SteR,
You have an deep insecurity which needs to be fixed.
A crybaby ego says..."I'm not sharing my woman with anyone because she is my girlfriend.. We love and respect each other. She is my pacifier. No man touches my woman. Hands off! Don't disrespect me by flirting with my girlfriend!" I will fight you." Texts and calls her all the time. Always touching her. Getting jealous when guys flirt with her. Serious, romantic behavior. Weak.
How does she truly respect and desire you? You treat her that she is not high priority in your life. You cancel dates, go out with other women, set up multiple dates in one evening, talk to other people when on a date with her. (non needy, non emotional behavior.)
To be honest I don't want her to treat me high priority either. She needs a life of her own and I would prefer she talks to other people too cause it shows confidence.
A deeply secure guy says....."hun, I have to cancel tonight. We will get together soon" Show her love. But do it with non-needy behavior. On a date say to her...."I want to see you kiss that guy over there." She won't do it. She is thinking "this guy is secure himself, he is not attracted to me, my seduction powers are useless to him." Which challenges her more.
You live for yourself. You don't need a woman to make you happy. The best thing your secure self can say is......"Babe go have fun tonight. Then meet me afterwards." Your attitude needs to be securely EPIC in yourself. That type of non needy, emotional strength is like kryptonite to women.
