POF Experiment in the eyes of a female - 99% guys have no game

[gspshields2]

I've been on POF for a few weeks now trying to experiment from a females perspective. Using a 7.5-8's picture, I have been seeing which guys I respond to and which guys I ignore.

99% of those guys on there have absolutely nothing interesting to say at all.

90% of guys on there message "hi" or "hey, whats up"

I found that I did not want to reply to any of the guys,

and then there was a guy with hotter body than everyone else (no homo) a sixpack picture, and I replied to him. He was clearly an alpha male who was probably getting lots of other girls on that site.
He refused to give facebook and when I asked he quickly blocked me.

Hes obviously looking for a hookup.

I have to conclude that all guys on that site are losers no?

If I was a female and after 1 month there, I probably wouldn't give any of those guys my number.



Especially after this is what they have to say:

afc guy: hi, whats up

hb 7.5 girl: hey

afc guy: hey whats up, what are you up to?

hb 7.5 girl: im chatting on pof...

afc guy: cool, lets hang out, whats your number?

hb 7.5 girl: umm just like that? you don't want to talk first?

afc guy: yeah no problem, so what are you up to?

hb 7.5 girl: i just told you im chatting on pof


I am now officially ashamed of all men.


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EDIT FINALLY FOUND A GUY WHO WAS FUNNY I THINK HE HAS SOME GAME, LISTEN:


Found a guy that is interesting, heres his messages:

Hey, when did they start letting short girls in here?

You look like trouble, you dork. And I need a getaway driver. Wanna rob a shoe store together and then hijack a private jet to Paris?

Msg 2:


After a quick overview of your profile, I wanted to let you know that I have already married and divorced you in my mind.

Thanks for all the wonderful imaginary memories... you will always have a special place in my heart.

Your ex-hubby,
****

P.S. - You can keep the beach house in Laguna, as long as I can have the dog and my body building trophies back.

 

[cablecow15]

so your ashamed of all men after dredging me most fetid cesspit of male failure ?

Pof is where those who cant get anything else go , or those that just use it for random crap on the side , its by no means a accurate judge of male performance as a hole .

no wonder you think you have to leave the country for women ,if this is how you evaluate things

 

[Vice]

EDIT FINALLY FOUND A GUY WHO WAS FUNNY I THINK HE HAS SOME GAME, LISTEN:


Found a guy that is interesting, heres his messages:

Hey, when did they start letting short girls in here?

You look like trouble, you dork. And I need a getaway driver. Wanna rob a shoe store together and then hijack a private jet to Paris?

Msg 2:


After a quick overview of your profile, I wanted to let you know that I have already married and divorced you in my mind.

Thanks for all the wonderful imaginary memories... you will always have a special place in my heart.

Your ex-hubby,
****

P.S. - You can keep the beach house in Laguna, as long as I can have the dog and my body building trophies back.

These seem like they're canned/copied & pasted. Still better than the other sh*t.

My f*ck buddy will let me chat with guys on her Facebook because they annoy the hell out of her. I ask them what they did and they'll never have a good, solid response, more like along the lines of "nuthin, wats up wit u".

Most guys have nothing going for them. Nothing interesting to do. It's easy to stand out just by being passionate about something.

Oh, and telling an interesting story is a great way too hook them. When a girl asks a normal lame guy what they like to do, they'll reply with general "hang out with my friends. cars. sports". When a girl asks a cool guy what they like to do, he'll mention the same thing but tell an interesting story about throwing firecrackers at college kids with his friends, or how the horn on his car went off randomly, or how he got a scar in paintball (all true stories of mine).

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I've been on POF for a few weeks now trying to experiment from a females perspective. Using a 7.5-8's picture, I have been seeing which guys I respond to and which guys I ignore.

99% of those guys on there have absolutely nothing interesting to say at all.

90% of guys on there message "hi" or "hey, whats up"

I found that I did not want to reply to any of the guys,

and then there was a guy with hotter body than everyone else (no homo) a sixpack picture, and I replied to him. He was clearly an alpha male who was probably getting lots of other girls on that site.
He refused to give facebook and when I asked he quickly blocked me.

Hes obviously looking for a hookup.

I have to conclude that all guys on that site are losers no?

If I was a female and after 1 month there, I probably wouldn't give any of those guys my number.



Especially after this is what they have to say:

afc guy: hi, whats up

hb 7.5 girl: hey

afc guy: hey whats up, what are you up to?

hb 7.5 girl: im chatting on pof...

afc guy: cool, lets hang out, whats your number?

hb 7.5 girl: umm just like that? you don't want to talk first?

afc guy: yeah no problem, so what are you up to?

hb 7.5 girl: i just told you im chatting on pof


I am now officially ashamed of all men.


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EDIT FINALLY FOUND A GUY WHO WAS FUNNY I THINK HE HAS SOME GAME, LISTEN:


Found a guy that is interesting, heres his messages:

Hey, when did they start letting short girls in here?

You look like trouble, you dork. And I need a getaway driver. Wanna rob a shoe store together and then hijack a private jet to Paris?

Msg 2:


After a quick overview of your profile, I wanted to let you know that I have already married and divorced you in my mind.

Thanks for all the wonderful imaginary memories... you will always have a special place in my heart.

Your ex-hubby,
****

P.S. - You can keep the beach house in Laguna, as long as I can have the dog and my body building trophies back.

Congratulations GSPsheilds! You just got 'picked up' by a Brah using a copy pasta off Bodybuilding.com. When's the wedding? See? POF IS working for you and them after all! LMFAO.

Check out the Bodybuilding.com "Plenty of Fish Discussion threads". The latest is V.5. Ask Solomon to find out who the 'lucky' brah was that 'scored'. Hahahahaha

What's next GSP? You change your screenname to Jerry Sandusky?

 

[zekko]

Why do so many guys on this site put up a woman's profile, pose as women, and chat with guys online? Doesn't anyone else find this a little disturbing? Is this something you would do?

Do you guys dress up as women and go hang out in the clubs and bars to see how many guys try to pick you up? Wtf.

I've looked at that POF site before, and I figure most of the decent looking pictures are posted by guys here pretending to be women.

 

[betheman]

Ive tried this experiment to see what the competition was like, ive never gone so far as to chat to the guys though.
what I did find was quite simple and nothing new. most guys have sh!t to say and Im not surprised women dont reply. women get tons of messages, mostly one-two words.

Ive also had a profile of a good looking guy, good pic, tall...= women messaging me!!

that site is waste of time for most average looking guys, however if you are tall (you dont have to be good looking) you will do well, if your tall & god looking, log in and crack open a beer and wait for the messages. it is that simple for the tall good looking guys.

 

[juicywa]

lol gpshield, u faggot. why you go so far as to pretend and chat, we have no idea. closet homo

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Ive tried this experiment to see what the competition was like, ive never gone so far as to chat to the guys though.
what I did find was quite simple and nothing new. most guys have sh!t to say and Im not surprised women dont reply. women get tons of messages, mostly one-two words.

Ive also had a profile of a good looking guy, good pic, tall...= women messaging me!!

that site is waste of time for most average looking guys, however if you are tall (you dont have to be good looking) you will do well, if your tall & god looking, log in and crack open a beer and wait for the messages. it is that simple for the tall good looking guys.

Thank you for dispelling this ridiculous idea about "game". Game doesn't exist. Especially not online. If you're tall and good looking, you could message a girl with "fjsknfksxzl;,39tji" and she'll be like "So when do you want to hook up?"

Game? :crackup:

 

[floydb25]

It sounds like you're enjoying being a woman a little too much. I'm having a hard time differentiating what you said, and what a woman would say. I don't mean as far as conversating with those guys, but, well, everything you posted. "Oh, this guy was hot and interesting, and made my vag tingle, so I responded to him". WTF. Not even suprised anymore.

This site is becoming a source of entertainment more than anything. For a forum that's supposed to be about man'ing up, some of these gents are sure acting like women. You don't need to become a woman to understand certain things about them. :cheer:

 

[evan12]

OP: In all the history men wasnt suppose to be women pleasers , men trained to engage in battles , to win , to get resources , not to chat with some silly girls and make them laugh
it is the first time in history men need such silly skills .
dont blame them men because they can make that HB happy
men used to even buy a woman ( as in arranged marriage or as slave ) or to get a woman by force in wars , not by wearing nice and trying to find a way to please that woman
this is not our nature

 

[zekko]

If I was trying to seduce some nice looking chick online, and it turned out to be some dude posing as a woman, I'd be sorely tempted to hunt him down and take a tire iron to him.

 

[Burroughs]

the faggot is strong in this one

 

[gspshields2]

Im trying to learn game by observing successful Alpha Males.

I don't see anything wrong with that. That was what this whole experiment was for.

 

[zekko]

Im trying to learn game by observing successful Alpha Males.

I don't see anything wrong with that. That was what this whole experiment was for.

Nothing personal, young man. Usually guys do this to see how much easier women have it than men on the dating scene. For instance: "My profile has been up a month and I haven't gotten one email. But I put up a profile of an attractive girl and I got 60 emails in ten minutes".

Problem is, think of the poor schmucks who email this fake profile. Here you have a sea of ugs and fatties and you put up one picture of a decent looking girl. Suddenly the poor guy's hopes are up: "Finally, someone who appeals to me". But nope, it's just some dude.

You don't mention the age group of the guys you are searching for. I'm guessing they're fairly young. I would think once guys get to a certain age, they probably would be able to come up with something to talk about, beyond "Hey, wassup".

 

[Iceberg]

Im trying to learn game by observing successful Alpha Males.

I don't see anything wrong with that. That was what this whole experiment was for.

95% of the guys on POF have no clue what they're doing. So it's a pretty stupid experiment.

womp womp

Good luck though. I hope you find the men you're looking for.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Ive tried this experiment to see what the competition was like, ive never gone so far as to chat to the guys though.
what I did find was quite simple and nothing new. most guys have sh!t to say and Im not surprised women dont reply. women get tons of messages, mostly one-two words.

Ive also had a profile of a good looking guy, good pic, tall...= women messaging me!!

that site is waste of time for most average looking guys, however if you are tall (you dont have to be good looking) you will do well, if your tall & god looking, log in and crack open a beer and wait for the messages. it is that simple for the tall good looking guys.

I've laughed at this thread just now. I as well haven't even "conversed" with these dudes who say "what's up?" every other message, and I haven't logged on a the female profile in months, forgot the password, would have to make another.

I feel fortunate that I can post my own pics, and explain who I am in my description and get at least 3-5 messages a week, IF I log on 3-5 times a week. I pop up on their searches or something when I do. 90% of the ones who message me out of the blue are ugly, fat, or a mom with kids, and loser afc girls who try to be funny i.e. dike-like. I just view their profile and never open up their message. I don't even want to read it. Now on that rare occasion I get a decent to hot one message me or IM me, I perk up and start the ball rolling to get the number to get the lay. It's extremely rare these days, and I do seek out the non-fat ones via search, and they will be viewing me, messaging me, etc ONLY when I do it to them first. You have to seek out the hot ones, while the fat/ugly/mom/probably stretch-marked ones will seek you out if you're dominant-looking or looking like you have money or are funny in your profile.

Sad, but the Value here in America is severely Tipped (abnormally skewed) to where Only the worst to worse chicks actually Speak to you or will contact you out of the blue, but you (a good-looking strong male) have to go Way out of your way to get any type of initiation going with a average to hot one. It should be tit for tat, equal for equal, but the po0n-skew is Severe here in America. It's like a vast bottomless gap or bridge from one good man to wade across to get to Just a decent one, a decent one who will Simply SPEAK to you and continue speaking with you beyond a couple of sentences. Something is terribly wrong here in America. Could be the iphones, social media, who knows, but Women Are Not That Greater than us guys. They are Every bit as human as we are, and have multiple upon multiple unattractive faults that they constantly hide or cover up. They are in fantasy land half the time thinking that they are this "goddess" or "princess" or wealthy b!tch with their iphones in hand, but um, I can't imagine how Many of these hoes have credit maxed out to the nth degree not to mention student loans (how many do you see posting that they are "working on their masters" or "going back to school to be...a veterinarian." Yeah right, I'm gonna get with you to support your education and to pay off your debt, raises your kid who's not mine...yeah riiiight.

But These are the ones who consistently message me week in and week out, and they do not care that I am way outta their league. They Still think that they can get that diamond ring they see all shiny which stands out. Um they look in the mirror all the time primping, but don't see how far they've fallen with the mistakes they've made in their lives, pissing money away, getting degree upon degree, eating too much ice cream or fast food or walmart food, never settling for a male their equal, thinking they will always live forever. You think I'm not gonna show you a true reflection of yourself when you contact me for a date? Wrong! I'm calloused as a mother fvcker and have had Way better than her average-to-fat-self could ever be. I'm going to put up the mirror and Tell her Exactly Why I can not have anything to do with her! as harsh as it may sound, Fvck em.

 

[Burroughs]

Something is terribly wrong here in America.

Could be the iphones, social media, who knows, but Women Are Not That Greater than us guys. They are Every bit as human as we are, and have multiple upon multiple unattractive faults that they constantly hide or cover up. They are in fantasy land half the time thinking that they are this "goddess" or "princess" or wealthy b!tch with their iphones in hand, but um, I can't imagine how Many of these hoes have credit maxed out to the nth degree not to mention student loans (how many do you see posting that they are "working on their masters" or "going back to school to be...a veterinarian." Yeah right, I'm gonna get with you to support your education and to pay off your debt, raises your kid who's not mine...yeah riiiight.

But These are the ones who consistently message me week in and week out, and they do not care that I am way outta their league. They Still think that they can get that diamond ring they see all shiny which stands out. Um they look in the mirror all the time primping, but don't see how far they've fallen with the mistakes they've made in their lives, pissing money away, getting degree upon degree, eating too much ice cream or fast food or walmart food, never settling for a male their equal, thinking they will always live forever. You think I'm not gonna show you a true reflection of yourself when you contact me for a date? Wrong! I'm calloused as a mother fvcker and have had Way better than her average-to-fat-self could ever be. I'm going to put up the mirror and Tell her Exactly Why I can not have anything to do with her! as harsh as it may sound, Fvck em.

fantastic post...

you said it brother ' a true reflection of yourself' problem is that it would crack the mirror of most of these bishes lol

and the causes are many...faggot controlled media, government nanny state, on and on...all have pedestalized women where in their emotional tampon brains WOMEN ALL HONESTLY BELIEVE THEY DESERVE BRAD PITT WITH STEVE JOB'S WEALTH..

even below average, drug addict chicks think they deserve houses with marble countertops, 5 bathrooms, three car garages, and some sort of monied lifestyle that their meager looks, horrible attitude, and nasty outlook towards men simply will not bring.

thats the fubar aspect...a hair dresser chick addicted to meth would turn her nose up at steve jobs if he had walked in a room...she wants steve job's money with brad pitts face (and would still make him 'work' for it lol)....AND SHE THINKS SHE DESERVES IT...

AND ALL OF SOCIETY SUPPORTS THIS...

Men have been sacrificing and destroying their souls in exchange for the meaningless currency of women's respect, love and approval?

"It's hard to respect a wimpy man..."

And what can that man do with your respect? IT'S MEANINGLESS!

If a woman "respects" you or sees you as "a REEALLL MAAAN", you're doing something wrong.

Personally, I don't want a woman's respect. I don't need it. I can't eat it, I can't live in it, I can't wear it, and men who go after it tend to die younger.

No thanks.

 

[ArcBound]

You are ashamed of all men yet you are the one trying to seduce the hottie with a six pack. Lol.

 

[floydb25]

Im trying to learn game by observing successful Alpha Males.

I don't see anything wrong with that. That was what this whole experiment was for.

That's another problem - over-complicating things for yourself. I think so many people are preoccupied with game, and becoming an alpha male, that they lose focus of what's going on in the real world. The basic principles are all you need, and they're pretty simple. Things like: its a numbers game, don't be afraid to let someone go, date around, stop being such a whiney ass ***** all the time, there's a lot of losers and crazies out there. That's it. No need to make things out to be bigger than they are.

I think failure and rejection leads to unhealthy obsession and irrational thinking. IE, thinking you need to become x and y, and basically change your entire being, in order to become successful. In the meanwhile, all these perfect opportunities are slipping you by. Chances are high that there's a lot of unneccessary sabotaging, and horrible decision making going on in their lives, as well.

Still living in a fantasy world, eh? I mean, come on... Acting like a female to understand females, and how to become an alpha male? If that's not an unhealthy obsession, I don't know what is. Those core issues that brought you to this mindset are still running the show. You're just digging your hole deeper and deeper - likely becoming more crazy, delusional, and bitter in the process. "All girls want are hot guys with no personalities. I KNEW IT. Now that my psycho, overly obsessive, well-beyond stalking ass pretended to be a female to figure this out - I have FIRST-HAND EVIDENCE. **** them *****es! I'm moving to Mars, where there are no women to act this way!" -- You.

But, girls are the same way, which brings us back to the original point of men acting like women. Talk to any skank ***** ***** **** - which, ironically, some of the guys on here are trying to attract - and she'll have the same mindset, attitude, stories, and beliefs as some of the guys on here. It's how she became this way, and why some of the guys are becoming the same way - likely by getting involved with such a crazy mess of a person in the first place.

You know all those hoes who got hurt, and now play all these crap games, act like *****es, don't trust anyone, sleep around, dress like hookers, attention *****, piss everyone off, complain about their lack of success, how they can't find a good man, and sabotage their entire beings - as they try to find out "what works" - for something as simple as giving too much of a **** about what other people want? Yeah, that's you.

They're all just going around in circles - trying to obtain some holy power that doesn't exist outside of their heads. Plus, going way overboard in their quest to "win" over the opposite sex, be accepted, and not to get hurt. Too much of an overhaul is not healthy, or even necessary. Most of this **** has no basis whatsoever on reality, and causes the same problems they're trying to avoid - if not even create new ones.

I suspect there's also other deep-seeded issues at play (ie, they're all ****ing crazy).

A better experiment is to look at all these women you're *****ing about on a constant basis, and then look inward to see how similar you are (or became) to them. It's a quite disgusting reality when you look at it that way. No longer are they the problem - its you. You're the crazy, obsessive, shallow one with issues, and trying to be something you're not - who just so happens to be attracting what you are (ie, fake, crazy, shallow, obsessive *****es). Round and round it goes. Just lots of *****ing between fake people - directed towards other fake people, and the fact that they're so fake - only to one-up them by... becoming even more fake than they are. Then wondering why everyone is so fake. :trouble:

Once you realize this, your whole mindset about all this **** changes. But, that takes time, and a lot of self-reflection. In the meantime, enjoy all the pain and misery... I guess.

It is interesting (and entertaining) to observe all this from an outside perspective, though. I used to be in a lot of these guys' shoes. It's crazy looking back. Even from the perspective of being captain save-a-ho white knight extraordinare, and how similar those experiences are to what these guys are going through. Captain save-a-bro is no better. They're usually the same people complaining about what they are. Most of them probably don't even know WHO they are anymore. They're so caught up in all this pointless **** that they lost themselves in the process. Before it was losing themselves to women - now its losing themselves to the game. You're still lost. Same ****.

I guess I went off on a tangent, but this **** is getting crazy stupid. It's the same **** all over: on the internet, in magazines, and in real-life. Repeat after me: Who the **** cares. It's not important. Let it go. Live your life. Stop worrying about other people. That's all the success you need. Banging 50 women a week isn't going to make you happy. You'll just find something else to complain about - like the fact that all these shallow, fake hoes are shallow, fake hoes. Who would've thunk it.

The more crazy people you associate with, and obsess over - the more crazy you become. Solution: stop associating with, and obsessing over crazy people - by not being crazy yourself. Don't try to become even MORE crazy than them, and beat them at their own "game". Don't get sucked into the crazy. Crazy bad. Sane good.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Im trying to learn game by observing successful Alpha Males.

I don't see anything wrong with that. That was what this whole experiment was for.

Girls are attracted to attractive men. Not alpha men. We're not packs of wolves or gorillas. We don't live in harems.

The whole "alpha" idea is just an offshoot of PUA theory. Its only proof is in poorly written comparative analyses between humans and primitive animals with a much more primitive social structure.

Here is what MODERN SCIENCE has proven to attract women:

1) Symmetrical facial features
2) Height (it is no secret that most women prefer tall men)

When a girl is in her more fertile stage of the month, science has proven her bias towards taller men is even STRONGER. Why? Because instinctively height is seen as a signal of strong/healthy genes and she wants her CHILD to share those traits. Women are attracted to symmetrical facial features because symmetrical facial feature are again, a sign of healthy/strong genes. And the woman wants those for her CHILD.

Those are scientifically proven driving factors behind a woman's choice of men. No $1000 PUA seminar, "game" or "alpha" behaviour is going to change these scientific facts on mate selection.