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[nismo-4]

You already know what you need to do.

1) Stop wasting time on sites and in the gym and get yourself a side job or something. Make that money to get your surgery ASAP. It's a confidence killer and you will always use it as an excuse.

2) Go out and join activities where you will meet people, especially girls. Try yoga or dance classes or even a cooking class. If you can't attract girls after meeting them then obviously you are not attractive enough and need to go after less attractive girls. I never find a problem getting a girl interested in me whether new place I go (usually the hottest girl at that) so you just gotta meet them.

3) If you have time after all these, work on your attractiveness. Get some game, fix up your looks, work hard and build a career. Be a man, live your life well and girls will come easy to you.

This is some of the most truthful sh*t I've read on this site! I must award you rep!

 

[Kerpal]

Doesn't sound like your saving money plan is going on too well. Stop being lazy and get that side job. You need to make sacrifices to get ahead.

I have a job and I'm a full time student. It's hard to save up that much money when you don't have mommy & daddy to pay for everything. The surgery is very expensive and it's not covered by health insurance because it's considered a cosmetic procedure. Don't talk to me about sacrifices, you have no idea how much I've missed out on because of this.

Anyway, that's enough derailing. Let's get back to the topic.

 

[CoolBlue]

I dunno something just doesn't add up to me.

I believe I've heard you complain about your man boobs years ago. You must have been planning to get the surgery for a long time.
How is it that you are still nowhere near your goal? The surgery is probably just several thousand right? Let's put the number at $4000. A good side job and working through your school breaks and you'll make that in less than a year.

Next you are telling me you are busy at school and already have a job. Well what kind of job is that and how is the pay like?
Somehow you still have the time to hit the gym for hours a week and bragging about your lifting numbers. And i see you have over 2500 posts here and also have viewed and messaged hundreds of girls online. You obviously have time to take on another job to make more money to get your surgery more quickly.

Sacrifice = giving something up in hopes of getting something better. You didn't miss out on anything because you gave up something. You might enjoy hitting the gym so often now, but you might have to give it up if you want something better more quickly. Just like most kids have to give up video games and TV to study and work so that they can have a better life in the future. Find out what you really want.

There is no more topic left. Online dating sucks. Once you fix your confidence problems and get out to the real world you will wonder why you even bother with online dating sites

 

[Kerpal]

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