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It's like preparing to go to a fvcking war, is what it sounds like to me.
Yea, but either do this or get azz raped like Jonny Depp. Amanda Heard got 7 mill. from Depp for 2 years of marriage. One of those years, they were separated. BS that ain't happening to me.

And yea, Divorce IS war, so don't get married so you do not have to experience it. The best defense is an amazing offense.
 

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My neighbors look at me strangley sometimes when the see different women and different cars. Oh, well, sucks for them. My neighbor, who redid his exterior to now look like mine just bought himself a new Mustang Cobra. I joked with him... So, the mothership approved of this purchase? He didn't find that funny, but others did, with the women raising their eyebrows or having a smug look on their face.

Marriage used to be a right of passage for both people. Now, its security for the woman and a ball and chain for most men. Fact of the matter is that I've heard more than one woman in my office state after marriage, we're going to limit those bjs. It hurts my jaw or too much to swallow, etc. They mostly do it to get the license, security and kiddos. They know they got the man by the balls once that is taken care of.

Marriage, in general, is a losing proposition for the man. There is zero benefit. There is no guarantee of companionship. No guarantee of love, honesty or respect. No cleaning up the house (most women are messier than men; despite what Hollywood wants you to believe). No cooking (most think cooking in NYC is Uber eats or take out). No raising or rearing of the kiddos (that's what daycare is for).

So, I ask the forum, what is the point of marriage then for the man? Even if he had less resources than the woman, he'll really be up sh!ts creek if and when she decides to divorce. I know a few men that have two to three jobs just to pay alimony and child support. The attys really made a mockery of a once strong institution.
When I get bummed about a girl I like getting with another guy it immediately makes me feel better to think that the girl is probably dragging the guy through the ringer with her demands & strips him of his confidence, individuality, & happiness in the process. I love women, I really do..but I can't ever see myself willingly signing up to throw away everything about myself that I like like most beta married men do. I need to this like this when approaching- instead of wondering if she'll like me, I gotta ask myself "is this girl worth your blood pressure raising 50 points for?" Hahah
 

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Yea, but either do this or get azz raped like Jonny Depp. Amanda Heard got 7 mill. from Depp for 2 years of marriage. One of those years, they were separated. BS that ain't happening to me.

And yea, Divorce IS war, so don't get married so you do not have to experience it. The best defense is an amazing offense.
R.U.G. : The man with the 2014 Seattle Seahawks defense in the dating game
 

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When I get bummed about a girl I like getting with another guy it immediately makes me feel better to think that the girl is probably dragging the guy through the ringer with her demands & strips him of his confidence, individuality, & happiness in the process. I love women, I really do..but I can't ever see myself willingly signing up to throw away everything about myself that I like like most beta married men do. I need to this like this when approaching- instead of wondering if she'll like me, I gotta ask myself "is this girl worth your blood pressure raising 50 points for?" Hahah
Buffaloes has rings attached at their noses that's used to pull them around.

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When I get bummed about a girl I like getting with another guy it immediately makes me feel better to think that the girl is probably dragging the guy through the ringer with her demands & strips him of his confidence, individuality, & happiness in the process. I love women, I really do..but I can't ever see myself willingly signing up to throw away everything about myself that I like like most beta married men do. I need to this like this when approaching- instead of wondering if she'll like me, I gotta ask myself "is this girl worth your blood pressure raising 50 points for?" Hahah

I guess the problem is that men who grew up in the 70's - 90's were taught by their parents and popular culture to be more feminine and show your vulnerable side. That sounds all nice and good, but a woman's primal instinct goes against this in her mating and selecting ideology. Also, giving in to a woman's demands might, in the short term, work for a man, but in the long term, it's detrimental. She'll look at him as a weak man, not one who can look up to. Nothing wrong with attempting to meet the woman somewhere in the middle, but she has to also have skin in the game as well. If you're doing everything in the hopes and dreams of getting access to her body, it's not going to work. That's call transactional sex, and it's on her terms. Sex should be on your terms, not hers. If she doesn't give it up, you seek it elsewhere. She's playing a game. Or, as many here call, a sh!t test.

I've been reading this book, The Tactical Guide to Women: How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage by Shawn T. Smith. It's a good read. Highly recommend it to all here.
 

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Sometimes. The has to be proportional. Need a nice azz and boobs; along with a nice face.
I don't have any preferences with women.

As long as they have all the necessary assets, it's all good for me.

It's more towards how a woman amuses me.
 

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Marriage, in general, is a losing proposition for the man. There is zero benefit. There is no guarantee of companionship. No guarantee of love, honesty or respect. No cleaning up the house (most women are messier than men; despite what Hollywood wants you to believe). No cooking (most think cooking in NYC is Uber eats or take out). No raising or rearing of the kiddos (that's what daycare is for).

So, I ask the forum, what is the point of marriage then for the man? Even if he had less resources than the woman, he'll really be up sh!ts creek if and when she decides to divorce. I know a few men that have two to three jobs just to pay alimony and child support. The attys really made a mockery of a once strong institution.
Some decent points.

Yet what about all those couples you see in their 20s/30s who are married with 2/3 kids? They are all miserable? They are all handcuffed to the wife? They are all regretting getting married young and starting a family? Or is it all societal brainwashing?

If I had 2 kids with a woman I liked, as long as she doesn’t destroy you, emotionally and financially, I wouldn’t mind giving alimony and support.

It’s not so much about “committing” and finding “love”, it’s about having kids with a stable women. What’s the alternative?
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

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This thread is hilarious.

We have the married men vs the single men.

It's all good guys.

Just follow the masculine imperative, get the pvssy and spread some DNA around.
 

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Some decent points.

Yet what about all those couples you see in their 20s/30s who are married with 2/3 kids? They are all miserable? They are all handcuffed to the wife? They are all regretting getting married young and starting a family? Or is it all societal brainwashing?

If I had 2 kids with a woman I liked, as long as she doesn’t destroy you, emotionally and financially, I wouldn’t mind giving alimony and support.

It’s not so much about “committing” and finding “love”, it’s about having kids with a stable women. What’s the alternative?

Hmm, not sure. Rollo Tomassi had some videos on this. Maybe watch them for some insight. Having kids is not the miracle that Hollywood and moms say it is. Happens every 30 seconds. However, if a man has a kid, there is no reason why he has to also get married. Chances are, she will divorce you after a year or two anyway. I see it on Google News all the time. I have no problems with reasonable child support, but with some people, it really gets out of control.




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