Okay, how should I go about approaching this chick.

[Rock_Solid]

And I WILL approach her. I was going to today, but she wasn't there. Tuesday I just cowarded out, I'll admit that much.

And trust me, i know you, your just going to coward out again. Wanna know how i know that? Because i was you. Your one-itis for this girl is so extreme there is absolutely no way you are going to approach her, so my advice is just give up on her.

You think this is the easy way out? It may be, but this is what i eventually did and trust me, it works out for the best.

 

[Mr_rogers]

Anyone else notice that he ignores all of the good advice in a post and responds to anything that could be perceived as an insult instead?

 

[MrConfidence]

And trust me, i know you, your just going to coward out again. Wanna know how i know that? Because i was you. Your one-itis for this girl is so extreme there is absolutely no way you are going to approach her, so my advice is just give up on her.

You think this is the easy way out? It may be, but this is what i eventually did and trust me, it works out for the best.

Trust me you "don't" know me. And what I have for Marissa is not one-itis I just think she's attractive, and yes, I can approach her. And tomorrow I am going to approach her, even if it sucks, I still had the balls to go up there, which most guys lack.

 

[TheNewGuy]

Your obsessiveness, defensiveness and constant self-confirmation really make me think you might have something like a pervasive development disorder. From what I have first hand experience with, it seems like a mild mild case of autism.

 

[shydude]

Shes a senior, time is running out. Make a move now, dont wait, ignorance wont help in this situation. Now you see her with her friends chillin at the table, what do you do? Come up with a smile and ask if you can join them, just join the conversation. Once your alone with her, make the move. Dont hesitate, stay out of friends zone, and be confident. Btw if shes a senior and your like a sophmore, then dont be surprised when she rejects you. Gl

 

[naes420]

what ive learned about school is to not give a **** what anyone thinks, and girls ESPECALY THE HOT ONES will give you attention, when your in the middle of the hall and its crouded as hell and you see her just yell yes i mean yell HEY I KNOW YOU...she'll be like what......you say something like how could you not rember your best friend ever

or something like that...just made that up in two seconds, is that real so hard its not that hard to improvise im not gonna lie im probably not as ugly as you are as a matter of fact im above average and judging by you your not, but just try that kind of personality liek above

 

[MrConfidence]

Your obsessiveness, defensiveness and constant self-confirmation really make me think you might have something like a pervasive development disorder. From what I have first hand experience with, it seems like a mild mild case of autism.

Thanks for the input Doc, but I'm pretty sure if I had a real "disorder" a real doctor would've already told me.

Shes a senior, time is running out. Make a move now, dont wait, ignorance wont help in this situation. Now you see her with her friends chillin at the table, what do you do? Come up with a smile and ask if you can join them, just join the conversation. Once your alone with her, make the move. Dont hesitate, stay out of friends zone, and be confident. Btw if shes a senior and your like a sophmore, then dont be surprised when she rejects you. Gl

Actually I'm a junior, but yeah I get what you're saying.

 

[MrConfidence]

Alright, well yet another day, and I couldn't find the chick, you know what? This is a waste of time. Chick aint there and I'm tired of looking for her, I'm not a stalker or something. So if she did like me, too bad, I'm moving on to another chick.

 

[MrConfidence]

So now that this Marissa girl is permanently off my mind, what should I do? Should I just find another girl to approach at lunch?

 

[MrConfidence]

do you have friends that you hang out with regularly at school? if so, what kind of people are they?

There are these people I eat lunch with, that I could consider friends. I know of the dudes from wrestling, and 2 of the dudes from band. Though usually I'm not the guy who does a lot of talking, because I just can't seem to get into their conversations a lot.

 

[epitome]

My two cents: your idea about DJing is completely and utterly wrong.

One chick = guaranteed oneitis.

Go sarging and get a few numbers. Don't worry if you would be interested in the chick, just go do it - it sounds like you need the experience.

 

[naes420]

There are these people I eat lunch with, that I could consider friends. I know of the dudes from wrestling, and 2 of the dudes from band. Though usually I'm not the guy who does a lot of talking, because I just can't seem to get into their conversations a lot.

you such a waste of time...you have like what 6 peopel u think to be your friends (prlly dont consider you a close friend) lol....well why the **** dont you take the good advice like what i posted instead of only responding to insults toward you

 

[MrConfidence]

you such a waste of time...you have like what 6 peopel u think to be your friends (prlly dont consider you a close friend) lol....well why the **** dont you take the good advice like what i posted instead of only responding to insults toward you

Close friends or not, we're friends and we get along; for all I care that's all that matters. And I DID take your advice, I didn't respond to it, but I did take it. I'm just done with the chick. Why simply concentrate on her when there are several other chicks I could be talking to? There's this girl named Beth, that I'm sort of interested in who recently broke up with her boyfriend I might want to get with. But I'll probably never approach her because that would be awkward. Plus I know she's got friends that I have a reputation with so...

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

quit bumping his topics... let them die down... how many threads has he made with 4-6 pages?

stop bumping.

 

[MrConfidence]

viper, answer this: why do you think you are still unable to get girls after years on the site, while others who came to this site as losers now can?

It's because I'm a p*ssy, and don't have much confidence in my game, nor myself. I've read every article on this website, but I'm no better. I came to this site in my Freshmen year and actually approached a few girls, but none of those particular approaches were interesting, check my really early threads as "Viper" if you want to check those out. Then I don't know, Sophomore year I just sort of lost my drive, and this year isn't going that well either. When I first moved to this school district(8th grade) I pretty much gave everyone the impression that I was the quiet guy, and I think that's pretty much why everyone thinks I don't talk. And well, I am a quiet guy, and I admit I don't socialize much. Funny thing is is that in 7th grade at my prior school, a lot of people liked me; hell I even had good looking girls who would talk to me.

 

[BBX]

post a picture of yourself, ive always been curious to see who u are

 

[TheNewGuy]

I'm pretty sure if I had a real "disorder" a real doctor would've already told me.

Your obsessiveness, defensiveness and constant self-confirmation

Pervasive developmental disorders can go lifetimes without diagnosis. You need a specialist.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

yea post your PiXXX!!! pls.

 

[naes420]

It's because I'm a p*ssy, and don't have much confidence in my game, nor myself. I've read every article on this website, but I'm no better. I came to this site in my Freshmen year and actually approached a few girls, but none of those particular approaches were interesting, check my really early threads as "Viper" if you want to check those out. Then I don't know, Sophomore year I just sort of lost my drive, and this year isn't going that well either. When I first moved to this school district(8th grade) I pretty much gave everyone the impression that I was the quiet guy, and I think that's pretty much why everyone thinks I don't talk. And well, I am a quiet guy, and I admit I don't socialize much. Funny thing is is that in 7th grade at my prior school, a lot of people liked me; hell I even had good looking girls who would talk to me.

why are you mr confedicnce then dumb ****...7th grade you hadnt hit puberty yet so think, girls arent so hard to talk to if you grow some balls and realzie they arent so much differnt from males except set aside the sex part....from what you say you lost your balls at puberty

and a reputation isnt so hard to turn around and i said you shouldnt ****ing gcare what people think i yell at the top of my lungs whenever i see one of my good female friends and guess what yes everybody does stare and im sure alot of people shake there heads mabye even girls...but in truth they are just wishing they are that girl...mabye its a sign of confidence that they admire, who knows...dont be afraid to let go

 

[Peachez]

lol n00b