pLaYtHiNg's Improvement/Discovery Journal

[I'm in the Mood]

Why is that? Everyone has lives and relationships. Most of us can speak from experience.

"So Far Summary";

I have learned that embracing and behaving in a more feminine manner increases my 'value' to men. I've already stopped swearing. :cheer: I'm also making an effort to dress up just a little more when I go out now. It's kind of fun. The downside is, I get even more unwanted attention and I remember why I didn't like dressing up before. Having a man older then my dad flirting/following me through a parking lot was scary!

I am still working on accepting 'early' sex, or sex before a relationship. I do not know how I will feel about it for sure until it happens. I am keeping an open mind, and looking forward to the opportunity.

The guy whom I initially posted about when I came here e-mailed me yesterday, saying his phone was broken and that he lost my number. I did not e-mail him back. It was tempting, mind you, but hopefully he'll just forget about me. I was only interested in having a relationship, but now that he's dating someone else, I see no point in talking to him.

I thought about why my 'friendship' with him bothered me so much and concluded... A.) it wasn't defined, and B.) I've never been 'rejected'! It's funny, you'd think that I would have realized that was bothering me from the start, but it comes today as some sort of epiphany! His loss!

I feel like I'm forgetting to mention something important here... but onto Roissy's 16 Commandments! (I will abbreviate them here to save space).

Girl, I was trying to save you from the nonsense here. You might be happy right now but to me you sound completely fake. I love when women aren't afraid to swear around me. Early sex? You're an idiot if you believe that you should have sex earlier just because a bunch of guys on here told you so. I'd rather have the challenge of waiting for sex with a woman. Girls who get sexual too fast generally aren't that serious about relationships. Is that what you want, to be able to fvck any man you want? Or do you want a strong and healthy relationship with any man you want? If you want the latter you're on the wrong path dude.

Those will be my last words..Man I'm done trying here. Your femininity has been fvcked with...Good luck to you.

 

[pLaYtHiNg]

You're an idiot if you believe that you should have sex earlier just because a bunch of guys on here told you so.

Not because I was told to do so, but because a lot of what they said made sense. I didn't necessarily agree with all of it... but I've come to understand that I can increase my value (to this guy I don't even talk to anymore) by being intimate instead of waiting.

I don't think change is fake if you want it. Besides, it can't hurt to be more ladylike. I grew up in the south, I should know better!

I'd rather have the challenge of waiting for sex with a woman. Girls who get sexual too fast generally aren't that serious about relationships. Is that what you want, to be able to fvck any man you want? Or do you want a strong and healthy relationship with any man you want? If you want the latter you're on the wrong path dude..

Finding someone to be in a relationship with isn't difficult, and neither is finding someone willing to sleep with me. The hard part is me... I am quite picky, but that has resulted in quality relationships.

I'm just here to learn about what men want and need within relationships.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Not because I was told to do so, but because a lot of what they said made sense. I can increase my value (to this guy I don't even talk to anymore) by being intimate instead of waiting.

Making a man wait for sex, while still being openly sexual shows that you're in control and more valuable. Even if it somehow made sense to you, I'm saying that it was horrible advice, especially if waiting has worked for you before in the past.

I don't think change is fake if you want it. Besides, it can't hurt to be more ladylike. I grew up in the south, I should know better.

Are you trying to tell me you're not ladylike already? If you stay here and learn to think like a man you'll definitely leave feeling more ladylike...

Finding someone to be in a relationship with isn't difficult, and neither is finding someone willing to sleep with me. The hard part is me... I am quite picky, but that has resulted in quality relationships.

There's nothing wrong with being picky, I'm picky too. If the hard part is you, then you want to focus on your self-confidence as I mentioned earlier. If you are more confident in your thoughts and actions you wouldn't be saying that you're the hard part. The only things that are holding you back are primarily your mindset and possibly your happiness in life.

I'm just here to learn about what men want and need within relationships.

The answer: ask him what he wants and needs in a relationship with you.

I can't believe I have to tell you this, I'm only going to be starting my 1st year of college next year and you're already in your twenties. It's a lot simpler than you think it is.

If you have anything more to say please pm me. I actually don't like giving advice like this publicly on this board because everyone else has a different way of thinking these things through and it gets complicated, starts arguements, etc.
It's not worth the immature bullsh!t.

 

[sodbuster]

Well, I've said it before;don't ask for relationship advice from kids just looking to get laid. I DON'T want a woman who cusses like a trooper.When I go to a Dental meeting,there are all kinds of hot,intelligent women running around. When I go there I want to be proud of my woman,not apologizing for her.If you want the high quality men, you need to meet the standards of the women their associates bring. No visible tatts,not a dozen extra piercings etc. If you are looking for a biker-knock yourself out,but not in the upper levels.

As far as age, successful men are used to younger women hitting on them all the time,why would he think you would be different? I'm almost 50,I have 30's hitting on me all the time. I have an 18yr old rubbing her chest against me and hugging me. not really sure what I want to do about that[I know what most guys here would say,but it's a little more complicated than I'm telling]. He may not have been hitting on you either,he may appreciate art,but not want to buy it.