i find it almost impossible to have sex when i have to wear a condom, because it gets soft and i can't manage to wear it, let alone stickin' it into her. unfortunately, she's just 16, so she can't take the pill. i've thought to have sex when she's on her period, plus with coitus interruptus. am i takin' too much risk anyway? what do u suggest guys? i don't really know why it softens, i don't think it's related to nervousness, since i'm really calm and relaxed when i'm with her...