Older I get the more I hate women

[Gamisch]

You are 26. You have a long way to go.


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OP is young but it's a slippery slope. You dont wanna enter 30 league (your absolute prime as a man) with this mentality. Long dryspells will await you. Seen it happening with many dudes. Gotta find a way to make dating work somehow. Women are what they are.

You gotta love the fact you hate women, and not hate them because you love them, if that makes sense.

 

[forcerecon01]

The OP may be blunt but he is really not far off the mark.
Women are in fact children. Most of them are in fact incredibly and frustratingly less intelligent than we. I’m trying to say it subtly here.

I learned a while ago that I needed to stop looking to women for intellectual stimulation. That’s what my friends are for. Look to women for affection and nurturing. That’s what they were built for. A women should be your helper, as the Bible describes God’s intent for her creation. She can be little more than these things.

You will never understand them because they are randomly emotional beings. Look at the clouds in the sky. They appear to have ever-changing form. Get in a plane and try to grab a handful of cloud. It can’t be done. That which appears to have rapidly morphing form really has no form at all.

Your job as a man is to train your woman to be the best a woman can be. She will never be capable of thinking like you do. You train her to be a nurturer and helper. You delight in her childlike ways, even though on the other side of the coin those same childlike qualities also bring strife.

I think that what often causes us so much grief is that we expect women to think and experience like we do. They cannot. They are slaves to emotion. They are largely incapable of changing and bettering themselves because they are locked within a web of social tensions and have very limited self-awareness.

Do not be fooled by the women who hang out here. They are far from representative of the average woman.

Use a woman for that which she was designed: Nurturing, admiration, and general help in the home. Reward her for those qualities and punish her (remove attention) when she goes into brat mode. Enjoy the positive side of her childishness. Never engage in arguments past explaining your position. You will never, EVER be able to rationally convince her of anything in an argument. The facts go over her head, for you are arguing with a child.

We men need to shift our expectations of women and first and foremost pursue our purpose in life. Women are an adjunct to a well-rounded life, and not the focus. Here is a secret for those who are new to the game: The last thing they want is to be your main focus. They instinctively know their place as an adjunct to your life, and are repulsed by men who make them their primary focus.

Women have power over most men because they are formless. The only way to counter that is to be equally formless and unpredictable in the masculine sense.

This is just one of my many stream of consciousness posts. For all I know, the thread topic might be “What’s your favorite ice cream?” Once I get going, I sometimes forget why the heck I started writing in the first place. But perhaps within these mad ramblings lies a bit of useful truth.

Mint Chocolate Chip.

very well said.......

 

[logicallefty]

The OP may be blunt but he is really not far off the mark.
Women are in fact children. Most of them are in fact incredibly and frustratingly less intelligent than we. I’m trying to say it subtly here.

I learned a while ago that I needed to stop looking to women for intellectual stimulation. That’s what my friends are for. Look to women for affection and nurturing. That’s what they were built for. A women should be your helper, as the Bible describes God’s intent for her creation. She can be little more than these things.

You will never understand them because they are randomly emotional beings. Look at the clouds in the sky. They appear to have ever-changing form. Get in a plane and try to grab a handful of cloud. It can’t be done. That which appears to have rapidly morphing form really has no form at all.

Your job as a man is to train your woman to be the best a woman can be. She will never be capable of thinking like you do. You train her to be a nurturer and helper. You delight in her childlike ways, even though on the other side of the coin those same childlike qualities also bring strife.

I think that what often causes us so much grief is that we expect women to think and experience like we do. They cannot. They are slaves to emotion. They are largely incapable of changing and bettering themselves because they are locked within a web of social tensions and have very limited self-awareness.

Do not be fooled by the women who hang out here. They are far from representative of the average woman.

Use a woman for that which she was designed: Nurturing, admiration, and general help in the home. Reward her for those qualities and punish her (remove attention) when she goes into brat mode. Enjoy the positive side of her childishness. Never engage in arguments past explaining your position. You will never, EVER be able to rationally convince her of anything in an argument. The facts go over her head, for you are arguing with a child.

We men need to shift our expectations of women and first and foremost pursue our purpose in life. Women are an adjunct to a well-rounded life, and not the focus. Here is a secret for those who are new to the game: The last thing they want is to be your main focus. They instinctively know their place as an adjunct to your life, and are repulsed by men who make them their primary focus.

Women have power over most men because they are formless. The only way to counter that is to be equally formless and unpredictable in the masculine sense.

This is just one of my many stream of consciousness posts. For all I know, the thread topic might be “What’s your favorite ice cream?” Once I get going, I sometimes forget why the heck I started writing in the first place. But perhaps within these mad ramblings lies a bit of useful truth.

Mint Chocolate Chip.

Outstanding my friend. Headed to Walmart now to get a frame to put a copy of this in. Absolutely outstanding.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

You realize your mother and father had to have had sex for you to have been born, right?

We are evolved to be this way. So is every other species on the planet. And in other news, the sky is blue on a sunny day.

Sorry to break it to you, but women are the ultimate inspiration for men. Always have been, always will be.

A positive mindset is good, but only takes you so far. Sugarcoating is, and always will be, a fool errand.

Men, never trust a grown man who idolizes superheroes. EOTP sounds like Stuart Smalley should he wear Superman jammies to bed.

I get scared and freaked out seeing that picture ha ha
Never heard of him or seen him before but that picture is just a fvcked up soy boy where my gaydar also goes to max warning level.
Basically the left movement today where loads of guys are like this lol

Sort of sad too I suppose that we come this far..

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

You are 26. You have a long way to go.


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Age is a number man. I respect a 19 year old taking actions rejections and failures in women and life over a 35 year old who never tried at anything

 

[BillyPilgrim]

If you live and die by a woman's fart, you really have very little going on in your life and deserve nothing. All you're really telling me is you have very low or no aspirations in life, and are as fragile as a rose. To vilify them for your own shortcomings is just doubling down on your refusal to accept reality.

Real men are not moved by what a woman says or does, because their personal challenges by comparison are magnitudes more dangerous and impactful. Women are meant to be an effortless and optional joy, not something you orbit, and when you challenge yourself relentlessly this effortless perspective manifests naturally.

If I'm fighting or working towards an important cause, do you think I give a fuuck if I die without having sex or a family or if my gf leaves me? Do you think I give a fuuck what other men think about my notch count? Why would I? Lol

Go read about the hope experiment and then tell me how 'a positive mindset only goes so far'. Again, we routinely underestimate ourselves. To hear you actively arguing against that and for weakness and supplication is disappointing to say the least. Please explain how it's to your benefit to constantly identify with being powerless. Is it because you're afraid of responsibility? Afraid of making mistakes?

Don't read into my profile pic so much, I don't idolize anyone.

Lol dude I was referring to men in general, not myself. I don't disagree with anything you say in this particular post, but I do think your reading comprehension could use some work. An individual man can have a generally fulfilling life without pu$$y, but we can't have a robust society if men on the whole don't get trim.

I'm not the guy who put sex on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs chart *twice*.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Lol dude I was referring to men in general, not myself. I don't disagree with anything you say in this particular post, but I do think your reading comprehension could use some work. An individual man can have a generally fulfilling life without pu$$y, but we can't have a robust society if men on the whole don't get trim.

I'm not the guy who put sex on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs chart *twice*.

Man is happiest fulfilling his potential and working. The great irony of learning to get girls is learning you don’t Need them and that’s when you get them.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Lol dude I was referring to men in general, not myself. I don't disagree with anything you say in this particular post, but I do think your reading comprehension could use some work. An individual man can have a generally fulfilling life without pu$$y, but we can't have a robust society if men on the whole don't get trim.

I'm not the guy who put sex on Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs chart *twice*.

Getting laid isn't difficult, sex and procreation are the easiest things the species can do, it's the least evolution asks of us. Supplication isn't required to continue the species, not even for 'men in general' or a 'robust society'. Women aren't a required inspiration for anything.

Do you really think attempting to undermine someone's character somehow bolsters your point? It does the opposite, it's something children do when they've abandoned reason and want to have a tantrum.

Let me save us both some time and remind you that there's nothing you can say to upset me, the only thing a poke at me does is make you feel a bit more emotionally secure. Do you need a hug?

I'm honestly flattered that my points have you feeling so threatened that you feel the need to waste your precious time trying to hurt my feelings.

If you can't effectively put your ideas into words, then there's not much I can do. My reading comprehension can only compensate for you to a point. Meet me half way, otherwise troll harder!

 

[SargeMaximus]

This is what I have found myself. We expect women to act and behave like men but they don’t. The saying, “men are dogs” is a pretty good analogy. Dogs are loyal and protective. They make others happy with their presence and affection they provide. Women on the other hand are like cats. They do what they want, change their behavior on a whim. Calm and collective one minute, than fighting and walking away the next. Some want to be in your business and some don’t want to be touched.

Expecting a cat to act like a dog is a fools errand.



Most conversations with women are pointless as they are solipsistic and insert themselves as the focus. Sorry honey, not everything is about you. This is where certain conversations are better with your buddies and not with women because they can not relate to your male perspective.



This is what we look for in a woman but not are built this way..



This happened yesterday as I was on my purpose and a woman got bvttsore she couldn’t get my time and attention. She came chasing after me which is the better scenario.

I’ve heard this a lot but it’s never been my experience. If I leave ‘em alone they leave me alone. If I give them a nudge, they come back. That is, if they haven’t left me of course. I’m talking about women I’m sleeping with.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Getting laid isn't difficult, sex and procreation are the easiest things the species can do, it's the least evolution asks of us. Supplication isn't required to continue the species, not even for 'men in general' or a 'robust society'. Women aren't a required inspiration for anything.

Do you really think attempting to undermine someone's character somehow bolsters your point? It does the opposite, it's something children do when they've abandoned reason and want to have a tantrum.

Let me save us both some time and remind you that there's nothing you can say to upset me, the only thing a poke at me does is make you feel a bit more emotionally secure. Do you need a hug?

I'm honestly flattered that my points have you feeling so threatened that you feel the need to waste your precious time trying to hurt my feelings.

If you can't effectively put your ideas into words, then there's not much I can do. My reading comprehension can only compensate for you to a point. Meet me half way, otherwise troll harder!

Did I touch a nerve Stuart?

 

[SgtSplacker]

I read somewhere that the bitterness is a stage to really unplugging. There is a point of acceptance so hang in there. Lately i've been realizing the lower my expectations of women are the easier it is to predict/understand their actions.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Did I touch a nerve Stuart?

Now you've got me questioning your reading comprehension

 

[LTG71]

I’ve heard this a lot but it’s never been my experience. If I leave ‘em alone they leave me alone. If I give them a nudge, they come back. That is, if they haven’t left me of course. I’m talking about women I’m sleeping with.

Their actions are an indication of interest. If she sees value, then she will stick around and try not to screw it up. If they leave, there wasn’t enough to stay. The idea of Hypergamy just came to mind.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I'm curious what you mean by women being formless. How do you figure? Because they are supplementary? I'm curious because you mentioned this makes them powerful, and I'm trying to get an idea of what kind of power you're referring to.

They are ruled by emotion, and emotions are like clouds in the sky, always changing, always swirling, one blowing by after another.

I perceive constant flux as formlessness; indefinability. Formlessness puts others on edge, at a disadvantage because they are unpredictable and not easily defined or formularized. Therefore men must always react to women's shenanigans.

This is also why we should strive for formlessness. I'm reminded of Bruce Lee's comments about water. If you want power, be water, my friend.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Outstanding my friend. Headed to Walmart now to get a frame to put a copy of this in. Absolutely outstanding.

Thanks. I just wanted to say that I'm so glad you brought back the spanking icon. I love it!

 

[DreamAgain]

The OP may be blunt but he is really not far off the mark.
Women are in fact children. Most of them are in fact incredibly and frustratingly less intelligent than we. I’m trying to say it subtly here.

I learned a while ago that I needed to stop looking to women for intellectual stimulation. That’s what my friends are for. Look to women for affection and nurturing. That’s what they were built for. A women should be your helper, as the Bible describes God’s intent for her creation. She can be little more than these things.

You will never understand them because they are randomly emotional beings. Look at the clouds in the sky. They appear to have ever-changing form. Get in a plane and try to grab a handful of cloud. It can’t be done. That which appears to have rapidly morphing form really has no form at all.

Your job as a man is to train your woman to be the best a woman can be. She will never be capable of thinking like you do. You train her to be a nurturer and helper. You delight in her childlike ways, even though on the other side of the coin those same childlike qualities also bring strife.

I think that what often causes us so much grief is that we expect women to think and experience like we do. They cannot. They are slaves to emotion. They are largely incapable of changing and bettering themselves because they are locked within a web of social tensions and have very limited self-awareness.

Do not be fooled by the women who hang out here. They are far from representative of the average woman.

Use a woman for that which she was designed: Nurturing, admiration, and general help in the home. Reward her for those qualities and punish her (remove attention) when she goes into brat mode. Enjoy the positive side of her childishness. Never engage in arguments past explaining your position. You will never, EVER be able to rationally convince her of anything in an argument. The facts go over her head, for you are arguing with a child.

We men need to shift our expectations of women and first and foremost pursue our purpose in life. Women are an adjunct to a well-rounded life, and not the focus. Here is a secret for those who are new to the game: The last thing they want is to be your main focus. They instinctively know their place as an adjunct to your life, and are repulsed by men who make them their primary focus.

Women have power over most men because they are formless. The only way to counter that is to be equally formless and unpredictable in the masculine sense.

This is just one of my many stream of consciousness posts. For all I know, the thread topic might be “What’s your favorite ice cream?” Once I get going, I sometimes forget why the heck I started writing in the first place. But perhaps within these mad ramblings lies a bit of useful truth.

Mint Chocolate Chip.

Good post.

I would add an obvious addition, since they are formless the majority have adopted the worst attributes that western society has propagated.

OP should, therefor, rename his post that he should rather hate society and what women it has produced.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Age is a number man. I respect a 19 year old taking actions rejections and failures in women and life over a 35 year old who never tried at anything

That's what women say, lose that. You are young, and even if you are mature enough, again, you STILL have a LONG way.

Don't be offended by someone saying that, that is also a women's emotional reaction. It simply means you are just starting your path to manhood.

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[SargeMaximus]

Their actions are an indication of interest. If she sees value, then she will stick around and try not to screw it up. If they leave, there wasn’t enough to stay. The idea of Hypergamy just came to mind.

For sure but if I nudge them and I get another fvck out of it then that’s all I care about. I don’t need validation, couldn’t care less what they think of me, and actions speak louder etc

 

[BadBoy89]

Women have power over most men because they are formless.

I wouldn't say that, women have always been formless, but did have not the power they do today.

I would say their power over men comes from the laws, movies, music, tv, socirty and the court of public opinion. From the time they are boys, men are consistently brainwashed to service decent looking young women at all costs. They have been told they are scarce, sex is of the upmost importance and men should behave properly and spend money to get it. When you have been brainwashed, you will act a fool to get the girl.

Notice this brainwashing is about young hot women who are childless. Men instinctively know how to act when the women is fat, menopausal, ugly, or older,

Like Hollywood says, to act in their movie, they ask ONE question: Is she “f*ckabke?“. Ruins the fatansy otherwise. But I’m going off on a tangent.

The only way to counter that is to be equally formless and unpredictable in the masculine sense.

I would disagree with that,

The only way a man to counter is to focus on his goal. A man can’t bring himself down to a woman's level, run on emotions and not be logical, he would destroy himself.

 

[Stoic]

There’s a lot of nonsense in this forum (as in other forums on unrelated topics) but this one is exceptional. Excellent discussion and a lot of wisdom in it.