Fruitbat
Master Don Juan
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- May 3, 2013
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I'm back in the dating scene. Joined a site and probably got 5% response. Got 2 dates but not hot. Probably lower than I'd date usually, but I actually like their personality, and I just want a god damn woman!
I just don't get why women put themselves through the carousel. The poor returns I've had....some of the chicks blanking me are nothing special whatsoever.
I deliberately don't contact 8s and up in my age range. Genuinely I'm not an 8, I'm prob a 5-6 on looks. I'm 33 and I haven't got the time left to mess around chasing hot Women. I actually want a partner and a family (don't worry, I don't tell them that!)
I am 6 feet 2, have an awesome job. Only issue is I haven't put effort to my photos and I'm carrying 10 pounds or so, but not really fat, just standard for most men my age. Play sport so still got some muscular shape.
Anyway, tall, no kids, solvent, very good profile description. I thought I'd be a catch for the 5s and 6s I'm attempting to date. The level I'm dating is so far below it's frustrating.
Are these women stupid? They must be dating guys well above their level.....do they really think they want anything but to bang them? I read all these tales of woe, women who are on there for 2YEARS trying to find Mr right, going through 12 dates....12! All I want is to find someone compatible and get on with it. if you are honest with yourself, as these girls should be, you should find a partner who actually values you in no time!
I am beginning to get the red pill, but I just don't understand the superficiality of them. They obviously go through the many messages they get with NO thought of "is he actually the sort of man you see marrying women like me" but "these are the top 2 lookers, I must date them regardless"
No wonder women get so bitter about male commitment. If they dated men in their league, they would have no issues with commitment.
Just can't get over it. I'm working on the (very slight) weight issue and will get some better pics, but its absolutely staggering the women turning me down. I have a great command of the language too, I work in sales. I would seriously doubt my approach e-mails are the issue. I would guess men's health cover man would do better saying "sup".
rant over but it's totally bizzare, I never realised the extent of the alpha thing but I actually feel sorry for women, getting used over and over because their basic nature and ego is so competitive they can't settle for an appropriate partner and must chase the dream, until they end up jaded, bitter and ugly, and alone. The sad fact is that because of this attitude, it's doing the same to men. Women's lib helped one group - single, highly desirable men. That's it.
I just don't get why women put themselves through the carousel. The poor returns I've had....some of the chicks blanking me are nothing special whatsoever.
I deliberately don't contact 8s and up in my age range. Genuinely I'm not an 8, I'm prob a 5-6 on looks. I'm 33 and I haven't got the time left to mess around chasing hot Women. I actually want a partner and a family (don't worry, I don't tell them that!)
I am 6 feet 2, have an awesome job. Only issue is I haven't put effort to my photos and I'm carrying 10 pounds or so, but not really fat, just standard for most men my age. Play sport so still got some muscular shape.
Anyway, tall, no kids, solvent, very good profile description. I thought I'd be a catch for the 5s and 6s I'm attempting to date. The level I'm dating is so far below it's frustrating.
Are these women stupid? They must be dating guys well above their level.....do they really think they want anything but to bang them? I read all these tales of woe, women who are on there for 2YEARS trying to find Mr right, going through 12 dates....12! All I want is to find someone compatible and get on with it. if you are honest with yourself, as these girls should be, you should find a partner who actually values you in no time!
I am beginning to get the red pill, but I just don't understand the superficiality of them. They obviously go through the many messages they get with NO thought of "is he actually the sort of man you see marrying women like me" but "these are the top 2 lookers, I must date them regardless"
No wonder women get so bitter about male commitment. If they dated men in their league, they would have no issues with commitment.
Just can't get over it. I'm working on the (very slight) weight issue and will get some better pics, but its absolutely staggering the women turning me down. I have a great command of the language too, I work in sales. I would seriously doubt my approach e-mails are the issue. I would guess men's health cover man would do better saying "sup".
rant over but it's totally bizzare, I never realised the extent of the alpha thing but I actually feel sorry for women, getting used over and over because their basic nature and ego is so competitive they can't settle for an appropriate partner and must chase the dream, until they end up jaded, bitter and ugly, and alone. The sad fact is that because of this attitude, it's doing the same to men. Women's lib helped one group - single, highly desirable men. That's it.