Note: Just noticed that you are in the UK...same things still apply
HeyPachuco! said:
The fact of the matter is the "MAJORITY". The majority says through media and from what I'M saying and witness is that lighter skinned Black girls with european features are more sought after than, say, your fuller lips and broader nose darker skinned Black girls. Lighter skinned black women are more acknowledged in the media than darker-skin women. Anyone who debates that, surely is in a delusional reality of their own. That is what is. I don't make the rules.
If you wanna add in skin complexion, then extremely pale women have it just as bad as really dark women. However, dark women can't make their skin lighter by going to the tanning bed.
Now, if we are talking about skin complexion, then I will give you that..lighter skinned black women are seemingly more sought after by black males in America
(and the UK).
But, it doesn't mean that humans in general are inherently more attracted to lighter skinned people. For instance, many of the black women (and I've been around black women all of my life) appear to be more attracted to very dark skinned black males, than lighter skinned, or white men. But, this is just the world that I perceive.
In other words, there are other variables present here and it doesn't necessarily conclude that lighter skinned women are inherently more attractive than darker skinned women.
HeyPachuco! said:
My ex-girlfriend was Mixed Race, her dad was Black and her mom White. This is what she told me and this is what I see. Some of my lads are Black, they all go for White or Lighter skinned Black girls, not to say that Darker-skinned black girls aren't sought after too. Just not as much as the lighter ones.
Well, in my reality, the opposite is true. I work around blue collared, black males and ALL of them would prefer a darker skin woman with black features to white women. Or, are they just fooling themselves? I would imagine you would say they are even though you've never met them.
From what I've seen of you, you are white, and I almost expect any black male that hangs around you, as well as other white males casually, to be white washed in some form or another (they may even act "urban," but still date white women).
So, who's right, me or you? Your reality versus mine.
Anyone who thinks differently than me, is delusional (see what I did there?).
HeyPachuco! said:
Do a poll and ask the guys their preferences, here dude.
A similar poll has been conducted already; however, it turned into body types rather than facial features. If you didn't see it, the majority of black males preferred women with curvy bodies that had some thickness, more so than white males. Why is that?
Might it be the same regarding facial features if a REAL, scientific poll was conducted, using empirical evidence?
HeyPachuco! said:
Lighter skinned black women are more acknowledged in the media than darker-skin women.
Seriously now, why do you think that is? Think about it. What is the majority ethnic group in America
(and the UK)?
It simply appears to me that many white people are trying to white-wash other ethnic groups in America (
and ALL OF OVER THE WORLD [However, that's not to say that white Americans are the only ones guilty of doing this and that it's an inherently bad thing]) by telling us what is attractive and what is not.
The same is done here when we talk about clothing. You have guys who tell you to dress like a man...well, what the FVCK does that mean?
What it means is that everyone wants everyone to be like them. So, we got guys like you who try to tell us that black women aren't attractive unless they have white features. You're a bltch.
Bottom line is, there is no FACTUAL basis to what you guys are saying (which I'm guessing is that white females are the most attractive of all the ethnic groups) and TONS of variables that cannot be properly tested due to SOOOO much bias amongst humans.