Observations about college sex life from someone that went to a party school.

[Clockwerk50]

Whatever Tennessee is, I feel like Georgia was a much worse version of that. Looking back at it, I cannot get over how cliquish the environment was even in the alumni space. I went to some alumni meetups in Atlanta and some in NYC and everyone always had an angle. It was what they can get out of you and if they could not get anything out of you, then forget it. It never clicked for me when I was there but looking back at it, man Athens was one overrated and cliquey environment that I have not seen out of other college environments. There is really something wrong with the culture in suburban Atlanta and Athens itself. It just felt like a miserable environment to be a part of.

I have been involved with rich people from the northeast and west coast and they were way more inclusive. Meanwhile, some typical suburban Atlanta kid usually comes off as smug despite not having that much to be smug about.

I lived in Georgia from 2001 to 2008. I did not go to a university there but I did go to high school. I can understand their societal seclusion and why the preppy people that live in Kenessaw do not want to associate with how ghetto towns like Decatur or Gwinnett County can be like.

 

[Drmuscular]

@Drmuscular - Are you currently a college student? You are 20 and that is the age of a typical current college student.



Social ostracization depends on the college. I didn't see it much at my college in undergrad (2001-2005).

Most college students do form monogamous, committed relationships to get laid. Most of the guys attempting to live unattached lifestyles and put up big notch counts end up failing. There's a small percentage of men on all campuses who can successfully have sex with many women but they are offset by the unattached guys getting ignored and not scoring.



As an 18-20 year old, why would you have luck with women 27+? That's not your target market.

Looks matter more than money on campus. However, men with family money who flaunt it with awesome possessions can experience sexual success.



I have called my undergrad alma mater "Hot Girl U" on here before. It wasn't a legacy SEC school. It's interesting how University of Georgia alum act. I haven't interacted with too many Georgia alumni randomly in Dallas in the past decade +.

Some colleges tend to attract certain personality types. It seems like the personality type that goes to Georgia is not great.

Yeah I'm in College, and as for social ostracization, things have changed I guess, mind you my college is famous for being left leaning in my country.

It is VERY left leaning, there is communist propaganda everywhere although i do not consider myself "right wing" anyone can see that the shid on my uni is radical.

And so "players" "manipulators" "emotionally unavailable men" are not looked favorably, and funnily enough hoes do not look good either because i live in a conservative country, they have a bad reputation but they don't get "cancelled", so its a weird mix i guess. Things get to the point were some of the "players" get "cancelled" on social media specially if they cheated on an ltr (saw once on insta a dude who got "cancelled" because he cheated with like 15 girls who were new at campus), or even on campus people put their faces on papers in the walls and say these guys are creeps or whatever but that usually happens with dudes who either ****ed up their women really bad emotionally and even physically or dudes who just don't get a hint / actual creeps.

Because of that I rarely date inside my own college, when I do I usually go mode 1.5 (being honest and whatever but not sexually explicit), really saves your ass specially if you date one of them crazy hoes they have no proof of you doing anything wrong. I will say that not every woman here cancels players and some of them are publicly against cancelling, but their fat feminist friends encourage them sometimes so I rather not risk it and date exclusively outside of my social circle and only flirt with women I know well, others I just treat them with respect and because I'm kind of handsome they usually forgive me when I slip up or say not so feminist things unlike my other less attractive friends.

I'm not sure how it works on other colleges but that is my current experience.

And yeah man sometimes there are mature women out there who I would gladly hookup with, but I understand I'm probably not what they are looking for.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

Touching briefly on Atlanta culture, when I was there in the 90's people thought the thing to do was to have a big house out in bumphuck Cherokee County or someplace and have a 90 minute one way commute to your job. It's like having that in SoCal and trying to delude yourself the commute was desirable. To these people, this was "making it".

Edit - it was like that in the 00's as well

I think Georgia as a state, or at least the cities I have been in a lot (namely Athens and Atlanta) deserves a special case study on its people. I have been throughout the south and throughout America and the state is uniquely awful, or at least became that way this century. For starters, people just seem real sketch or having an angle. It is like everyone is trying to get something out of you or screw you over in some way. Even when I go back, it feels sketchier and sketchier compared to the rest of America.

At the same end, it is about as snotty and stuckup as it gets for a state too.