Ok, so this girl I met at school a couple weeks ago that is from my home town asked me out to lunch or coffee yesterday. I consider the girl asking an IOI, and I agreed to meet her for lunch today. I have never hung out with this girl before, I just talked to her at a bar a couple times and got her number.
During lunch, I noticed several other signals:
-touched her neck several times
-played with her hair sporadically
-played with her necklace
-played with the two rings on one of her finger, twisting and moving them around
-good eye contact
-laughing at a lot of my comments/stories
When the bill came, I guess the waitress assumed we were a couple and put it on one check (why do they do that anyway?). She got out her wallet and after some talking it's clear that her family is well off, but I said that I've got it, it wasn't an expensive lunch. Also, the fact that the girl was actually willing to pay her share earns her major points in my book and makes me more willing to pay because it's not expected of me. She insisted on getting the tip and asked if I wanted a coffee at the nearby coffee house.
We got drinks and sat down and talked some more, and I noticed more of the same IOI signals. I am having a party tomorrow night at my house and invited her to come with some friends if she wanted (she's single, and specifically said she would talk to her girl friends). She told me to give her my address later, so I texted her and she responded saying she had a good time and thanks for paying for lunch that was sweet.
Now, I KNOW everyone says when a girl says you're sweet that means friend-zoned, but all of the other signals point to her being interested. Also, she didn't say that I was sweet, she said my action was sweet, and I think there is a difference in that.
I guess we'll see if she comes tomorrow how interested she is, but any thoughts?
During lunch, I noticed several other signals:
-touched her neck several times
-played with her hair sporadically
-played with her necklace
-played with the two rings on one of her finger, twisting and moving them around
-good eye contact
-laughing at a lot of my comments/stories
When the bill came, I guess the waitress assumed we were a couple and put it on one check (why do they do that anyway?). She got out her wallet and after some talking it's clear that her family is well off, but I said that I've got it, it wasn't an expensive lunch. Also, the fact that the girl was actually willing to pay her share earns her major points in my book and makes me more willing to pay because it's not expected of me. She insisted on getting the tip and asked if I wanted a coffee at the nearby coffee house.
We got drinks and sat down and talked some more, and I noticed more of the same IOI signals. I am having a party tomorrow night at my house and invited her to come with some friends if she wanted (she's single, and specifically said she would talk to her girl friends). She told me to give her my address later, so I texted her and she responded saying she had a good time and thanks for paying for lunch that was sweet.
Now, I KNOW everyone says when a girl says you're sweet that means friend-zoned, but all of the other signals point to her being interested. Also, she didn't say that I was sweet, she said my action was sweet, and I think there is a difference in that.
I guess we'll see if she comes tomorrow how interested she is, but any thoughts?