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[Luke Skywalker]

Adultfriendfinder has turned out to be an absolute dud so far. Not one email from anyone or reply and it looks like money is better spent on a hooker than wasted on a site like this that clearly isn't working. This is probably going on the 7th day I've been on that site and counting. What a disaster.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

You paid to use Adult Friend Finder?!! If you are going to pay, there's much better sites to use.

 

[Cod3r]

Get a life... seriously u can borrow mine for a wknd



-COd3r

 

[Luke Skywalker]

It would seem that people are not viewing my profile with respect to the type of messages that I am sending them. Therefore, I'm just thinking of sending one or two line messages that are non-sexual, that may just randomly ask people out 'I like x,y,z, about your profile, and would be interested in getting to know more about you', and try to ask about three non-sexual questions'.

Goal is to see if this increases the mount of people reviewing my profile. This will take place within the next two to three days of attempts. I took the cheapest membership - silver - but I dont care, we are just looking for one success, and if a silver membership cant work, while another site is working well, then I'm not buying any further membership.

However, as good as experiment is, I'm thinking of shutting down the whole thing because it appears that one person may be calling the bluff of the whole operation, and if that happens, it all has to shut down. After all, that is the goal. I'm not sure I even want to get deflowered by a random stranger on the internet, but let's just see how far it can go.

Anyway, I like this, because I'm facing sexual rejection upfront, sort of like some matrix, I'm being totally transparent online with even my 'attitude' being expressed as well this could work as a great therapy plan when I interact in real life. Cool.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

You paid to use Adult Friend Finder?!! If you are going to pay, there's much better sites to use.

I've heard two positive testimonials, or a few positive tesimonials about it and decided to try it for one month. If it doesn't work for me, than it's a one time fee that's wasted, and that's that. But, I have the right to try it out, and if it bombs, try out ANOTHER site next time.

It's sort of a fantasy trip, because I'm already aware that the odds on those tyep of sites are messed up, so in a sence I'm not 100% serious, but still think that it will be helpful since it's all behind the screen, so you dont have the 'friendzone', or dating drama of in person stuff, it's all behind the screen so, no big deal.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Get a life... seriously u can borrow mine for a wknd



-COd3r

I already have one. It's all inside of myself - my own world, my own concepts, and my own way of seeing things and my own challenges.

 

[Desdinova]

Wow, I haven't read your post in a month or two. Looks like nothing's changed.

Anyone who writes sh1t about me risks getting AMOGed.

I'm soooo intimidated.

Adultfriendfinder has turned out to be an absolute dud so far. Not one email from anyone or reply and it looks like money is better spent on a hooker

I could have told you that.

If you want to waste money, send me $20 every month, and I'll send you a different pic of me and my woman every time! It's kinda like one of those "sponsor a child" things, but instead you're sponsoring a LTR.

I'm thinking of shutting down the whole thing because it appears that one person may be calling the bluff of the whole operation, and if that happens, it all has to shut down. After all, that is the goal.

Dude, I seriously think you've lost your mind.

You're the proverbial puppy forever chasing his tail. All you do is philosophise about dating and give advice based on your philosophy. You have qualified to write a mainstream book about dating, and to write advice columns in Maxim magazine.

I've seriously never seen such slow (or non-existant) progress from one person on this board until you came here. Let me ask you this question: what have you actually done in the last six months?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

On top of changes on the way I write messages (i.e. try to be non-sexual, and ask them questions about their profile), I'm going to 'lose the attitude' complex and try and portray myself as a fun and ambitious person as opposed to a negative, dejected, defeated and frustrated one.

This is assuming that I'm going to continue with this. Only 5 people have seen this 'negative' profile, but I've sent more than 5 messages out in proportion (something like 30-40 messages) may have been sent out.

Anyway, looking into this later.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I intend to stay within the premise and focus of this thread, which is the evaluation of adult online dating sites, and making them work.

I'm scheduled to meet someone tommorow, who has looked at a negative profile and seems to accept the idea that I'm a geek and have no experience with woman, whatever, and wants to see me and 'help me out'. She's not a hot babe, but she looks good enough. She even thought I was using her for sex because she thought my pics looked good enough and wouldn't believe I had problems with women other than what I wrote on my own profile.

If this works out tommorow, or whever we meet, and she's willing, whether or not I do anything about it is irrelevant, it will be the dissolusion of this whole thing. It is as simple as that. If something 'wrong' occurs beyond tommorow that continues.

 

[BBX]

I intend to stay within the premise and focus of this thread, which is the evaluation of adult online dating sites, and making them work.

I'm scheduled to meet someone tommorow, who has looked at a negative profile and seems to accept the idea that I'm a geek and have no experience with woman, whatever, and wants to see me and 'help me out'. She's not a hot babe, but she looks good enough. She even thought I was using her for sex because she thought my pics looked good enough and wouldn't believe I had problems with women other than what I wrote on my own profile.

If this works out tommorow, or whever we meet, and she's willing, whether or not I do anything about it is irrelevant, it will be the dissolusion of this whole thing. It is as simple as that. If something 'wrong' occurs beyond tommorow that continues.

ROFL> Luke might get pvssy

 

[Desdinova]

I intend to stay within the premise and focus of this thread, which is the evaluation of adult online dating sites, and making them work.

I swear to god, if we had a sosuave secret santa and I had to buy a gift for you, I'd get you a lab rat.

 

[skip2mylou781]

Let me ask you this question: what have you actually done in the last six months?

well, he AMOG'ed me pretty bad, that deff counts

 

[BingoBango]

i fvckin LOVE this guy

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Ok, guys, I'm no longer a virgin.

No seriously, I'm going to meet this girl next weekend instead as she was not feeling well. I've taken a break from lavalife and am not interested in pursuing anything further in terms of a 'deflower'.

I have a profile on craiglist, but havne't uploaded a photo yet, but am not in a hurry as I already seem to have two prospects who are willing to deflower me or be my first-time.

On adultfriendfinder, I'm still chugging along, changing profiles around, etc... playing around with it. However, I'm toning down on the deflower thing there, and am just continue to log on that site, etc.... thinking of buying a webcam to fix some cybersex / phone sex encounters and at least get my money's worth for that site in so doing.

 

[BBX]

Ok, guys, I'm no longer a virgin.

So u physically stuck your penis in a vagina and it wasnt a dream?

 

[Scott7906]

So u physically stuck your penis in a vagina and it wasnt a dream?

Haha, I to very much would like to know this. Somehow I very much doubt it. Can we get a confirmation on this one Luke?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Re-read my post. I said, 'no seriously', which is the same as saying 'just kidding'.

She's emailing me, and really seems interested, and seems 'level-headed' about the whole thing.

I'm certainly meeting people of different religious backgrounds. Earlier this year, on the intimate section, I meet a Jewish fat girl, this month it is an Islamic black girl, I hope I dont turn this date into any 'religious discussion' as that is usually a mood killer. It has happened before - perhaps the conflict of sexuality and religion is something that will remain internally incongruent, let's see where this goes. But, as long as she's not paganistic or occultic or fanatical (she wouldn't be on a sex section if she were anyway), then there should be no problem.

THIS IS IT. LAST RESORT MONTH. ZERO-GAME. Or known as Juggler's Natural Game bootcamp. Just be my geeky self, no books, no manipulation, just act like I'm not good with girls, try to get people to feel sorry for me and help me out and just be a natural me. Here we go.

On adultfriendfinder - I'm now the CHAMPION OF THE UNDERDOG - and have proudly proclaimed myself to be a geek, and PROUD OF IT, and NOT CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK. Seriously.
It's my own psychological training. WHO CARES WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK - ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE COMPUTER SCREEN AND CAN DISSAPEAR ANYTIME.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

ONLINE BOOTCAMP WITH ADULTFRIENDFINDER:

- A woman was kind enough to give the following advice on my profile:
a) Try and sell yourself to women. (Obviously, it doesn't necessarily mean being someone you are not, but at least over-exaggerate any positive spin you may have to the greatest extent possible).
b) Smile on some of the pics.

A poster here suggests to portray myself as a fun loving guy who has amibitions and goals and it would work.

MY THOUGHTS:

I'm resentful of the thought that I have to sell myself and display high value, it just gets to me how women are just so superficial. You have to display alpha/status, and stuff like that, and portray yourself as adventerous having mystery that they have go figure out.

I HATE THAT. I understand it, but I HATE IT. I HATE THE IDEA THAT I'D HAVE TO LIE BUT IT'S TRUE. BUT I HATE IT.

But it's the reality of the world that we live in. I resent it, I dont like it, but it's true, and I'm learning it on my ONLINE BOOTCAMP. I've learned it with the naive types of virgin women that have crossed paths. I didn't want to play the stupid game. Again - I HATE IT.

So, how do I like something that I hate, like everyone else on here who games or lies? Sure, the ends justify the means. Maybe it will just click later. Maybe it's clicking now. I actually have to sell myself before age starts creeping up on me, and I lose even more points or something.

Darn, women are so superficial - alpha status adventure mystery, arrgh!

BUT IN THIS BOOTCAMP, I FALL DOWN AND GET BACK UP AGAIN, BECAUSE IT'S BEHIND THE COMPUTER SCREEN AND LIKE I DONT CARE. The way bootcamps should be.

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LAVALIFE: -- got lucky, still waiting for confirmation.

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[Luke Skywalker]

The girl I was supposed to meet today changed her mind as she said she couldn't do it, and could not proceed with the casual hookup since she is more of a romantic and would feel crappy if she meet someone to do it that way.

This means porn is allowed until end of month - it would have been cut short if I failed, but since it's her fault, it's still allowed. I have one last prospect to pursue who is coming in from her vacation by tommorow. I'm going to proceed to ask her out and do the exact same thing with her within seven days.

She's sexually frustrated she couldn't get a man to get with her in New Zealand, and is coming back very sexually frustrated from her trip. Well, going to up the antes with her next week and see where it goes. In a worst case scenerio, there is always a prostitute.

 

[LA_Chico]

yo nigga dont resort to a prostitute bro! Just keep on keepin on dude!