Introductions
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Bring in the normal ice-breakers...
(normally by trying to identify a common link you may have)
Introduce yourself, get her name, get some initial info
The Perfect Gentleman
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Your ****y, but your witty, strongwilled but caring etc.
You need to show your kind/good side, whilst taking care as to not hand your bulls over to her. One way I worked on, was getting them to say they'd marry me, and giving her a nickname, we've avoided the whole friends treatment just by those two actions...
The Right Questions
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You need to ask questions that are revelant, just think of it like this, each question or topic you make, brings you closer or farther away from being a friend or potential boyfriend material. Where does she live? What is shes into? Her free time? etc.
Information which you can make use of later.
Stalling to me, are questions/topics that are made because you "can't" think of anything else to talk about...
The (un)offical Date
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There's millions of ways to do this, normally I always pin them down intellectually in a conversation, always hold her to her word, women totally hate it when guys are like "i told you so..." it annoys them, and if you always keep to yours, makes them attracted to you. One way I pulled off last night was...
Me: Hey Kitty (her real name is ciara, her nick is kitty)
Kitty: Still on about kitty are we "paddy", well if thats what i'm still known as then, yes this is she (i manipulated her into nicknaming me "paddy", note: i did not ask her to).
Me: Ick, calling me paddy, makes me sound like a dog, and if your kitty, you know what that means...
Kitty: No i'm not, you lie! Me food? I still don't get it...
Me: I'd have thought Dog's would never lie, and you being kitty, makes you my prey...
Kitty: Now you see, i still dont get it. All i know is that i'm obliged to die sooner and weirder than i expected. Thats depressing news..
Me: At least you aren't paying for it, ie smoking (i'm making note to the smoking, because i gave her cigarettes eariler)
Kitty: Ah yes, the cigs, I must thank you properly for that, I apreciate more than George ever would! (George is another friend of hers, Note: she's left the opening there, she needs to thank me)
Me: I'll take that as a date at Cafe Nero...
Kitty: Great, cigs = a meal? The things that must be done.. Cafe Nero sounds near haha (she's being indecisive about the ordeal, make the decision for her!)
Me: Think of it as karma, Croydon High Street (place of cafe nero), don't be late... (normally guys are late, by telling her nt to be late, is against tradtional stuff, interesting...)
Kitty: Late?! This is a first, a guy thats on time...
Me: Being late = no free cigarettes, saturday sounds sexy... (ignore her, the topic is about her not being late, and use cigarettes, it was a positive marker before...)
Kitty: I'd come prepared
and I'm college-less, you can decide the arragenment...
Me: After college and before a party, I can squeeze you in.
Kitty: Sqeezed in?!
Me: What can I say, I'm wanted guy...
Etc... we've got a date at 2, she wants to come to the party, and she wants to spend the night over....
There's other ways, I just love using sarcism and intellect to mould them into doing certain things...