Other people trying to ruin me.

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

By the way I do have a lot of close/real friends and they have defended me. I could understand why a guy would talk smack about me but why would a GIRL talk crap about me.

My friends have always backed me up and I know that but its the new people who might have that biased opinion about me to go on whenever I interact with them.

 

[Juan_Man]

Relax. Some girls like guys with bad reputations. It's gets them curious. Just stop caring and go about your business. This is why the archetypal bad boy gets laid. He doesn't care what anyone thinks.

 

[MrS]

Play it mysterious, don't be totally as they would expect from the rumours. Rumours are GREAT at creating interest! Reputation precedes you and all that.

But hell, *****es like to stir the pot.
**** em, use it to your benefit.

That's great, that you're learning to deal with conflict with other ways of violence, you're way ahead out there in Queensland mate.
The other dude.. I don't know, exchange numbers of ex's?
Just ignore the bum.

You shouldn't care what these "new people" think, if your close friends and real friend are defending you and you're happy with them, don't give a **** about these new kids on the block.

 

[Juan_Man]

One more thing. Don't rely on your friends to back you up. Your friends can turn on you at any second. Learn to deal with this kind of stuff on your own.

 

[hope7]

keep us posted. Im interested in this situation now.

My advice: tell people that the girl spreading rumors really hates you for some reason, and you have no idea why. If they keep that in mind before meeting her, then they'll have more doubt in what she says.

Do not tell them, that she's spreading rumors about you, just tell em that she's been acting really cold, and does mean things to you in hidden ways, and that you should watch out for her if you were her. Don't go into too much details about that, don't advize people to ignore her, cuz then people will think you're just involved in some petty drama, and that'll make you look bad.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

There's another guy here in my dorm (college) who is into my chick friend...He is like 6'4 tall, very buff and a finalist in a malemodel search....but just a mere image queen in my books. He accuses me of convincing my friend to break things off with him and all that negative bullsh*t when all I've done is actually encourage her to give things a go and giving her a thumbs up at the start.

I think he wants to start a beef with me...which is stupid because I am only 5'6 tall lol...His biceps is the size of my legs lol...BUT in reality I can say that in our minds...he is tiny compare to me.

I've always been friendly with him but he is trying to spin sum petty drama. I've always said hi, hows it goin but he just looks at me and goes on without saying a word or even just to say "I'm good thanks". I find this a bit childish and a tad bit of disrespect. He wonders why the girl he is gaga over wants to spend time with me rather than him. He is jealous. I have more friends I meet in a day than he has in his whole life...He still wonders why but come to think of it this aint no accident.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

This guy has raw nerves....he went n f*cked one of the girls i was foolin around with and was braggin "gee if he did f*ck her then ill have to get tests to make sure i dont get diseases"

he was also sayin he aint worried or scared of me which i find is a challenge that he may have to step up cos Ive beat up guys twice his size back in the day...he is gettin back on tues and i will definitely confront him

we just live in the same dorm and im concern whether i may get in trouble wit the police and get kicked out of residence

 

[Ace of Flames]

Stop fighting for stupid reasons. She aint worth it, trust me. Especially after she slept with this other guy. Just let it go man. Don't go getting kicked out of your dorm or worse.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

shes just a pawn in the game...i dont even talk to her...hes doin it to piss me off...hes trashed talked me to everyone i kno and other ppl who wants to get to kno me. hes jsut bein a coward and wont chalenge me directly...hes hiding behind sh*t so he can have free reign on people

 

[Ace of Flames]

Don't even acknowledge his existance. When he's standing next to you talking to you, keep on looking forward or reading or whatever you were doing. He's nothing to you.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

he gets off on knowin that he trash talks about me and thinks i dont kno...hes gettin girls who were initally interested in me cos he manipulates them. he tells girls i have sum sexually tranmitted diseases. he thinks i wont do anything to him or the situation

 

[Ace of Flames]

Well fine then, go kick his ass if you can. Just do it off campus.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

yea sometin like out in clubs in town...but id rather not have to fight him...il confront him verbally tho

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

damn...violence is my first and primal reaction to this but i wanna deal wit this properly...put him back in his place and restore myself. he thinks ill just talk and and wont do anything that would make him stop

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

Damn I just found out 2 of the hottest gals in my residence apparently slept with him. I am probably one of the guys who have the best chance with them but hes sleepin with them just to spite me and to brag like "yea i f*cked her already hahaha" its my fault i didnt step up wit those girls and one of them have cold stold ignored me and wouldnt have anything to do with me after Ive been close to her for so long.

 

[Delta]

wtf?

what's the obvious question here?

WHY ARE THEY SPREADING RUMOURS ABOUT YOU?!

people don't just start doing that kind of thing without any motivation whatsoever....

so what's the whole story?

delta

 

[Ace of Flames]

Damn I just found out 2 of the hottest gals in my residence apparently slept with him. I am probably one of the guys who have the best chance with them but hes sleepin with them

Maybe he's not such a jackazz after all. Apparently he's doing something right if he's sleepin with the hottest chicks in the dorms. I'd say you're more jealous of him than anything else. Think about it. Maybe you are and don't even know it. You could probably learn from him.

 

[Rudy_TubeSteak]

I kno he must be doin it right but because he's doin the "im savin u girls from the bad disease ridden man (me)" Kudos to him if he can get the girls but he is manipulatin the field and i still play fair...I am not jealous of him he started this whole thing when I actually thought he could be a friend. He would find out if i have anythin ive done previously wit a particular girl and then targets them to see my reaction. He must have sum kind of complex to put ppl beneath by doin that.

He has slept with his best friends gal. Just today my friend told me he kicked him out of his house for disrespecting him and his girl. My friend has turned against him and told me all the sh*t he's been doin against me.

Have you guys ever met a guy who gets off stealin other ppl's girls or the girls that they want? The one who does it to spite other people and tryin to piss them off...Its not like he actually likes them but the thought of "cuttin" competition off and winnin the prize satisfies him. When I first met him I was actually helping him meet girls and even my female friends. He was nice to me face to face but behind my back he is trashtalkin, jealous and sees me as a threat. I don't give a crap if he gets the hottest girls here in residence..its just hes doin a lot of indirect things to try piss n spite me. Do you get the picture now?

I never threw the challenge in the first place...thats not my style. Im always trying to learn from other people who gets the girls (even him) but his style is not my style. Most of the girls hes been with absolutely despise him now. Most of the girls I've been with are either good friends or still sleeping wit. In the past 24 hrs I've made out with 3 diff girls and sleptwit a barmaid. so i am doin it right AND fair.

So what am I suppose to do with this rat chewin on my ass? My first initial reaction is violence but he is really skinny and relies on the fact that he is physically harmless and hides behind his only friend (big guy but nonetheless he f*cked him over too) So...one hit and hes out but I kno that wont solve things. Hes bragged to someone that Im supposedly under his thumb and hes got the upper hand when I in fact didnt even know there was a "game" happenin in the first place. I ignored it at the start and played it cool but now he thinks hes got free reign and no one would put him in place.

Now wat is the most mature and DJ way to solve this matter

 

[Phyzzle]

Now wat is the most mature and DJ way to solve this matter

What matter? What is this guy DOING to you?

You "heard from somebody" that he was "saying things" about you? So what? Stop letting pissy little things like that bother you.

 

[KillaCam]

Your frustration is his fuel.

He is nothing to you. Therefore he should not get a minute of your consideration. I know I know..it ain't easy being the bigger man, but if you spend half as much time working on becoming a better person, as you do worrying about this dude, you're better off for it.

Play your game, mack your ladies, and let him run his mouth. It's not your job to counter this guy, he'll beat himself eventually.