Phone Weirdness

[MightyMate]

Re: Re: uhm

Originally posted by al77


4. "So Wednesday comes around and I go over to her place to "watch a movie"... "
This is interesting... it means she wanted to fvck you, but taken all thing into account it seems she is justa slvt and don't consider anything remotely similar to a LTR with you.

I can't image you can change this girl. Obviously just use her, i.e. er.

I told him that but he was too lame to understand it.

 

[al77]

Re: Re: Re: uhm

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin

With regards to your post, if she's not interested, then why would I be over at her place throwing her around and making-out with her? lol..

Well, there is no magic device that can read her thoughts. So obviously I I can't do it either.
What we can all see if that she showed many signs that said "I am not interested much".
A very likely scenario is that she's got a couple of other FB dudes: it seems she likes to fvck anyway.

Since you were persistent enough, your game was decent - you found a momemnt when she wanted to have sex with you.

What appears a bit odd, is that you didn't actually wanted to fvck her at that moment. I guess you can't transform a slvt into a decent LTR material, so what else you can get from her?
Just use the opportunity.
You did have a perfect opportunity to fvck her.
Since you are holding back, you gamble here: either it will increase her desire or she will "switch" to other dudes.
The thing is if you used the opportunity you would have won for sure, i.e. have sex with her.
Now, you gamble...you might win but also might lose.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
I support wheelin&dealing's motion for not initiating actual sex. people who purport going for one night stands or getting whatever they can are the ones responsible for the HIV/AIDS/STD epidemic because they didn't utilize their whole intellect but listened to their emotions.

18 minutes of pleasure = 18 years of child payments or 18 years stuck with one ho bag or permanent std/deadly std. It's your gamble, hos.

Ok,ok. If he'll wait what would happen?
She could get more horny. Possible? Sure.
She'll cure her stds before having sex with him (if she has any). Possible? Maybe, but very unlikely.
She'll get unfertile?? Very unlikely.
Wating will not cure her and will not eliminate her desire of getting child support.

If she is that bad that the suspicion of std is overwhelming and this prevents the guy from having sex with her, then why the heck to start gaming her at all??

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Like I'm gonna make-love to this broad on a 2nd date anyways??What is she thinking..

What the hell? wheres the logic in this? You think she hasnt been banged even on the first meetup before and youve been here since 02. Knowing this no brainer how would drawing it out make her a better person to you? Whats a good waiting time for you, what makes it safe for you and society to not label her a "slvt" or lacking of "morals"? That statement was crazy.

And "make love".......wtf is that?

 

[Lost In Translation]

( . )( . )
What the hell? wheres the logic in this? You think she hasnt been banged even on the first meetup before and youve been here since 02. Knowing this no brainer how would drawing it out make her a better person to you? Whats a good waiting time for you, what makes it safe for you and society to not label her a "slvt" or lacking of "morals"? That statement was crazy.

And "make love".......wtf is that?

:crackup:

( . )( . ) man don't ever change for anyone

i can't type anymore cause i am still laughing too much :crackup:


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[thekingdooder]

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
I should really just write a personal journal...

So Wednesday comes around and I go over to her place to "watch a movie"... You know how the story goes, it turns into a make-out session with me ripping ****y comments into her all night. She tries to get me to stay the night, but I say I gotta work tomorrow so I take off. Like I'm gonna make-love to this broad on a 2nd date anyways?? What is she thinking.. Anyways, just because this girl is sketched-out on the phone didn't lead me to jump to conclusions that she was fuct, which was good.

Good move taking charge with the movie thing. I think thats where the tables really turned.

 

[djzulu]

Some girls are so confused so they transmit conflicting messages - signs of interest and disinterest at the same time.

My advice - keep meeting new women, and don't try to analyze her behavior. If something comes out of that situation - great, if it doesn't - you'll have other girls to date.

If there is one thing I have learned over the years is to stop analyzing why a certain girl acts 'weird' or is just inconsistent.

And as far as sex on the first date is concerned - the answer is very simple: if you feel like it, have sex (obviously with her consent) - if you don't feel like it, just don't. There is nothing wrong with denying sex if you're just not in the mood.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by djzulu
Some girls are so confused so they transmit conflicting messages - signs of interest and disinterest at the same time.

My advice - keep meeting new women, and don't try to analyze her behavior. If something comes out of that situation - great, if it doesn't - you'll have other girls to date.

Good post. I agree with the logic.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Re: Re: uhm

Originally posted by al77
4. "So Wednesday comes around and I go over to her place to "watch a movie"... "
This is interesting... it means she wanted to fvck you, but taken all thing into account it seems she is justa slvt and don't consider anything remotely similar to a LTR with you.

I can't image you can change this girl. Obviously just use her, i.e. er.

Agreed. I guess I was just looking for an LTR. I couldn't really care less about sex... but, I guess that's all some girls are good for. Time to use and abuse this chick. Thanks for the heads up. I wouldn't have thought a chick that looks this good and innocent would be completely useless except for sex?

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
What the hell? wheres the logic in this? You think she hasnt been banged even on the first meetup before and youve been here since 02. Knowing this no brainer how would drawing it out make her a better person to you? Whats a good waiting time for you, what makes it safe for you and society to not label her a "slvt" or lacking of "morals"? That statement was crazy.

And "make love".......wtf is that?

Now that I've given my head a shake.... you are correct. I've never really been a big fan of broads I can just bang after an hour of pointless conversation. Now I've learned that some girls are completely useless except for the banging aspect. I've drifted too far into the LTR mindset. Thanks for getting me back on track.

 

[prosemont]

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Now that I've given my head a shake.... you are correct. I've never really been a big fan of broads I can just bang after an hour of pointless conversation. Now I've learned that some girls are completely useless except for the banging aspect. I've drifted too far into the LTR mindset. Thanks for getting me back on track.

Wheelin, good to see around here dude.

You'll know if a girl is right for you over time -- not whether she fvcks right away or makes you wait. Hell, you can't blame chicks for wanting to fvck us right away and it doesn't necessarily mean that she does that with other guys.

On the contrary, I have one ex who I still talk to who isn't a slvt but fvcks guys right away who she doesn't see LTR potential with but makes LTR prospects wait weeks and weeks. So, do those guys think she is a nice girl because she makes THEM wait??? My point is simply a that you can't tell either way whether a chick is a good girl or not just because she's made you wait or not.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by prosemont
Wheelin, good to see around here dude.

You'll know if a girl is right for you over time -- not whether she fvcks right away or makes you wait. Hell, you can't blame chicks for wanting to fvck us right away and it doesn't necessarily mean that she does that with other guys.

On the contrary, I have one ex who I still talk to who isn't a slvt but fvcks guys right away who she doesn't see LTR potential with but makes LTR prospects wait weeks and weeks. So, do those guys think she is a nice girl because she makes THEM wait??? My point is simply a that you can't tell either way whether a chick is a good girl or not just because she's made you wait or not.

Cheers prose,

It's OBVIOUS that every girl around wants to have sex with us. It's just kind of a turn-off that some broads don't have that much self respect to hold out. Now, I have absolutely no respect for this girl and I'm just going to treat her like garbage. i.e. call her at 10:30 at night and tell her to come over. Maybe I won't even call her again.. we'll see how the other prospects go.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Maybe I won't even call her again.. we'll see how the other prospects go.

Damn it! I'm so weak... I just talked to her. but she was the one who called me.

I think I'll just tell her "I love her..."

What do you guys think?

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin

It's just kind of a turn-off that some broads don't have that much self respect to hold out. Now, I have absolutely no respect for this girl and I'm just going to treat her like garbage.

Noooooooo!!!! Just when I thought "ok now this guy gets it" you go and say that and fvck it all up. Congratulations youve just labelled 99.9 % of all healthy and socially active chicks as having no "self respect".

Seriously dude you have to get rid of this type of brainwashed thinking and putting her in a negative light depending on the time frame she gets nailed.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Noooooooo!!!! Just when I thought "ok now this guy gets it" you go and say that and fvck it all up. Congratulations youve just labelled 99.9 % of all healthy and socially active chicks as having no "self respect".

I don't understand your 99.9% stat here. I'm saying that chicks that have sex on the first date don't get respect.

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Seriously dude you have to get rid of this type of brainwashed thinking and putting her in a negative light depending on the time frame she gets nailed.

Anything after the 2nd date is ok in my books. It just screws up the relationship if you do it too early. It's like there's nothing to look forward to if you bang her too early, and like most.. the relationship will just crumble because there is no time investment or anticipation to look forward to.

If you know the girl is just a slvt and all you want is a FB then bang her asap because it shouldn't matter. I'm not really into slvts and FB though.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
I don't understand your 99.9% stat here. I'm saying that chicks that have sex on the first date don't get respect.

Yeah and I'm saying almost all sexually active , socially healthy chicks have had an ONS or been banged on the first meetup. Hence why your " no self respect" theory is a load of hogwash. Also why I was scratching my head as to why you would actually say that and have that mentality when youve been here since 02, you should have already been well aware of this no brainer years ago.

 

[Scought]

Wheelin, I feel I am in the same situation as you.

This girl I met is 25, has her own place, car, etc. Has been on her own since she was 16, so she has some baggage.

She, however, wont have sex until its a relationship. She is fun to hang out with, but does weird things with the phone.

She has cancelled on me hours before we were to meet, only to call me later and talk.

Sometimes she calls a lot, sometimes I'll call and she will take days to call back. Its all really frustrating.

I, too, am ready for a somewhat LTR. Hell, after being out of college I do want a relationship, whether its long term or not. I have been 'actively' single for quite some time and am looking for something a bit more. This girl is somoene I Could see that with, but plays phone games.

We had a bit of a weird convo on Thanksgiving, where I had called her over, because she doesnt have any family to spend time with. She thought about it, only to text me and tell me she didnt feel comfortable.

This bothered me so I talked and told her that it seems when she does this cancelling that maybe I should be getting a hint.
We have a disagreement of sorts, no argument. But, I get an uneasy feeling about it afterwards.

We talk again on Saturday and she wants to meet for lunch on Sunday. Things seem to be cool after that weird convo we had. She texts and cancels. ( I know some of you are going to say she cancels a lot, but I dont feel it neccessary to list all the times we have hung out, cause its has been quite a bit.). She tells me she likes me, etc.

Anyway, she calls on Sunday, doesnt leave a message.

I call back leave a message and hadnt heard a thing.

Its weird, we talk, we make plans, and than it gets quiet for a few days. I am not sure what is up with that.

OUr last convo went well, she made plans, and now she is quiet. It seems if we had a disagreement and it turned her off she wouldnt have called saturday night to make plans.

She even says a text on saturday telling me i am really sweet, etc.

I am not sure if she is just busy, if im reading too much into this, maybe she is just playing phone games. There is nothing worse than ambiguity. If a woman doesnt like me, I would like to know that it is the case, instead of waiting for a phone call, wondering if i did anything wrong, or if this is just another phone game.

Usually I dont like girls that much. This one seems different and I dig her, so maybe I care a bit too much.

Just wanted to let you know that I am in a similar situation.

 

[TheTrimReaper]

Originally posted by Scought
She has cancelled on me hours before we were to meet, only to call me later and talk. .....

Sometimes she calls a lot, sometimes I'll call and she will take days to call back. Its all really frustrating. .....

We had a bit of a weird convo on Thanksgiving, where I had called her over, because she doesnt have any family to spend time with. She thought about it, only to text me and tell me she didnt feel comfortable. .....

We talk again on Saturday and she wants to meet for lunch on Sunday. Things seem to be cool after that weird convo we had. She texts and cancels. ( I know some of you are going to say she cancels a lot, but I dont feel it neccessary to list all the times we have hung out, cause its has been quite a bit.). She tells me she likes me, etc. ....

Anyway, she calls on Sunday, doesnt leave a message.

I call back leave a message and hadnt heard a thing.

OUr last convo went well, she made plans, and now she is quiet. It seems if we had a disagreement and it turned her off she wouldnt have called saturday night to make plans.

She even says a text on saturday telling me i am really sweet, etc.


Usually I dont like girls that much. This one seems different and I dig her, so maybe I care a bit too much.

Yes, she is different alright. If she is a real woman, who is ready to have a relationship, she won't pull this kind of behavior. Remember, interested women don't do this.

You need the Next her like there is no tomorrow.

I would rather be single than put up with sh1t like this. Wouldn't you? Well, if you do, then let her know it. Then maybe she won't do it anymore. Tell her what you expect and if she doesn't comply, tell her to hit the bricks.

 

[Scought]

I just received a text from her: Sorry, I havent called you back. I am in urgent care with Mono. I am sure you are angry, but I didnt have my phone with me. I will call you later. I am really exhausted.

Makes it hard to say next if it is a health issue. I dont know what to do honestly. I think I may still see what she has to say, but holdback a little on my part.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Scought
I just received a text from her: Sorry, I havent called you back. I am in urgent care with Mono. I am sure you are angry, but I didnt have my phone with me. I will call you later. I am really exhausted.

Makes it hard to say next if it is a health issue. I dont know what to do honestly. I think I may still see what she has to say, but holdback a little on my part.

That's quite a bit weirder than my situation. I'd consider her a write-off like I did. Then if she calls and wants to hang out, go for it. This chick cancels everytime you have a date and leaves you a lame excuse and no make-up date? That's absurd. I'd still play it out though, meanwhile date other women. The only times my date cancelled she wrote me a paragraph text message about how she was sorry for missing our date or else we did something the next day... so, I bought it.