Ok, why did this girl ghost?

[SargeMaximus]

Guys, I even purposefully tried not to talk about sex or show too much interest this time yet this girl deleted her account shortly after. Pics below

 

[SargeMaximus]

final pic

 

[Bingo-Player]

I think it just Could be fake account , it looks pretty fake

Bumble and tinder both use them , and also loads of scammers do to try and sell prostituion etc

 

[SargeMaximus]

I think it just Could be fake account , it looks pretty fake

Bumble and tinder both use them , and also loads of scammers do to try and sell prostituion etc

Ah fair, that makes me feel better. Tbh, I’m on one hell of a dry spell rn. Lost my fwb due to listening to some stupid advice on here but that’s on me

 

[Bingo-Player]

Ah fair, that makes me feel better. Tbh, I’m on one hell of a dry spell rn. Lost my fwb due to listening to some stupid advice on here but that’s on me

Keep putting yourself out and creating opportunities eventually something will come , i smashed a Hb 4/5 3 weeks ago i cant say it was my finest hour but it ended the dry spell and sure enough now more plates are spinning

Women are very very odd unpredictable creatures they usually defy all logical thinking so it's insanity to try and figure out wtf they are doing

like i had a foursome last night and i still have little to no idea how it actually happened it took me 1 hour from set open to the apartment i

just put myself into the opportunity and run with it , i couldn't have intended it if i tired it was so random

There are times where you will feel pickup is impossible and there are time when it feels like the easiest thing in the world

 

[SargeMaximus]

Keep putting yourself out and creating opportunities eventually something will come , i smashed a Hb 4/5 3 weeks ago i cant say it was my finest hour but it ended the dry spell and sure enough now more plates are spinning

Women are very very odd unpredictable creatures they usually defy all logical thinking so it's insanity to try and figure out wtf they are doing

like i had a foursome last night and i still have little to no idea how it actually happened it took me 1 hour from set open to the apartment i

just put myself into the opportunity and run with it , i couldn't have intended it if i tired it was so random

There are times where you will feel pickup is impossible and there are time when it feels like the easiest thing in the world

Yeah I could t agree more. Thanks for the support, and that’s awesome I’m glad you had that experience.

 

[Romanemp22]

That's probably fake account, by the way of texting and also pic seems very professional to me so probably fake. Keep searching further

 

[cola]

Fake account or not you sound creepy af. “I want a friends with benefits” you don’t say sh*t like that.
Way to aggressive, way too straight forward.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Fake account or not you sound creepy af. “I want a friends with benefits” you don’t say sh*t like that.
Way to aggressive, way too straight forward.

Dude it’s the only way I’ve ever gotten laid was by being direct. You should see my “conversation” game when I try to do game the way you probably would suggest. I can’t pull it off

 

[SargeMaximus]

Fake account or not you sound creepy af. “I want a friends with benefits” you don’t say sh*t like that.
Way to aggressive, way too straight forward.

Here are some perfect examples of the girl being interested and me NOT being direct and they both ghosted pics Incoming

 

[SargeMaximus]

Pics continued

 

[Toddz]

Probably a fake account or she gets off on dudes thirsting over her.

My opener for being direct that has worked in the past is "My place or yours?"

They either ghost or are dtf and plans are made. No drawn out conversation that wastes your time. It's as direct as you can be and doesn't make you sound too thirsty or desperate.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Probably a fake account or she gets off on dudes thirsting over her.

My opener for being direct that has worked in the past is "My place or yours?"

They either ghost or are dtf and plans are made. No drawn out conversation that wastes your time. It's as direct as you can be and doesn't make you sound too thirsty or desperate.

Thank you for this. I will try that from now on. Cheers

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

You don't need to be Mr. Right you need to be Mr. Right Now.

Also OLD is 70% men on average and that is a fresh statistic, more scammers than women potentially

 

[SargeMaximus]

Probably a fake account or she gets off on dudes thirsting over her.

My opener for being direct that has worked in the past is "My place or yours?"

They either ghost or are dtf and plans are made. No drawn out conversation that wastes your time. It's as direct as you can be and doesn't make you sound too thirsty or desperate.

Oh one more thing: I don’t actually have my own place, I live with my brother. So how would you tweak that opening for that situation?

 

[Toddz]

Thank you for this. I will try that from now on. Cheers

Yeah no problem. My line filters out all the flakes and women seeking attention right off the get go. Either they are in or out, no wasted conversation in between. Leave all that kinky talk for in the bedroom or after the fact.

 

[Toddz]

Oh one more thing: I don’t actually have my own place, I live with my brother. So how would you tweak that opening for that situation?

Opener stays the same as it's all about context. Just have her come over when your brother isn't there.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Opener stays the same as it's all about context. Just have her come over when your brother isn't there.

What if I’d rather go to her place?

 

[Bingo-Player]

Here are some perfect examples of the girl being interested and me NOT being direct and they both ghosted pics Incoming

The chats are dead because the convo is boring and routine she has probably had that conversation 1000 times already this week

I think i have told you before but you have got too up your text game if your using these OLD platforms

Find something unique about her , then start busting her balls on it and then onto flirting

a good opener i came up with last week for insta which i want full credit for

" was about to say i like your profile but then i read your captions ( dead face emoji ) "

You better believe it got her attention and then some




this goes for everyone if you feel like you are going through the motions your text game is DEAD

 

[Dash Riprock]

Also, super easy to kicked off OLD sites these days especially for guys. Maybe she did.

I got kicked off of Hinge last year for too many "complaints." I'm always very respectful on OLD. But sometimes I just quit communicating for one reason or another. Some women get SO pissed about it I'm convinced they make up s&it and report you as an "I'll get YOU back move." Really f*ucked up.