Phone Weirdness

[wheelin&dealin]

Check-out this game of phone tag...

Sun: I get girls number at the mall

Mon:

Tues: 1st call. I called her fairly early because she seemed really into me. Set-up a date for Wednesday.

Wed: She cancels about 3-4 hours before the date. She calls and leaves a message about her going to dinner with her mom or something. I didn't talk to her at all this day. Later on in the evening she leaves me a really apologetic text message asking if we can go out again sometime.


Thurs: 2nd call. I set-up a date for Friday

Fri: Take her out for a drink. Heavy kino, eye contact, kiss close. The usual... she seemed really into it.

Sat:
Sun: 3rd call. Her phone was off. I left a message saying give me a call we'll do something sometime.

Mon:
Tues:
Wed:

Thurs: 4th call. Talked for a few minutes. Said we should rent a movie or something Sunday, she agreed.

Fri:
Sat:

Sun: 5th call. Her phone was off. Left a short message to call me back. She calls me back later on at like 11 pm. Says shes over at her friends place. Her friends are with their boyfriends. She invites me over. I say I can't do it, I have to get up at 6 in the morning.

She tells me her parents might be getting divorced after being together their whole life. I'm like wtf? but give her some comfort. She sets up a date for Tuesday.

Mon:

Tues: We'll see what's up in a few hours



I have no idea what to think of this girl. I'm as confused as hell. I used to play some phone games but nothing to this extent. And if this isn't enough, after every conversation we have she says "I'll call you tomorrow" and then she never calls? lol... I'm just like wow! that's amazing.

I guess she could be a bit screwed from what her parents are going through.. or maybe she just made that story up. I'm in the dark on this one and I'm at the point where I don't really give a sh*t anymore.. I'll tell you what's up in a few days.

 

[Desdinova]

Women like this end up getting put on the backburner. They become less of a priority for me.

Remember that old "wait 3 days to call" DJ rule? Toss that out the window. It's only good for newbies who need to get rid of their desperation. Strike when the iron is hot and you're still fresh in her memory. Call her the day after you get her number.

Also, if you're not slipping ****y/funny into your game, start. It increases the attraction and goes well with kino.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Desdinova
Women like this end up getting put on the backburner. They become less of a priority for me.

Remember that old "wait 3 days to call" DJ rule? Toss that out the window. It's only good for newbies who need to get rid of their desperation. Strike when the iron is hot and you're still fresh in her memory. Call her the day after you get her number.

Also, if you're not slipping ****y/funny into your game, start. It increases the attraction and goes well with kino.

Although I'm a bit confused by my situation, I think some women need a good kick in the a$$ when it comes to relationships. They don't know what they want and they need a guy to step up and show them. I honestly think that some women have no clue when it comes to dating. Out of all the chicks I've dated I don't think I've seen one that is into me as much as this one. I just don't think she knows what to do? My C&F/kino/make-out game is disgustingly slick. I just need this confused broad to show up.

The iron is hot so I'm gonna give her a call tonight and say "Listen up... you, me and a movie at my place tonight. No more chaotic weird phone games.. ya hear".

 

[wheelin&dealin]

So, I didn't give her a call. She called me. She asks if I want to go out to a club with her and her roommate. I say no because that would be a pretty awkward second date for a TUESDAY NIGHT. We reschedule for tomorrow to rent a movie. I'm sure something weird will happen tomorrow.. I'll post it when it happens.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

I should really just write a personal journal...

So Wednesday comes around and I go over to her place to "watch a movie"... You know how the story goes, it turns into a make-out session with me ripping ****y comments into her all night. She tries to get me to stay the night, but I say I gotta work tomorrow so I take off. Like I'm gonna make-love to this broad on a 2nd date anyways?? What is she thinking.. Anyways, just because this girl is sketched-out on the phone didn't lead me to jump to conclusions that she was fuct, which was good.

 

[MacAvoy]

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
I should really just write a personal journal...
Like I'm gonna make-love to this broad on a 2nd date anyways?? What is she thinking..

She was thinking that she wanted to get fuct not made love to! What were you thinking, make love on a second date.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

I hate it to break it to you... but it seems like she's just not that into you.

And yes, YOU ARE RIGHT. While many of us on this website WANT to improve on dating/relationships/ and even our own lives. There are a lot of women that are very clueless in creating intimacy in relationships. Women have gotten lazy from it by spending too much time watching their sex and city bullshat rather than learning new cooking recipes or finding new ways of having sex.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Originally posted by MacAvoy
She was thinking that she wanted to get fuct not made love to! What were you thinking, make love on a second date.

You should remove the mindset of a player who is desperate to get a first night lay. A real man qualifies a woman if she is worthy enough for a relationship. And sex is usually a closed deal. What wheel&deal did was being a man, he qualified. Some guys including myself who were stuck with relationships because they banged each other and she got pregnant or diseased.

Real men learn to qualify, Girly men learn to quantify.

 

[Ricky]

Wow, I give you credit. I would have stayed and ****ed her.

****ed some sense into her too!

 

[Jamo]

ehm

Should have ****ed her...? I would have

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
I hate it to break it to you... but it seems like she's just not that into you.

I'm pretty sure she is into me based on the chaotic make-out-ness last night. Even though the phone situation was a bit weird, I think her intentions are pretty clear when I'm with her face to face.

Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
And yes, YOU ARE RIGHT. While many of us on this website WANT to improve on dating/relationships/ and even our own lives. There are a lot of women that are very clueless in creating intimacy in relationships. Women have gotten lazy from it by spending too much time watching their sex and city bullshat rather than learning new cooking recipes or finding new ways of having sex.

Funny you should bring up "Sex in the City". We were trying to find a movie to watch and she said she has the whole box set of Sex in the City. I said there's no way we're watching that.

 

[MightyMate]

You should **** her when You had opportunity. If she wanted You to stay at 2nd date it means its not a woman for wife. If shes not for wife shes for sex asap. If shes for sex asap, do it!

 

[wheelin&dealin]

So many amateurs here obsessed with sex. You'll learn one day... maybe...

 

[MightyMate]

Imho beein amateur is not seeing which girl is a gf material and which is a slut. You are 25, i dont think You will ever learn until life kicks You badly. Tell me hnestly, how many gils cheaten on You ?

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by MightyMate
Imho beein amateur is not seeing which girl is a gf material and which is a slut. You are 25, i dont think You will ever learn until life kicks You badly. Tell me hnestly, how many gils cheaten on You ?

It hurts being put down by someone who can't speak english. I think it's time for you to climb back into the retard cave and not come out for awhile...

 

[Jamo]

uhm

it is not obession with sex. She is good for sex then have just sex. Do what the occasion demands...

If the next girl you meet is LTR material then take it that way if you so desire...just don't pass up opportunities along the way.

 

[al77]

Re: uhm

1. "She cancels about 3-4 hours before the date". Means what?
She didn't care enough for you.

2. "I left a message saying give me a call we'll do something sometime.
Mon:
Tues:
Wed:"

You left her a message and she didn't return it in three days... well she didn't returned it at all since you called her again.
What does it mean? She is not much into you, so she didn't care to return the call.

3. "She asks if I want to go out to a club with her and her roommate".

With her roomate?? So she will have her "girls' night out"?
Thts not a date if she invites her friends. Means she is not interested in you.

4. "So Wednesday comes around and I go over to her place to "watch a movie"... "
This is interesting... it means she wanted to fvck you, but taken all thing into account it seems she is justa slvt and don't consider anything remotely similar to a LTR with you.

I can't image you can change this girl. Obviously just use her, i.e. er.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Re: Re: uhm

Originally posted by al77
1. "She cancels about 3-4 hours before the date". Means what?
She didn't care enough for you.

2. "I left a message saying give me a call we'll do something sometime.
Mon:
Tues:
Wed:"

You left her a message and she didn't return it in three days... well she didn't returned it at all since you called her again.
What does it mean? She is not much into you, so she didn't care to return the call.

3. "She asks if I want to go out to a club with her and her roommate".

With her roomate?? So she will have her "girls' night out"?
Thts not a date if she invites her friends. Means she is not interested in you.

4. "So Wednesday comes around and I go over to her place to "watch a movie"... "
This is interesting... it means she wanted to fvck you, but taken all thing into account it seems she is justa slvt and don't consider anything remotely similar to a LTR with you.

I can't image you can change this girl. Obviously just use her, i.e. er.

I can't even believe I post personal stuff in these forms anymore. What am I thinking? Theres got to be a better way to kill time at work...

With regards to your post, if she's not interested, then why would I be over at her place throwing her around and making-out with her? lol..

 

[DonJuanMonk]

I support wheelin&dealing's motion for not initiating actual sex. people who purport going for one night stands or getting whatever they can are the ones responsible for the HIV/AIDS/STD epidemic because they didn't utilize their whole intellect but listened to their emotions.

18 minutes of pleasure = 18 years of child payments or 18 years stuck with one ho bag or permanent std/deadly std. It's your gamble, hos.

 

[MightyMate]

Okay i will tell the truth. wheelin&dealing is not good in bed. He doesnt know how to do stuff so hes afraid of it and thinks that having sex with a horny girl is wrong. All people who aint virigins and who had many woman will nod. Sorry mate, get some lessons. Sex is very important.