Official MySpace Thread - How to pick up girls

[bukowski_merit]

i've talked to maybe 400 girls within a 100 mile radius of me on myspace (through email, i don't have the patience to talk on the phone; it bores me. At least on myspace i can do other stuff while i'm on there)... I've hung out with 16 of them... got to 1st base with 8 of them... had sex with 5 of them... put in close to 200 hours building my profile up, filling in the about me, tweaking it; posting bulletins, mass emailing people (using bots of course), responding to emails, etc... so if you do the math - so far it's taking me a week of work (40 hours) to get one girl to sleep with me. i don't think most guys on here are willing to put in that kind of work, but it was more of a test for myself and a result of college letting out.

However, i'm in a very good position right now to bed at least 10-20 more of these women who i stay in contact with 2-3 times a week (putting in work)... i got all of them talking about sex, and am currently testing to see how serious they are... one of them is a sure thing this saturday...

the guy who said that girls wanna see social proof is mostly right. I have about 2300 friends (all 6+'s who live within 100 miles)... I HIDE that fact (with codes), because that just looks bad; almost like i'm an attention *****... but i get 10 or so comments a day, my pics all have 20+ comments... when i first got on myspace it was hard to get people to accept my friends invite, it was hard to get comments, it was hard to even talk to girls (also because i wasn't sure how to do it yet) but really once the ball got rolling on comments, everything went smooth... now girls constantly are telling me 'you must be a pimp with all those girls all over your page' and stuff like that...

it's also best to develope a persona... it makes you stand out more... almost like a band has an image - you should have one too... your name, pics, about me, blogs, bulletins and your communication should show this persona...

with me, i've decided to act like a bukowski type persona. make it a point to show i'm a womanizer. make it a point to say i do what i want and don't care. come off as an *******; but show signs of a deeper sensitivity that i hide... so everything reflects this... one of my pics has me wearing a t-shirt that says 'the **** are you looking at?' which i wrote on a white t-shirt with black marker. this is women's oppurtunity to make a joke and say something like 'that messy room behind you, that's what i'm looking at' to which i'll respond 'wanna come clean it?'

simple nonsense... and i'd hate if i came across a guys page like my own... i'd say 'this cheap ****er wearing obvious t-shirts and passing himself off as something'.... but yet, it works so far...

and most of all - make women laugh... most women are bored on there, men hit them up all day asking for their number, asking them how their day was (which is ok sometimes as question #1). and no normal conversation is going to get their attention for long... use wit (figuring out what kind of wit they respond to is the hard part; often not solved by looking at their about me page with 8 pictures of topless men).

you cannot use most of the stuff we learn from the likes of pook, badboy, mystery and anyone else.... and i think that's why most of the people on here seem to be against it... it's a waste of time if you're trying to learn real-world seduction... cuz it's not even close to the same thing... real world is 10 times easier and a lot less trouble... stick with that, unless you're just experimenting like me....

 

[SomeKindaHate]

1. Use a div overlay to make your profile. This automatically hides your friends and comments. More advance users will be able to find your comments and friends list by using your freind ID to do it. But then again, 75% do not know how to do it.

2. Insert 2 of your best photos and do not photoshop them.

3. Spam the all the girls in your city, and tell them you're new to town. You could do so much with this.

4. Stay away from attention *****s, and search for girls who recently signed up to myspace. Myspace has an option to do this in Advance Search.

5. Get the number, not the IM.

 

[Mr_Aries]

I once screwed up big time with myspace, due to my lame AFCness. Told a girl I liked her alot and all that. I'd advise NOT to do that. She didn't reply (don't blame her) and now it is EXTERMELY awkard when I've seen her a few times.

 

[Mr_Aries]

bukowski_merit: he knows the score

 

[Reyaj]

1. Use a div overlay to make your profile. This automatically hides your friends and comments. More advance users will be able to find your comments and friends list by using your freind ID to do it. But then again, 75% do not know how to do it.

2. Insert 2 of your best photos and do not photoshop them.

3. Spam the all the girls in your city, and tell them you're new to town. You could do so much with this.

4. Stay away from attention *****s, and search for girls who recently signed up to myspace. Myspace has an option to do this in Advance Search.

5. Get the number, not the IM.

This is good advice.... but doesn't not having comments show hide social proof?


Bible I read that link you sent from the post. It was like from 2005. To tell you the truth I find some of those stories hard to believe.

I think Myspace is all about social proof and good pics. Unfortunately I am not photogenic so its been hard for me.

LIke some of the other say I'll get a response back from like 1 out of every 10 messages I send. But I have been pretty generic saying things like "you're beautiful" or "what's up beautiful" etc....

The girls that I've been more creative with will respond but then I end up trying to get to know them more and they like don't bother.

So yeah its a tough game just like the real world.


Bukowski

Are you serious? Whats your page???? We gotta see this :moon:

 

[SomeKindaHate]

This is good advice.... but doesn't not having comments show hide social proof?

Yes it does, but if you're trying to pursue girls on myspace then I think all DJ's should have more than 1 profile. One profile for close personal friends & family, and another profile for DJing. Using one profile will cause future drama if you're trying to pick up on girls.

Example of a DIV overlay profile:

http://myspace.com/andrewonrails (i do not know who this dude is)

You can disable comments, view friends option and any other default feature. Google "myspace div profiles"

For those with more than 1 profile, having a separate DJing default profile with barely any genuine comments or all hot girl "friends" (web cam girls, import models, AWs) is only going to make you look like an AFC. So its best to hide all that sh&t.

 

[Bible_Belt]

LIke some of the other say I'll get a response back from like 1 out of every 10 messages I send. But I have been pretty generic saying things like "you're beautiful" or "what's up beautiful" etc....

My response rate is much higher, probably over 70%, although admittedly much lower with the hottest women. But I never tell a woman she is attractive. That's what every other guy is doing. Establish a common interest, poke fun at contradictions, ask a simple question to get a response - all of these methods work better than telling girls they're beautiful. That doesn't work in real life; there's no reason for it to work on myspace.

You are right, though, that social proof and good pics are important.

 

[Reyaj]

Yes it does, but if you're trying to pursue girls on myspace then I think all DJ's should have more than 1 profile. One profile for close personal friends & family, and another profile for DJing. Using one profile will cause future drama if you're trying to pick up on girls.

Example of a DIV overlay profile:

http://myspace.com/andrewonrails (i do not know who this dude is)

You can disable comments, view friends option and any other default feature. Google "myspace div profiles"

For those with more than 1 profile, having a separate DJing default profile with barely any genuine comments or all hot girl "friends" (web cam girls, import models, AWs) is only going to make you look like an AFC. So its best to hide all that sh&t.

Hey you know I think you are right man. I'm actually running into this problem because I'm seeing this girl and I've been somewhat talking to a new girl from the space. So the new girl left me a comment saying she misses me..... so if the girl I'm seeing sees it she might become suspicious/angry

The DivOverlay profile looks cool but you can still see that person's friends if you click into that option. If you have tons of friends that are chicks doesn't that make you look like an internet troll per say?



BB


I'd love to hear your opinion on that Rich Dad Poor Dad thread debate that was going on in the anything else forum. Out of everyone here I'd say you have the most financial knowledge and can really weigh in on what philosophy works best to acquire wealth...

That being said back to this thread.

How's your success been with the law students? Have you met any of them yet... got into their clicks?????


I'm starting to get distraught with this myspace. I was talking to this girl for a bit sending messages back and forth and then I went ahead and asked her for her instant messenger screen name and now she hasn't responded (and I saw she read it)

wtf is with these girls!!!!!!!!

 

[Slick101]

This is what I have...

My myspace is private and I have a good default picture and My name says "I do not add or request"

However I still do LOL... Makes them wonder...

My profile background is Blank... Meaning I'm a busy gy and I dont have time for this myspace bull**** However, I have thousands of friends A top 4 with 3 guys And One HB 10 that I know.. as Number4

I have alot of Hot girls commenting me all the time and My about me Is.... (lets juss say People message me and Tell me they like to know more)

I have a nice song that makes you go to a sexual mood... Try ABOVE AND BEYOND Music search and check out the songs...

If I request girls they have to be hot... and I comment their most Ugliest pic and tell them... to default it cuz I think its amzing picure that shows their personality...

Alot of girls reply why or thanks....

This is where I express that they are a good lookin girl however, they need to change their about me...

And it goes from me teasing them to getting the IM...

Then number...

Then date...

 

[Reyaj]

This is what I have...

My myspace is private and I have a good default picture and My name says "I do not add or request"

However I still do LOL... Makes them wonder...

My profile background is Blank... Meaning I'm a busy gy and I dont have time for this myspace bull**** However, I have thousands of friends A top 4 with 3 guys And One HB 10 that I know.. as Number4

I have alot of Hot girls commenting me all the time and My about me Is.... (lets juss say People message me and Tell me they like to know more)

I have a nice song that makes you go to a sexual mood... Try ABOVE AND BEYOND Music search and check out the songs...

If I request girls they have to be hot... and I comment their most Ugliest pic and tell them... to default it cuz I think its amzing picure that shows their personality...

Alot of girls reply why or thanks....

This is where I express that they are a good lookin girl however, they need to change their about me...

And it goes from me teasing them to getting the IM...

Then number...

Then date...

Slick your method sounds like the best I've seen so far.... It sounds like you use the same myspace for your real friends as the girls you kick it to... so thats cool.

You say you have a good default pic.... what type of pose are you in though? Are you dressed fancy? No shirt with ripped abs? or with your hot car etc....

So please elaborate a little on the about me... as it seems to get them curious.

Your method of C&F = Screen Name = Phone Number sounds good!

 

[Reyaj]

Bump

 

[Slick101]

Slick your method sounds like the best I've seen so far.... It sounds like you use the same myspace for your real friends as the girls you kick it to... so thats cool.

You say you have a good default pic.... what type of pose are you in though? Are you dressed fancy? No shirt with ripped abs? or with your hot car etc....

So please elaborate a little on the about me... as it seems to get them curious.

Your method of C&F = Screen Name = Phone Number sounds good!

Default Pic: It is taken from underneath, I look like a sexy boxer with a hoody and I have a chin strap, Not to be GAy and Conceited... I think its a really good pic and I get tons of requests...

About Me: Try to make it as Interesting and Short as possible... Make sure its not in a paragraph,, make it into sentences and skip space like this

For example

I am Alex

I have many friends

I am a magician

My suggestion In your about me write somthing unique, state that your alpha, creative, caring and Funny...

Banter is the number one key...

Have only a couple of pix, personally I have 6 pix but they are the best pix out of 100 of pics I have...

Make them wonder... and want you more...

The key to myspace is Never comment their page... Cuz when they comment back they cant write anything that would make them look slutty they would not even comment back at all (defensive)

Always use banter... On her pix and fvck with the bulltins and picture comments...

I CANT STRESS ENOUGH OF USING BANTER.... Works a charm .... There are many methods but if your really good at teasing this works a charm....

 

[Reyaj]

My professional analysis of myspace, after using it to constantly get sex, dates, and girlfriends from there for the last 2 years:

THE GOOD

- its very easy, lazy pimping, and as long as u tell the girl online everything she wants to hear, then you will get her #, and she'll wanna hang out with you. (example, if shes a party girl, mirror her and talk alot about partying and fun stuff. If she is a sweet romantic girl, be sweet and act like you are a really nice guy (trust me, do that and then be the suave player that you are when you meet her, the romantic nice guy thing is just BS where you are telling her what she wants to hear)

- if done right, you can pull 10 #s from different girls per night, just by sitting there for a couple of hours and typing alot. THis is like sarging, because the end result is the same - you got some #s

- contrary to popular belief of chumps who have no look using myspace, there ARE good looking girls that like meeting guys on myspace, you just gotta play your cards right (i have met at least a dozen girls that are an 8/10 or better)

- ive met about 4 girls that were very good LTR material, they were nice sweet and good looking, and the only reason it didnt work out is because i started being a jerk a few months in and i decided to dump them (but I am currently dating 2 girls right now that I have met off of myspace, and they are indeed great catched

- fear of rejection does not exist. There is no approach anxiety. Thus if you are really good on dates, but are really bad at approaching, then myspace is the PERFECT way to pick girls up


THE BAD


- lotsa flaking, but the way to fight this is to make plans with 3 different girls for the same night, and then if 2 of them cancel, you still will hve a date.......and at worst case scenario, YOU will have to flake on the other girls lol, which might just raise their interest level

- SOME are uglier in person than in pics - dont meet any girl if you think this is a possibility.

- you have to look at the very least cute in your pics, otherwise you have no chance

- alot of girls will not even reply to you, NO MATTER WHAT YOU WRITE. So you need to play the #'s game and keep it cool......out of every 20 messages you send, you will probably get only 1/2 of girls to even read your message, no matter what it is



THE REALLY REALLY BAD


if you are over 18, and u talk to a girl who is under 18, then u are seriously testing the water because it could be a cop and you might get arrested (very rare, but why take the chance???)

- you message a girl, and her crazy jealous AFC boyfriend reads it, and replies to you telling you he wants to kill you (lol just not a pleasant read, ive gotten a few of those)

-alot of time spent..........just trust me on this......you will feel like that you are spending too much time doing it just to get some azz

- you become addicted to the fact that it is so easy, which leads to the WORST of the really bad:


YOU STOP GOING OUT.

(at least in my case)

I now spend all of time on on dates with girls i meet from myspace, but i never go out to bars or clubs or parties (at least not for the last 9 months or so), just because I always have at least 20 #s in my phone and can always holla at a girl and chill with her. This is good and bad. Good cuz I have dates and stuff to do, but its REALLY BAD because it leads to social isolation and it just makes me lazy and not wanna go out. Over time, this may be a very bad thing, because it reduces your social skills (i am speaking from exprience, this isnt theory)


CONCLUSION

use myspace to land p$ssy, but be careful of side effects

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[ToughLove]

this is the official myspace thread:


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=108030&highlight=instructions

 

[ToughLove]

it had great advice and many replies, but then again its locked so i see why u started a new one lol

 

[Reyaj]

Yeah dude there's a bunch of them.... so I figured I'd just make an official one

 

[NickSCFC2000]

I got an 8 month relationship with a girl I met on MySpace, 8 in terms of looks, 10 in personality.

Then we broke up and I got a 10 in looks, 7 in personality but dumped her cause we had nothing in common (regret it now cause she was mad about me).

Now I can't get anything on there,

 

[Reyaj]

Nick nice!

Share the info.................. How did you get these girls?

 

[Someone Much cooler]

yeah I think location has alot to do with it, jayer is out in NYC, there are better chances to meet chicks there than say kentucky.

 

[Reyaj]

closer to San Fran right now actually.... but I've visited the east many times!