Passport "bro"..i may have messed up

[Scaramouche]

Hi Pandora,
Is this the Woman from Dagestan you told us about?

 

[DreamAgain]

Pandora, you are making a mistake here.

There are too many variables that can go wrong, the culture shock will be huge for her.

How good is her knowledge of the english language, what marketable skills does she have, do you intend for her to be a stay at home wife?

Many cases like this of women being brought back end up in divorce, not necessarily because of anything you did wrong, but it is too much of a shock to the system for the weaker sex.

The winning formula is to find a second generation american girl who still has roots to her homeland, I hope you heed my message well. Who is integrated into society, who can be a team player financially, but yet still has some connection to traditional values from her parents.

 

[Chow Mein]

That's not a man's job. They need to find someone who can function as an adult.

Women are emotionally driven, if you can keep her in check, you have full access to her mind and body.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Women are emotionally driven, if you can keep her in check, you have full access to her mind and body.

If I wanted a full time second job I'd go get one that pays a lot better.

 

[Pandora]

Pandora, you are making a mistake here.

There are too many variables that can go wrong, the culture shock will be huge for her.

How good is her knowledge of the english language, what marketable skills does she have, do you intend for her to be a stay at home wife?

Many cases like this of women being brought back end up in divorce, not necessarily because of anything you did wrong, but it is too much of a shock to the system for the weaker sex.

The winning formula is to find a second generation american girl who still has roots to her homeland, I hope you heed my message well. Who is integrated into society, who can be a team player financially, but yet still has some connection to traditional values from her parents.

I agree. I should clarify that she can not come to the USA ever ( or atleast for 15yrs). Her visa was denied thankfully. I will not be bringing her back. My question is how viable is it to raise a family in another country? I can not live there for more than half the year. I will have to figure out how to make money online and I have about 1 yr to figure this out.

Some women have husbands that go back and forth but I am not sure that will work for us.

 

[Pandora]

Hi Pandora,
Is this the Woman from Dagestan you told us about?

Lol I wish she was from Dagestan. She could teach me how to wrestle. Close but not quite Dagestan.

This is the girl from that region that is super nice, submissive, thin, is obsessed with me etc. Her family loves me etc. She does have flaws but I am much happier with her than I was with any American woman.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Pandora,
What sort of things do you do together?how do you communicate with her Family?What's her English like?

 

[DreamAgain]

I agree. I should clarify that she can not come to the USA ever ( or atleast for 15yrs). Her visa was denied thankfully. I will not be bringing her back. My question is how viable is it to raise a family in another country? I can not live there for more than half the year. I will have to figure out how to make money online and I have about 1 yr to figure this out.

Some women have husbands that go back and forth but I am not sure that will work for us.

you'll have to take the plunge and go there.

Learn the language and get employed locally, using your american savings as a financial buffer.

In the meantime figure out ways to make more income.

If she is truly the one this will be a worthwhile endeavor.

 

[Pandora]

you'll have to take the plunge and go there.

Learn the language and get employed locally, using your american savings as a financial buffer.

In the meantime figure out ways to make more income.

If she is truly the one this will be a worthwhile endeavor.

Thank you for the support bro. I think you are right.

 

[Pandora]

Hi Pandora,
What sort of things do you do together?how do you communicate with her Family?What's her English like?

Her english is very good. It is surprisingly good. We get along great ( for now, we used to fight a bit before) and have much of the same humor. Thanks to social media humor is becoming homogenous. We all watch the same instagram stuff etc.

We both love the same things. Spirituality, plant medicines, exercise etc. Her family likes me a lot. Her older brother is a really chill dude. Her mom is very gentle and nice. Her father is crazy but he likes me for some reason. Her father has extreme temper issues. She got a lot of daddy issues from him. Other than that he is ok.

I communicate with her family via google translate. I also get her to interpret for me. Sometimes the neighbors ( who speak english) will translate.

Going foreign has been such a refreshing change for me. I cant imagine dating Americans again. I really like the simple culture. I like the fact that she had never been on a plane before, or the fact that she looks up to me, or the fact that she does not aspire to be a boss CEO babe.

 

[Fruitbat]

Just curious, Middle Eastern girls are usually Islamic and not permitted to marry westerners. How did this happen or are you Muslim?

 

[Pandora]

Just curious, Middle Eastern girls are usually Islamic and not permitted to marry westerners. How did this happen or are you Muslim?

I have to convert before the wedding. The father said i must.

 

[Pandora]

Well, the perks are that you can discipline your woman without consequences...

Yes exactly! I would never hit a woman though unless its self defense and she is a fat chick.

The leverage i have with her in that country is nice. With great power comes great responsibility though.

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Pandora,
Sounds quite a Woman....Given that she has her native language and that her education was probably in Russian,she has three languages,three Souls!....Go for it
Only the Great Architect knows what is in your heart so maybe you swear allegiance to Islam with crossed fingers LOL.

 

[Fruitbat]

I have to convert before the wedding. The father said i must.

I would tell him to shove it up his ass TBH.

Tell her his daughter has to convert to Christianity. Oh no, “our way is best”

boils my piss this attitude.

not having a pop at you bro, or the dad, he doesn’t know any better but the general attitude of this culture winds me up.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I have to convert before the wedding. The father said i must.

Seems like you are bending over backwards to marry a woman you are unsure about. Why?

 

[Pandora]

I would tell him to shove it up his ass TBH.

Tell her his daughter has to convert to Christianity. Oh no, “our way is best”

boils my piss this attitude.

not having a pop at you bro, or the dad, he doesn’t know any better but the general attitude of this culture winds me up.

I hear you man but I like the culture of Islam. My first name is Muslim. I was raised Christian though.

I dont believe in any religion so I look at it as a cultural thing. I can fake it.

 

[Pandora]

Seems like you are bending over backwards to marry a woman you are unsure about. Why?

Noo..i really love middle eastern and norh african culture. I respect Islam alot. I dont mind converting. I look forward to it.
My West African name is rooted in Islam.

 

[Pandora]

Seems like you are bending over backwards to marry a woman you are unsure about. Why?

1.) She is pretty af...to me
2.) She is obsessed with me
3.) First guy to show her the world
4.) She is thin
5.) Not a single mother ( they dont play that **** in that nation).
6.) She does have serious issues. She aint perfect but 80% of her is.

To be honest I would not be able to lock this down in the USA in my late 30s. Im just keeping it real. I can smash attractive American girls but they are too rebellious for me.

I was never bad with women but most of the women in my age group are single mothers. If they are not single mothers then they are nuts.

This chick was 24 when i met her. I was like 36. Unless you are rich you aint getting a childless, semi submissive child free chick at 36.

My question is why are single men not going overseas?

 

[Scaramouche]

Hi Pandora,
"My question is why are single men not going overseas?"Well the Bars in most Philippino Cities are full of Westerners,most just wasting their time on Bar Girls who are just in it for the dollars LOL.