Obedient Women - Good or Bad?

[Immaculate]

This girl that was my ex, who is now moving back in with me is obedient.
She does whatever I tell her. If I say suck my d!ck right now b!tch! She will do it. Seriously. I wouldn't actually say it in those words, but I have asked for the favor more pleasently. I mean she does whatever I tell her and never objects.

Would you guys like a woman like this?

 

[WestCoaster]

No ...

... I want a woman with her own brain. You just gained a puppet, not a girlfriend, and why in the h-ll did you ask her to move in with you. That's the AFC move of the year. There are zero advantages to this other than sex, and you can find a 'ho paid or unpaid anywhere in this country.

You have some issues man, the first one is learning how to live without women and develop some DJ skills. You're obsessed with women.

 

[Immaculate]

Re: No ...

Originally posted by WestCoaster
... I want a woman with her own brain. You just gained a puppet, not a girlfriend, and why in the h-ll did you ask her to move in with you. That's the AFC move of the year. There are zero advantages to this other than sex, and you can find a 'ho paid or unpaid anywhere in this country.

You have some issues man, the first one is learning how to live without women and develop some DJ skills. You're obsessed with women.

I CANT DRIVE FOR A YEAR

That's one of the reasons.. I hate to say it but I'm sort of taking advantage of her.
And she has a "brain" she is actually smart. I have just macked her in love with me so much she does whatever I say.

 

[WestCoaster]

I still think it's pathetic

A DJ doesn't need to take advantage of anyone or anything. He has his own life, car or not. He then buys a bicycle or walks.

Sorry, but your life just sounds pathetic to me. You need obidient women, you need their approval 24/7, you need them to drive for you ... God, get your life in order. And why in the h-ll can't you drive for a year, DUI?

That's a wake up call man. A woman can't save you from the stuff that you need to clean up in your own life.

You shouldn't be "mackin'" or whatever (heck, at 27 you shouldn't even be using the word mackin'), you should be working on bettering your life. The last thing you need in this world is some bimbo/airhead/obedient woman. You need a career, a driver's license, and some balls to live your OWN life.

 

[Immaculate]

This is a girl I dated for 5 years, it's not like she's a stranger. 5 years.

 

[WestCoaster]

After one year ...

... you know if you want to be married or not. After that, it's a waste of time. Whether she's a stranger or not, she's a waste of time at this point in your life.

You should be building your career, hobbies, interests, passions, intellect by yourself and dating on the side without a woman living with you.

You have your entire life to live with a woman; at 27 you should be completely free.

Self-imposed enslavement -- ugh!

You're wasting your time, IMO, and I don't care if she's a glorified taxi driver with boobs. She's a waste of time.

 

[Immaculate]

Re: After one year ...

Originally posted by WestCoaster
... you know if you want to be married or not. After that, it's a waste of time. Whether she's a stranger or not, she's a waste of time at this point in your life.

You should be building your career, hobbies, interests, passions, intellect by yourself and dating on the side without a woman living with you.

You have your entire life to live with a woman; at 27 you should be completely free.

Self-imposed enslavement -- ugh!

You're wasting your time, IMO, and I don't care if she's a glorified taxi driver with boobs. She's a waste of time.

She hasn't moved in yet, I called her and told her I'm thinking it's a bad idea and we're going to talk about it tonight.

 

[WestCoaster]

Good move, don't mean to be so harsh on you. Combo of not enough sleep and sh-tty weather here today has me wired. Do what you want ... I'd advise against having her move in.

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by WestCoaster
Good move, don't mean to be so harsh on you. Combo of not enough sleep and sh-tty weather here today has me wired. Do what you want ... I'd advise against having her move in.

I haven't f@cking slept since the 17nth, since my DWI.

I'm still considering her moving in. What if I go to jail? Who's gona take care of my house?

 

[Desdinova]

What if I go to jail? Who's gona take care of my house?

If you're responsible enough to own a house, you should be responsible enough NOT to drink and drive. You should've thought of that when you decided that it was a good idea to drive after drinking your ass off.

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by Desdinova
If you're responsible enough to own a house, you should be responsible enough NOT to drink and drive. You should've thought of that when you decided that it was a good idea to drive after drinking your ass off.

It's called a mistake, ever made one?

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Immaculate
It's called a mistake, ever made one?

Lol... I've made quite a few. Just yesterday I failed to approach some broad because I was waiting for the "perfect" opportunity too. I'm an idiot!!



Ok... ok.. back to you.

Obedient chicks suck. I want a chick that is lippy and puts me in my place. I want a girl who will tell me to shut the f*ck up if I cross the line. I don't want some slave who I can just boss around like an idiot.

I used to have this one girl where I would just call her, tell her to come over, have sex with her, then tell her to go home. What an idiot this chick was! lol

 

[Tazman]

I have just macked her in love with me so much she does whatever I say.

Hmmm, I don't think any girl can be simply "macked" into being obedient, I'd say she was already predisposed to be this way, you simply brought it to the surface. A "normal" girl isn't just some robot who exists to please someone else.

I hate to say it but I'm sort of taking advantage of her.

You already know taking advantage of someone isn't a good thing. Do you really want advice or are you venting for a little ego boost?

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Lol... I've made quite a few. Just yesterday I failed to approach some broad because I was waiting for the "perfect" opportunity too. I'm an idiot!!



Ok... ok.. back to you.

Obedient chicks suck. I want a chick that is lippy and puts me in my place. I want a girl who will tell me to shut the f*ck up if I cross the line. I don't want some slave who I can just boss around like an idiot.

I used to have this one girl where I would just call her, tell her to come over, have sex with her, then tell her to go home. What an idiot this chick was! lol

West, like I said this was a 5 year relationship with this girl. She says she is in love with me. That's why she'ss do whatever I say.

She is coming over tonight and I am going to tell her not to move in.

So, any advice on sarging girls on foot?

 

[ElChoclo]

I'd like one.

I disagree with the majority view.

Obedient girls have to find someone just like anyone. Consider the exact opposite personality. Who would be the easier one to get along with. Then again people here would suggest that you chuck the ones on the other end of the personality spectrum. So only those who fall into the Goldilocks "just right" part of the personality spectrum are acceptable.

You could be married 50 years to such a woman, but I doubt whether you'd make it with a volatile enchilada.

Why don't you tell her that you want her to participate in a threesome. Then will you be happy when she finally doesn't do something you tell her to do.

 

[Desdinova]

It's called a mistake, ever made one?

I've made lots, but I'd hardly call this a mistake. I highly doubt the judge is going to buy "I accidently got behind the wheel and turned on the ignition while intoxicated"

Anyway, having a woman who is highly obedient would raise a red flag with me. I can only guess there's a history of abuse somewhere in her past.

 

[Jamo]

dunno

I actually would like an obedient chick as long as she looked after herself too....

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by Immaculate
West, like I said this was a 5 year relationship with this girl. She says she is in love with me. That's why she'ss do whatever I say.

Ask this of yourself: Is she settling for you?

 

[thissucks003]

Originally posted by KarmaSutra
Ask this of yourself: Is she settling for you?

That wouldn't really matter. I wouldn't think like that. That would only put doubt in your mind.

Immac,

I would be very careful to push her too far into telling her what to do all of the time. There will be a point when you push her too far and she will wise up and drop your azz. Every relationship is about balance. If everything is about you, she will start to dispise you until she reaches a boiling point and she will just explode. She sounds very passive and will go along with the flow to keep everyone happy. Those are the kind you don't want to piss off. They will take shiiit for a long time until it will come to a head and then forget about it.

TS

 

[TheTrimReaper]

Immaculate,

Hey Man,

Hope you get some sleep soon. Not sleeping will tear you up. You would think that stress should make you sleep more, but it's the exact opposite. I slept 2-3 hours a night for two months man. I've been there and know how it feels. Not good....

I don't think you are going to be doing any jail time. You'll most likely lose your license for a year and that'll be it....like I told you before. That's what's happened to everyone I know who's gotten a DUI.

Again, I regret the way it all worked out man. She let you down and that sucks.

With this ex-now partner, I wouldn't confuse obedience with benefits. You see, if she is acting the way she is, she is getting some benefit out of it. Women do not do something without benefitting in some way. So don't erroneously assume that she is just 'obedient'. You might think she will stay with you no matter what you do. But that's not the case. If you take away what you can provide her (whether it be a house, companionship, money, great sex...or whatever) she won't be 'obedient'. Believe me. Women do not work that way.

Just want to let you know to be careful.