Hooligan Harry said:
Dude, you are 32. If you want to peacock buy a decent car or a decent watch.
I honestly dont think any piece of arse is worth making yourself look like a tit over.
I have a decent car and a nice watch. That's not peacocking I'm talking about. I'm saying fashion-wise. Besides, when you're in a bar, no girl can see the car that you parked a block away. And half the time I'm wearing long sleeve shirts or jacket and the girl can't see my watch anyway.
juanito said:
it depends what kind of look you're after
-metro, chic?
-rock star?
etc
also, what kind of work do you do?
I'm a web/graphic/flash designer. I work from home, which is also part of the problem vis-a-vis interaction with women but that's another story...
I already have a style I think works fine for me. Some might call it "metro" or whatever, I wear distressed designer jeans, casual type shoes/sneakers similar to Steve Maddens. Button shirts sometimes plain, sometimes with vertical pinstripes. A swiss army watch with a white face, a few leather jackets and a peacoat and I guess that pretty much sums up my fall/winter clothes. Summer day clothes is just straight cargo shorts, sandals and tshirts. Most people think my style looks good on me. It's nothing standout or original. It's clean and contemporary without being over-trendy or anything. But I feel like I just need that extra "edge" to my style that will make me standout to girls when I walk into the room and can't I figure out what to add to give it that. Which is why I'm looking for ideas.
war against betaism said:
Something I've been wanting to do but never really committed is getting those big single piece fancy earrings, something like this:
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3105/...666d2e.jpg?v=0
I don't wear earrings myself, but I think that earring sported with those dreadlocks is pretty cool if that's your look.