Re: Another depressing story here
Originally posted by SlyDonJuan
I am almost similar to your situation wise_mage. My life improved a little bit since I last posted "How to change from a total loser who is nothing into something?".
Basically, I dont get as much @ss as you do. I think you have gotten laid much more compared than I do. I even think of giving up right now because women are making me depressed. I am feeling hopeless and dont want to even think or try anymore.
But nevertheless, after a few months, I got up again and start over and then I crashed again, coming back to this site to improve. You're right when you mentioned that jerks get @ss all the time. It is surprising that even nice girls want jerks to f*ck them.
In the Art of Seduction, it is written that if you played up your seductive qualities and your nasty behaviour, you will be able to attract women in large number. In other words, play The Rake. The Rake is nasty, scruplous, dishonest but this only adds to his seductive appeals. Women are drawn to him ALTHOUGH he is a jerk! And he gets @ss all the time. Like others have mentioned, it's up to you to decide what you want to be. If you want to be a jerk, go ahead. As long as it gets you what you want and you're happy, FINE! Why are you still hesitating to become a jerk?
Now I begin to wonder whether what we have learnt here is really working or are they just fantasy? Hmm.....
So many years have been spent reading different kinds of materials and books and yet only little success is achieved.
ok sly, first and most important remember this and repeat it to yourself every morning: there are no losers in life, losers are a myth. everyone is something and everyone is unique and precious. we are without value because there is no mathematical measurment that could limit us. we are children of the universe and of mother earth. we are a miracle amogst miracles. search the internet for this poem called DESIDERATA and u`ll know what I mean. keep it close to you and read it everytime u start to lose perspective. remember, just because u dont get pu$$y, doesnt mean u r not a winner.
second: I have not gotten laid. thats one of my problems. the closest I was to getting laid was almost 3 years ago my friend.
as u see, I am no super seducer. the thing is I love pu$$y. and I seriously want to bang a chick. a cute one that is. so Im aimiing on getting one. but its not that easy. the process is in fact kinda frustrating. and thats where this post comes from. from one of those moments u feel like ur d!ck is never going to make it inside some wet pu$$y unless u cut the **** and start working on it. man, concerning sex, it sucks to be a guy. women can get it at any time they want to, but to us its very hard. precisly by the fact that most chicks feel its the only thing they have to offer (and believe me, they are not very far from the truth) and they dont give it up that easily. especially in my religious full of **** coservative country. im sure that if I was living in the states, I would have banged a couple of chicks already. anyway....
ur right about every single woman on the planet wanting to be f*cked by a "bad exiting unpredictable funny (and even rude and violent at times) man" whatever the **** that means to them. this kind of man (a man whose traits often live in everyone of us just as within him live the traits of a total nice guy - this means we can be whomever we want to be) is often called a jerk. I think he should be called HEROE since he feasts on tits* and ass* on a daily basis.
women somehow think this men **** better and have bigger ****s (size does matter to them believe me just like it matter to us). my theory is they somehow think that they can have the luxury of trweating women like crap precisely because they have a big **** and **** good.
at the end of The diary of Bridget "Im the most stupid piece of ass on the whole ****ing planet" Jones, the nice guy kisses her and she says "wait.... nice guys dont kiss like this". What!!!!!!!! B!tch, u dont even know what the f*ck ur talking about. I could handle u and 2 of ur stupid friends at the same time.
as much as they hate to admit it, its all about sex with women.
the feelings, love, and all that crap is just something they invented so they could have a man take care of them after they became fat old and ugly. thats where the nice guy comes in.
u know how many ****ing jerks screwed bridget jones when her tits were hard? tons. tons and tons. they used her and she used them because thats what its all about to most young women.
remember they just wanna have fun, whatever the hell that means. and then when shes 3 something and she has a fat cellulitic ass and her tits are not that firm anymore and the jerks r using her as a second dish cause they r going for the younger girls , she then starts to look for the nice guy whom she will probably cheat on once hes supporting her dumb fat old ass.
I better stop, Im starting to get angry at women again.
its not their fault though. most of what I just said is very true but its also bullsh!t. remember most are very weak and for most, the only weapon they think they have is sex.
we r men and we have the power. I even kinda feel sorry for them. they were born with all the disadvantages except in this particular area of life. especially in third wolrd countries such as mine. and once they get over 40, almost nobody wants them.
they become desperate. if we keep in shape we can be attractive until we hit over 60. plus, what a drag it is to have to wait for the man to approach. how boring. we instead have the power to apporach. anyway, I m gonna go. try to figure out some way to get laid. its so hard man. they dont give it up that easily.
everytime u start getting down think of how ugly women feel. It all get better believe me.
