Other people trying to ruin me.

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

KillaCam u are right...even tho my frustration is his fuel I still have to confront him...it will go sumtin like this.

"I hear u have a problem with me...not one but many people have come forward and tell me about the trash talk uve been doing all these months. But i dont see you coming forward and telling it straight to my face...if you want to throw a challenge i would appreciate it if you would step up to the plate."

If I dont do anything he will think he has free reign on me and still brags that he has. I've hurt many people in fights before but that is just barbaric and doesnt make me any better than the person. I've ignored him for the past few months but hes gettin worse and no word of a lie, brags to people that he needs to piss me off to make his day.

He is hiding behind the fact that hes a skinny marathon runner and would never get into a fight and just gets into trashtalk because no one would find him so much of a challenge to get into a brawl. thats his advantage. the last guy i had a fight with similar to his size was when I was 10 yrs old lol. he is 27 yrs old now and I cant believe the sheer audacity of the sh*t he still runs.

What is he doing to me? Hes told my other friends (who i kinda friends with him too but not anymore) that I had STDs and told other girls about that rumour. Ok Im a good looking guy who has an image of bein a player or wateva so most girls would believe it unless im in the "friendszone". when 7 or 8 people have told me about the rumours hes been spreadin then I think there is a major problem this guy has with me and i need to sort that out.

I dont mind that hes gettin the hot girls ( iget my share too) but its his MOTIVE that bothers me...I could get more than my fair share of girls too if I spread rumours about other "competition" in my residence but thats just bad karma and I try do things the fair way.

I dont know why he wants to do this stupid sh*t...its so childish and something that girls do. A lot of people and friends have told me he sees me as competition and a threat so he had to make me look bad to people to win them over. I wasn't even competing with him in the first place and I was just doing my own thing. He must have an inferiority complex to even pick a bone with me when all ive done is be friendly, nice and cool with almost everyone i meet.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

Im a lil cooled down now.

I am trying to understand how he works...My roomie in the block slept with him a few years back says that he is a master manipulator who played her and friends. (Even pretended to cry when confronted only to brag to his friends that he put on an act). I was just thinking if I confront him he will just lie because he is really good at it and I will look REALLY bad in front of other people. He has maintained a clean cut reputation with new people especially girls, something I totally disregarded in the game. He has meticulously weaved this image (just like that character from "Just Friends"). My mistake is that I have a care-free image and don't give a f*ck personality yet I dont lie, put on an act or have a two-faced personality.

So I have to think very hard about how I'm goin to deal with him so he would stop steppin on my toes and snipin behind my back. I already confirmed the trash talk and rumours were created by him because some of his friends (who had a fall out with him) and my friends (who he tried to turn against me but failed) went up and told me about it.

There is a lot to learn from him tho...he must be pullin the right moves to get the girls altho it is something I would not resort to ..I.E. Lying, cheating, manipulating, convincing girls that the good guys are in fact bad guys, moving in on his best bud's ex. Cheaters get the girls, liars get the girls, abusers get theirs hell even murderers get their own too. Most of all DJs get theirs the most and the only way I would go is the DJ way.

What is your take on this?

 

[varius]

Hi. I think you should beat him with his own weapon Of course I'm not talking about laying to people behind his back. I would do something like this:
Stop him, somewhere, on the street, dorm, anywhere where many people could hear you. And go something like this(loud, so people around hear that):

"Hey, You(or name, whatever), many people told me that you tell lies about me and other people. Who are you? What, do you have so many problems with yourself that you have to spread lies and stupid stories, to feel better and get to chicks pants? What, are you surprised? Yeah, I know all about You, my friend, that one who you have met(slept with) few years ago, told me that you even fake cried to get to her pants! And that lies about STDs? What, do you have one and try to hide that by driving attention at somebody else? Listen, I dont know what freaky games you play, and i dont care, you want get girls with lies and manipulation, go, do it, just **** off me man! I dont have nothing agaist you, so leave me be!"

And so on... it sounds greater in polish but I dont know english so well Just humiliate him with words(even not all truth-maybe not lies, but... rumours), talk to him, but so loud that about 15-20 people around hear it, than walk away. These people spread this, he'll be finished, nobody with more than 0 iq wont belive man with such problems, and youll be clear of this(you didnt gossip or anything I'm sure that you can think of some better texts add something that would het people talking, but you get my drift.

EDIT: If that 15-20 peopel will be nice chicks it would be even better, sonn every chick would know this:})

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

he is the type to spill his close friends secret to impress people. he recently pulled a bad trick on a couple of girls i kno....he was together with this girl and sleeping with her best friend...not so uncommon but he has been doing it with different sets of girls every semester then brags to his friends how much a bad ass he is yet cries and looks sympathetic towards the girls. I kno u guys would this is pathetic even tho he still gets the girls. he did the same trick to a chick friend of mine...he was sleeping with her and hooking up with her friend...he told each girl to keep it a secret in case it would become weird as in one girl would feel like a third wheel. so the girls kept it discreet from each other until eventually they both found out.

but yea recently ive just been giving him an agressive eye contact. he knows i know the **** he's been pullin around about me. so its all good for the mean time...but i cant stop thinking he's a scum for selling out his friends just so he can get of puss (secrets that could potentially ruin them real good)

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

However I cant help but actually become fascinated how the girls get attracted to him. It just proved to me that attraction is not a choice even tho the guy is a certified scum. I still get my share of girls while Im still single and I am doing it the fair way rather than resort to manipulative, shorthand and immoral tactics. I dont use my hook ups to add to bragging rights or to spite other people or "cutting someone's lunch"

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

He realised than I am bigger than he is, more popular than he is and better than anything hes got. He realises he can no longer shake all the good things off me. He would look so bad if he continues to bad mouth me. He knows I'd beat him if he continues to make me look bad to other people. So what does he do?

If you can't beat em join em!

That scum was going around telling everygirl how much he really admires me and that I am his bestest friend. WTF I only speak to him poilitely for about 30secs at a time and now he is blowin wind up my a.ss. I am fairly popular to many of the hot girls around and one way to get their attention is to have something in common, talk good about the funnest guy around, ME!

So he was really annoying the hell out of me. Even annoying the hell out of a few girls I am really close with because they can see through it and it's freaking them out.

So I did what varius suggested. He was putting on this master act on a pub crawl. Confronted me in the toilets about how we should be good friends n that we should put this past hostility behind us. I know this guy is not for real. He is just looking for whatever suits his interests best. I laid out what I'd have to say to him. Told him:

"Dont fvck with me. Dont fvck with my friends. If you do that you walk away unhurt. You are a scum and you know it. If I hear anything even just slightly concerning, I will break your neck. Are we clear?"

I looked at him straight and he looked at me without fear at all. This man has NO fear at all. He thinks just because he is 6ft tall 130pounds doesnt mean something bad is going to happen to him. Thats how hes been getting away with everything.

He tried to explain that all I heard bad that was going around was true and wasn't from him. What, 6-8 good people would just make that up WTF! He said that how his friend told me he apparently stole a girl from me to deliberately spite me and discredit me was untrue. Funny thing was his friend hasn't even mentioned it to me. So he jumped the gun and confessed something lol. He has a reputation for always having to "cut someone's lunch" just to spite other people especially his friend. He also said other things and at the time his facial gesture and body language actually looked genuine. But I already know from what Ive seen and heard from my friends that he is full of sh*t and is a master manipulator.

All that time he was talkin, I didn't say a word or argued.

I simply finished it off with:

"As I said, Dont fvck with me or I'll break your neck"

He then let out a little grin.

I left...didnt want to stay longer in case I actually do break this scums neck. I had better things to do. I had good friends, hot girls and good drinks to attend to. Not this lowlife. He can spit game all he likes as long as he doesn't involve me or my female friends in it.

From now on he never talked bad about me. Always says hi, how's it goin to me and I politely respond. He never set foot on my block anymore.

Other people just talk behind his back....and he loved that. He's got a complex. People want to shut him down but he looked so harmless and other people just let it play on. They are still getting fvcked over on a regular basis by him. But they don't do anything. I didn't put up with this crap and he's keeping his distance.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

And for that other girl who was having a hate campaign on me....we'll I just have to look at my life and hers.

I now feel better lol.

And for the converts she has got, let them. I dont want my dog to come home with fleas after playing with mongrel dogs, they can stay out.

Before I left college for vacation, I found out her only best friend left town for good because everything seemed to be going downhille with all of them. Kind of says a lot with their credibility.

 

[Raikojo17]

man, they r just haters. haters only make u better.