportion the majority of the time. But I suppose it's hard to have a realistic prospective of yourself when you get 100's of desperate dudes messaging you constantly."

Left my pics up.