the pain
Don Juan
this is all i want in this to know the
personality traits of a dj:
dont write alot
personality traits of a dj:
dont write alot
personality traits of a dj:
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Charisma.
Confident
Mysterious
Humor
Arrogant (with Humor)
Unpredictable
Different
Rare
All-itis
Interesting
Knowledgeable
Alpha
Independent (doesn't need anyone because he is the prize)
Fun
Caring
Stable (doesn't let other people control his emotions)
Suave (hehe, go figure)
Successful (at what he is involved in)
Adventurous
Spontaneous
DJ = Strong inner game
Mysterious
Humor
Arrogant (with Humor)
Unpredictable
Different
Rare
All-itis
Interesting
Knowledgeable
Alpha
Independent (doesn't need anyone because he is the prize)
Fun
Caring
Stable (doesn't let other people control his emotions)
Suave (hehe, go figure)
Successful (at what he is involved in)
Adventurous
Spontaneous
DJ = Strong inner game
lets_do_this
Don Juan
Valuable.
GuitarOnFire
Senior Don Juan
These traits are great to have, but have some interests to back them up.
Actually it should be:
interests/knowledge -> traits
Actually it should be:
interests/knowledge -> traits
Originally posted by whyshy
Confidence in YOURSELF. <---everything revolves around this.
Hey, you said, not a lot......
^^ What he said, and it only comes with knowledge AND EXPERIENCE!
You have the knowledge here and the experience waiting for you in the field.
-Sapiens
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
h2o
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Unshakeable (borderline delusional) confidence
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Drive/Passion
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For some here it's going to be an inevitably painful "dream" to wake up from.
uzio
Don Juan
Consider a DJ as a high pressure boiler securely controlling a bubbling mass of testosterone.
On the outside - its cool, somewhat warm, clearly doing its job. It is neither empty nor on the verge of explosion.
If you peek inside, you'll see the boiling mass of testosterone contained within. But you also see the extreme grip the mass is held.
DJ is balance. DJ is demiurge of his own reality. DJ is someone who knows that on the deathbed he will not regret anything.
If you can radiate that, then no matter how fat, small or antisocial you are. You will succeed. Be it women, work or world domination.
DJ is succesful because he _wants_ to, not because he _has_ to.
On the outside - its cool, somewhat warm, clearly doing its job. It is neither empty nor on the verge of explosion.
If you peek inside, you'll see the boiling mass of testosterone contained within. But you also see the extreme grip the mass is held.
DJ is balance. DJ is demiurge of his own reality. DJ is someone who knows that on the deathbed he will not regret anything.
If you can radiate that, then no matter how fat, small or antisocial you are. You will succeed. Be it women, work or world domination.
DJ is succesful because he _wants_ to, not because he _has_ to.
h2o
Banned
dude, i haven't been high since wednesday.
i said unshakeable confidence not unshakeable, delusional ego. actually ego is one thing to forget about, it's your enemy.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
A MUTHAFVING MEN!! whyshy
EVERYTHING!!! let me repeat... EVERYTHING!!! has to do with being comfortable and confident with yourself.
Think about naturals, why do they get laid like u.s presidents (had to drop that ) because they know they can and because they do really well in life. Simple.
EVERYTHING!!! let me repeat... EVERYTHING!!! has to do with being comfortable and confident with yourself.
Think about naturals, why do they get laid like u.s presidents (had to drop that
) because they know they can and because they do really well in life. Simple.Serialized3
Master Don Juan
The top three are the most important
1. True confidence in yourself - above all else, you need balls to make moves
2. Charisma and sociability - probably second most important
3. Having an interesting, independent life - having hobbies and sports you do, maybe having an interesting job, hang out with interesting friends, not just for women but for yourself.
4. The ability to read people - much easier said that done, but it's key
5. The ability to decipher what a woman is trying to express - Speaking ********, reading body language
6.Putting the value on yourself, rather than her - she has to prove herself to you, rather than the other way around
7. Never needing women, only wanting women - the ability to walk away
there are more but they're pretty much all offshoots of the principles above.
1. True confidence in yourself - above all else, you need balls to make moves
2. Charisma and sociability - probably second most important
3. Having an interesting, independent life - having hobbies and sports you do, maybe having an interesting job, hang out with interesting friends, not just for women but for yourself.
4. The ability to read people - much easier said that done, but it's key
5. The ability to decipher what a woman is trying to express - Speaking ********, reading body language
6.Putting the value on yourself, rather than her - she has to prove herself to you, rather than the other way around
7. Never needing women, only wanting women - the ability to walk away
there are more but they're pretty much all offshoots of the principles above.
You know your a dj when you
1/ spend all your time on this forum asking questions like "what did she mean by looking at me in the eye?"
2/ have a sock handy near your keyboard.
3/ flame everyone because obviously you know best!
4/ hate PUAs cause they cheat by using lines and thats cheating!!! THEY KNOW NOTHING
5/ dont need to prove yourself by "talking" to girls phffft.
1/ spend all your time on this forum asking questions like "what did she mean by looking at me in the eye?"
2/ have a sock handy near your keyboard.
3/ flame everyone because obviously you know best!
4/ hate PUAs cause they cheat by using lines and thats cheating!!! THEY KNOW NOTHING
5/ dont need to prove yourself by "talking" to girls phffft.
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1) You have to not care whether you succeed or fail. This doesn't mean that you don't try; it means that you don't care AT ALL if you crash and burn.
2) You have to be masculine. Confidence, charisma, attitude, appearance are all part of this. Unless she's a lesbian, having a feminine appearance or demeanor will work VERY RARELY.
3) You have to truly believe that women find you attractive and that you can get them whenever you want. This ties in with no. 1- it's the reason why you don't care.
4) Being excellent in some way truly helps. It doesn't have to be money or power, but having something that sets you apart can work wonders.
5)You have to be bold. Take risks and constantly push yourself out of your comfort zone. Women cannot resist bold, gutsy men.
2) You have to be masculine. Confidence, charisma, attitude, appearance are all part of this. Unless she's a lesbian, having a feminine appearance or demeanor will work VERY RARELY.
3) You have to truly believe that women find you attractive and that you can get them whenever you want. This ties in with no. 1- it's the reason why you don't care.
4) Being excellent in some way truly helps. It doesn't have to be money or power, but having something that sets you apart can work wonders.
5)You have to be bold. Take risks and constantly push yourself out of your comfort zone. Women cannot resist bold, gutsy men.
pimpfromdayone
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True "DJ's" are rare indeed. Basically, if you want to know their traits, just take the opposite of what AFC's are like.
A DJ is:
confident (duh)
a leader (there goes 95% of men, who are either easily pus-sywhipped or too weak to stand independently).
intelligent and mature
smooth talker (comes with intelligence), especially apt at being sexual and/or funny
sociable, but I think most people misinterpret the word bigtime. Sociable doesn't mean having a lot of close, exclusive friends. It means being open to talk to everyone and not being afraid to meet new people all the time. A truly sociable person (there aren't as many as you think) generally has many acquantainces at one time but most of his relationships with people are short and casual. Limiting yourself to a select group of people is NOT being sociable like a true DJ.... it is actually closer to being antisocial.
interesting and intriguing. Drinking booze every weekend with the local morons is not considered interesting and intriguing, no matter how many stupid drunk stories you have of how you tried to fu-ck someone in the as-s when you were high on gin and marijuana.
MASCULINE. This is the king of all traits, embodying all others. If you hand your balls over to every hot girl you see, you're nothing to them.... they don't respect someone unless he's a man first and foremost. They will probably overlook some of your less desirable traits in many cases because it is becoming increasingly hard for them to find real men in this world.
Uncontrollable, Unpredictable, Dominant, Ambitious, independent.....
There are of course many more things to list, but what is the point? You have the information you need somewhere in your brain, use it....
It helps sometimes to put yourself in a woman's shoes to see things from her perspective. If you do this, you will realize right away that all men who kiss your ass are the absolute most annoying men ever, and you give them no respect. You respect the loud-mouthed *******s more than these guys. As I said before, it all boils down to respect. As a MAN, women are supposed to be intimidated a little by YOU, not the other way around. They want someone they admire and who can lead them. With respect comes attraction.
Women HIGHLY respect a man who can crush them physically, intellectually, and emotionally. Think about that, it says it all.
Sorry I wrote a lot, but I hope someone can benefit from it.
A DJ is:
confident (duh)
a leader (there goes 95% of men, who are either easily pus-sywhipped or too weak to stand independently).
intelligent and mature
smooth talker (comes with intelligence), especially apt at being sexual and/or funny
sociable, but I think most people misinterpret the word bigtime. Sociable doesn't mean having a lot of close, exclusive friends. It means being open to talk to everyone and not being afraid to meet new people all the time. A truly sociable person (there aren't as many as you think) generally has many acquantainces at one time but most of his relationships with people are short and casual. Limiting yourself to a select group of people is NOT being sociable like a true DJ.... it is actually closer to being antisocial.
interesting and intriguing. Drinking booze every weekend with the local morons is not considered interesting and intriguing, no matter how many stupid drunk stories you have of how you tried to fu-ck someone in the as-s when you were high on gin and marijuana.
MASCULINE. This is the king of all traits, embodying all others. If you hand your balls over to every hot girl you see, you're nothing to them.... they don't respect someone unless he's a man first and foremost. They will probably overlook some of your less desirable traits in many cases because it is becoming increasingly hard for them to find real men in this world.
Uncontrollable, Unpredictable, Dominant, Ambitious, independent.....
There are of course many more things to list, but what is the point? You have the information you need somewhere in your brain, use it....
It helps sometimes to put yourself in a woman's shoes to see things from her perspective. If you do this, you will realize right away that all men who kiss your ass are the absolute most annoying men ever, and you give them no respect. You respect the loud-mouthed *******s more than these guys. As I said before, it all boils down to respect. As a MAN, women are supposed to be intimidated a little by YOU, not the other way around. They want someone they admire and who can lead them. With respect comes attraction.
Women HIGHLY respect a man who can crush them physically, intellectually, and emotionally. Think about that, it says it all.
Sorry I wrote a lot, but I hope someone can benefit from it.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.