1.) Was this a POF girl?
No. It was a girl I had known for quite some time at one of my regular hangouts. She asked me out one night and since I wasn't seeing anyone at the time, I figured what the hell.,
2.) She claimed she was tested?
I don't think this discussion ever came up.
3.) Did she have visible herpes that you came in contact with, or did you not really look? I know it could be passed either way but I think the likelihood of it being passed is greater if the sores are there.....
There were a few odd things that noticed while I was dating her. She wouldn't let me go down on her, she wore a pad 24/7, and she used the highest rated sunblock she could find. With herpes, the best thing you can do is keep the area dry for quicker healing, and overexposure to the sun can trigger an outbreak.
Also, it's very possible that you cannot see a herpes outbreak when it's happening inside a woman.
4.) Did you wear a raincoat and/or did she give you head?
No to both, but a condom doesn't really protect you against herpes. If she's having an outbreak, the virus can travel via her puzzy juice or if her outbreak occurs just outside the vagina.
How soon after the sex did it develop or how did you realize there was an issue?
It remained dormant for over 2 years before I had my first outbreak. It took a bit to figure out who gave it to me, which resulted in me contacting all the previous women I slept with and asked them to get tested. All of them came back negative. The one who gave it to me isn't on speaking terms with me, so I just had to add up the evidence.