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POF and STDS???

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I am scoring dates and hook ups with girls on POF at an amazing rate..... Do you all think girls on here have a higher STD rate? It seems like a lot of girls I meet on here are ready to bang soon.... its like I am happy cause girls I've picked up from straight sarging takes more work... but maybe I'm looking a gift horse in the mouth here.....

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Reyaj said:
I am scoring dates and hook ups with girls on POF at an amazing rate..... Do you all think girls on here have a higher STD rate? It seems like a lot of girls I meet on here are ready to bang soon.... its like I am happy cause girls I've picked up from straight sarging takes more work... but maybe I'm looking a gift horse in the mouth here.....

Thoughts?
Yes you better wrap it up. It is not just POF, STD's are on the rise and you can thank the sluts for that. You think they are just dating you? Alot of females are banging 5, 6 guys off the internet at the same time. They go on 10 dates a day and bang the most desirable and accumulate f/ck buddies.

I am VERY lucky I never got one from the sluts I engaged. I really don't know how I avoided it, I used to use 6 month old condoms that broke all the time and I finally realized they broke because they sat in the drawer for 8 months.
 

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In my dating profiles under what I'm looking for the first thing I have is "must be std free/get tested often"

You'd be amazed how many women say they don't meet my requirements because of that one thing alone!
 

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Wrap it up until you can really trust a girl. That goes for any girl regardless of where you met her. You're not just protecting yourself from STDs but also from very expensive "accidents."
 

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I'm amazed at how many slvts don't insist on using a condom.
Of the 150+ chicks I've fvcked, I'd say easily that 90% were willing to go rawdog if I hadn't made the choice to wear one.

I mean if I was a chick and going to let some random stick his junk inside me, I'd be insisting on a stainless steel condom, rubber gloves and a bucket of Dettol.

It's not worth a lifetime of pain for a few minutes of condom-less pleasure.
 

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I got mine from a chick I had a LTR with. You're going to be safer banging random women than you will having a LTR with one who hides the fact that she has an STD.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
I'm amazed at how many slvts don't insist on using a condom.
Of the 150+ chicks I've fvcked, I'd say easily that 90% were willing to go rawdog if I hadn't made the choice to wear one.

I mean if I was a chick and going to let some random stick his junk inside me, I'd be insisting on a stainless steel condom, rubber gloves and a bucket of Dettol.

It's not worth a lifetime of pain for a few minutes of condom-less pleasure.

At least half of them probably wanted to get knocked up from any man who could afford child support.
 

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Desdinova said:
I got mine from a chick I had a LTR with. You're going to be safer banging random women than you will having a LTR with one who hides the fact that she has an STD.
Seriously. My philosophy is, use a condom until you're trying to have a kid.

Even LTRs end. And after the LTR ends, I don't want to be wondering about the odds of the ex gf having given me a STD.
 

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Desdinova said:
I got mine from a chick I had a LTR with. You're going to be safer banging random women than you will having a LTR with one who hides the fact that she has an STD.
Which std?
 

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I had an std scare from some pof poon...damn that was a scary few weeks.

turned out to be NOT one though in the end and fixed
with an ointment after a visit to the doctors office.

still though, that chic easily could have had one. and yes I wore a raincoat.
 

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I thought I had herpes once. It was real weird though, I actually had shingles at the age of 19.

Sh!t hurt so bad, I had to walk around some times hold my t-shirt away from my skin because it hurt to even have my t shirt brush up against it.

The doctor took one look at me and says "looks like you got herpes" ... My stomach felt like it had a cinder block in it.

But it wasn't on my junk, and so he took a test and it was shingles. But it went away, never came back. Valtrex does the trick (and not taking amphetamines continuously)

I think it was the amount of adderal I was taking at the time (because I was getting it for free), in combination with the stress of a relationship with a bdp hb 5, and the fact I was welding a lot ( turns out exposure to u.v. rays can cause it).

So if thats how shingles felt, herpes has to be just a terrible thing to have. wrap your hot dog before you go throwing it down the the garbage disposal.
 

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So if thats how shingles felt, herpes has to be just a terrible thing to have.
It's not even close. I'd rather have herpes than shingles. The worst thing about herpes is the first outbreak. Everything after that is only mildly irritating and it gets milder as time passes.
 

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Desdinova said:
It's not even close. I'd rather have herpes than shingles. The worst thing about herpes is the first outbreak. Everything after that is only mildly irritating and it gets milder as time passes.

Des thanks for being honest and sharing this. I'd like to learn more about this...

1.) Was this a POF girl?
2.) She claimed she was tested?
3.) Did she have visible herpes that you came in contact with, or did you not really look? I know it could be passed either way but I think the likelihood of it being passed is greater if the sores are there.....
4.) Did you wear a raincoat and/or did she give you head?


How soon after the sex did it develop or how did you realize there was an issue?
 

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noobolgy said:
I thought I had herpes once. It was real weird though, I actually had shingles at the age of 19.

Sh!t hurt so bad, I had to walk around some times hold my t-shirt away from my skin because it hurt to even have my t shirt brush up against it.

The doctor took one look at me and says "looks like you got herpes" ... My stomach felt like it had a cinder block in it.

But it wasn't on my junk, and so he took a test and it was shingles. But it went away, never came back. Valtrex does the trick (and not taking amphetamines continuously)

I think it was the amount of adderal I was taking at the time (because I was getting it for free), in combination with the stress of a relationship with a bdp hb 5, and the fact I was welding a lot ( turns out exposure to u.v. rays can cause it).

So if thats how shingles felt, herpes has to be just a terrible thing to have. wrap your hot dog before you go throwing it down the the garbage disposal.
i had shingles once when i was 25, horrid horrid experience.
 

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1.) Was this a POF girl?

No. It was a girl I had known for quite some time at one of my regular hangouts. She asked me out one night and since I wasn't seeing anyone at the time, I figured what the hell.,

2.) She claimed she was tested?

I don't think this discussion ever came up.

3.) Did she have visible herpes that you came in contact with, or did you not really look? I know it could be passed either way but I think the likelihood of it being passed is greater if the sores are there.....

There were a few odd things that noticed while I was dating her. She wouldn't let me go down on her, she wore a pad 24/7, and she used the highest rated sunblock she could find. With herpes, the best thing you can do is keep the area dry for quicker healing, and overexposure to the sun can trigger an outbreak.

Also, it's very possible that you cannot see a herpes outbreak when it's happening inside a woman.

4.) Did you wear a raincoat and/or did she give you head?

No to both, but a condom doesn't really protect you against herpes. If she's having an outbreak, the virus can travel via her puzzy juice or if her outbreak occurs just outside the vagina.

How soon after the sex did it develop or how did you realize there was an issue?

It remained dormant for over 2 years before I had my first outbreak. It took a bit to figure out who gave it to me, which resulted in me contacting all the previous women I slept with and asked them to get tested. All of them came back negative. The one who gave it to me isn't on speaking terms with me, so I just had to add up the evidence.
 

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Desdinova said:
1.) Was this a POF girl?

No. It was a girl I had known for quite some time at one of my regular hangouts. She asked me out one night and since I wasn't seeing anyone at the time, I figured what the hell.,

2.) She claimed she was tested?

I don't think this discussion ever came up.

3.) Did she have visible herpes that you came in contact with, or did you not really look? I know it could be passed either way but I think the likelihood of it being passed is greater if the sores are there.....

There were a few odd things that noticed while I was dating her. She wouldn't let me go down on her, she wore a pad 24/7, and she used the highest rated sunblock she could find. With herpes, the best thing you can do is keep the area dry for quicker healing, and overexposure to the sun can trigger an outbreak.

Also, it's very possible that you cannot see a herpes outbreak when it's happening inside a woman.

4.) Did you wear a raincoat and/or did she give you head?

No to both, but a condom doesn't really protect you against herpes. If she's having an outbreak, the virus can travel via her puzzy juice or if her outbreak occurs just outside the vagina.

How soon after the sex did it develop or how did you realize there was an issue?

It remained dormant for over 2 years before I had my first outbreak. It took a bit to figure out who gave it to me, which resulted in me contacting all the previous women I slept with and asked them to get tested. All of them came back negative. The one who gave it to me isn't on speaking terms with me, so I just had to add up the evidence.
damn.... I didn't know it could be dormant for 2 years before the first outbreak.... I guess I have to worry as I've been with a few skanky chicks last year... damn that sucks. Was the first outbreak you had as bad as I read? Basically very painful red pimples on your penis... and also flu like symptoms...?

Do you tell any new girl you are with that you have it, or just keep it on the down low?
 

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Reyaj said:
damn.... I didn't know it could be dormant for 2 years before the first outbreak.... I guess I have to worry as I've been with a few skanky chicks last year... damn that sucks. Was the first outbreak you had as bad as I read? Basically very painful red pimples on your penis... and also flu like symptoms...?

Do you tell any new girl you are with that you have it, or just keep it on the down low?
There's people out there who have had it dormant for over a decade.

The worst part about the first outbreak for me was the painful urination and ejaculation. I had some nausea and my legs felt like I had ran a marathon. I only had one sore and it wasn't painful. I get more of a mild itch than anything.

It's something that gets better as time goes on, so it's not really anything that I worry about.

I've only had to tell one woman so far, and it didn't scare her off. In fact, we fvcked that same night. If you treat it like it's just a dumb skin irritation, then she'll feed off that. If you treat it like a life-threatening disease, she'll run for the hills.
 

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There's people out there who have had it dormant for over a decade.

The worst part about the first outbreak for me was the painful urination and ejaculation. I had some nausea and my legs felt like I had ran a marathon. I only had one sore and it wasn't painful. I get more of a mild itch than anything.

It's something that gets better as time goes on, so it's not really anything that I worry about.

I've only had to tell one woman so far, and it didn't scare her off. In fact, we fvcked that same night. If you treat it like it's just a dumb skin irritation, then she'll feed off that. If you treat it like a life-threatening disease, she'll run for the hills.
How do you phrase it when you tell a woman? Do you ever keep it from any of them? I did something really risky lately so I want to prepare...
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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