Observations after being married

[Pandora]

As you probably know I recently married a foreign chick. Passport bro gang lol.I put up a profile pic of it on my messengers but I did not put it on any major social media. I kept it low key. Here are some observations.

1.) One of my long time female friends found out I was married. She was crying. Not out of happiness but out of " damn even this slut idiot is married". I need to hurry up.

2.) Another female friend just blocked me from everywhere. This girl was a former co worker. The most sexual girl you have ever met. She does " professional" work too. We first met and she did like me but I did not want to mix up with a crazy chick. I am very vulnerable to them. I am afriad of BPDs now. Also I didnt want to mix work and pleasure with her. Also I liked someone else.

After a while she rarely hung out with me. We would chill maybe once every 6 months for food. She sometimes would flake. She never showed any signs of liking me romantically after the intial week. So I am confused as to why she blocked me. Maybe she was harboring feelings. Crazy women are chaotic I swear.

I have a theory that every girl in your life sees you as a potential husband ( even if its only 1%). Once that is taken off the table many of them discard you out of sadness and bitterness.

3.) Women are more friendly when you wear a ring. They are more comfortable with you.

4.) Some family and friends dont congratulate you. A lot of people dont want to see you happy.

5.) Most people do congratulate you and are happy for you.

6.) Some women want to sleep with you more after you get married. They dont care.

Who knows how long this marriage will last. We will give it our best shot and hopefully it will be happy until we die.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

You sure you love your wife? Since I got married I don't really care what happens with my old female acquaintances or former lovers and I am not interested in arranging any meetings with them.

 

[SW15]

I have a theory that every girl in your life sees you as a potential husband ( even if its only 1%). Once that is taken off the table many of them discard you out of sadness and bitterness.

I can see that as true.

If I announced a marriage across all my social media channels today, it's possible that some women I knew during high school or college might see the announcement. Some of them could be bitter about it, if they are single themselves. Most of the women I know from high school or college around my age are married and the single ones were previously married. It would be less common for me to know a never married woman from that phase of my life.

I have some female acquaintances that might see a marriage announcement on social media from me and have some sadness/bitterness about it. This would also be uncommon given my social circle but someone at the fringes of my social circle could be in that spot in their lives.

 

[Manure Spherian]

6.) Some women want to sleep with you more after you get married. They dont care.

A coworker asked me out the week I got engaged.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

When my work found out I got married. I was told one of the slvtty girls at work lamented ‘I wanted to try him out. I heard he has a big one.’

 

[DJ Novice]

Being married is a sign of preselection which works in your favour. As is being divorced after a long marriage (it shows you can commit over the long term).

Women are very competitive. A married woman is at the top of the totem pole amongst her female friends, a single woman is at the bottom and a girl with a boyfriend is in the middle.

Unfortunately if you are just casually seeing your girlfriend and are not living together, engaged or married then she will want to climb the totem pole to achieve those for herself at some stage due to peer group pressure.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I have a theory that every girl in your life sees you as a potential husband ( even if its only 1%).

What do you mean? I’m sure a good chunk of women I know or have known didn’t and don’t give a rat’s @ss about having sex with me, let alone marrying or “dating” or being “bf and gf” with me.

 

[zekko]

I have a theory that every girl in your life sees you as a potential husband ( even if its only 1%). Once that is taken off the table many of them discard you out of sadness and bitterness.

I don't think it's necessarily sadness and bitterness. They could discard you out of practicality: "Well, he's off the list".
I confess that I loosely keep track of the girls I know who are single. I have a girlfriend, but should something happen, it gives me an idea of who I could potentially go out with. Kind of like a "break glass in emergency" type of thing. It's not that I have any feelings for any of these girls, they're just on the list.

Women are more friendly when you wear a ring. They are more comfortable with you.

Knowing your married takes some pressure off, on both sides. Women can safely talk to you without thinking you're going to be hitting on you. Except the girls who are looking to bang other women's husbands, of course. Also, when you are married and have a regular girl around, you know how to relate and talk to women almost automatically, out of experience. So naturally you get along well with women.

I noticed this when I was a young man, a lot of the time a married guy would come in and be very comfortable around the girls in the group and charm them easily. I suppose there's a confidence level also, knowing that they're desirable enough to have a wife.

 

[jhonny9546]

I have a theory that every girl in your life sees you as a potential husband ( even if its only 1%). Once that is taken off the table many of them discard you out of sadness and bitterness.

Also, on their side:
when they marry, they'll actually "turn off" orbiters.
If they will divorce, they will "turn on" the orbiters back.

every girl in your life sees you as a potential husband

this particular statement is true for your old women friends, like those from your childhood.
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