This is a good topic and you're willingness to take responsibility for the situation and to grow is to be admired. It's far too easy to
blame other people. There's a lot of posters who should have a look at this thread but watch out for lots of delusion and throwing the blame and thus the responsibility at others.
This poster is so confident and secure in himself that he asks random strangers on the internet to fight him.....
Supreme confidence or insecurity?? No fvcks given or mental instability?
Bingo....you are definitely on to something here. This is a question of FRAME. Have you noticed the op "liked" every suggestion, except yours? This suggest that his ego won't allow him the possibility that it could be what you suggested...
Lyon is a city in France .
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lyon
Pedantic? We all make spelling errors etc However, it's worth observing this poster's "writing". It's full of spelling errors and lacks
punctuation. He writes as he speaks, like it's a stream of consciousness. What does this style of writing suggest?
Drug use and/or mental illness.
Is this relevant? Yes read on.
This week Reykhel has had two posters asking to fight him physically. The above poster even left Reykhel his first name (Jason) and the
address of his gym. Sound like a really confident secure man? Take into account that both of these posters are over the age of 40.....
Reykeh repeats........@shesabranchswinger and
@Sho-No-Luv are both over the age of 40.........
....and they apparently got their emotional buttons pushed so much by Reykhel that they suggested meeting up in person to have a fight.....
Hilarious no? Having your buttons pushed so much by some random stranger on the internet that you suggest meeting for a physical fight is the sign of a really insecure, fragile and highly emotional frame.
Now really they should be sending Reykhel a thank you card for revealing their inner traumas and for the opportunity to heal and shore up that weak frame.
Why is it possible for people to push your buttons is the question that the op needs to ask himself?
What needs healing? What needs accepting in side yourself?
@lizardking82 is another who could benefit from this thread. He had an emotional meltdown with Reykhel because apparently Reykhel touched on a trauma buried inside of him and Reykhel reminded him of his unhealed hurts that he feels towards his father.....
He projected his past traumas from his father onto Reykhel (made that clear) Reykhel tried to help him to heal........and again, not even a thank you card.....
Listen fellas, your buttons are all about you........why expose your hot buttons to anyone.
A lot of getting your buttons pressed comes from:
1. Caring too much about people's opinions of you
2. Problems with self concept
3. Lack of observing ego
4. Lack of emotional control
5. LACK OF ABILITY TO FVCKING BANTER FELLAS...
...Much more on this topic, but Reykhel's got to dash for now..